Comments on: Why Cocky/Funny Is Killing Your Interactions with Women!

By: Thief

Thief — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 05:44:32 +0000

A girl I used to hit on using cocky funny told me I am weird at some point. However I’d fix that quick through the use of compliments and sweet words and such. We had great rapport. After we decided to stay friends, and she told me I was slightly cocky, but also very trustworthy and that she still trusts me a lot.

By: M for Malleficarian

M for Malleficarian — Thu, 28 Oct 2010 05:58:46 +0000

Quoth Webster’s:

Cocky: boldly or brashly self-confident(a cocky young actor of darkly handsome features)

funny:A: affording light mirth or laughter; seeking or intended to amuse: facetious B:DIFFERING FROM THE ORDINARY(for our purposes, the run of the mill Tom, Dick, or Harry visually groping half a 1,000,000 times per day that sizzling piece of ass you’ve locked in on)in an eccentric or PERPLEXING(she reads:mystique. He values and cultivates it.)manner.

Cam is most apt; as a “technique”, CYF is untenable. 2 concepts as paradoxical as the above don’t lend themselves to remedial arithmetic that guarantees any sex-starved burnout trawling The Strip 10min. behind the Dairy Queen with one of Ujena’s Top 5. As a profound revision in a man’s worldview that distinguishes falling down on your knees begging some flophouse trollop(whom you’ve already had a kid by) to stay long after whatever minute bliss once extant has vaporized

vs.

swiftly launching her suitcase out the front door whilst thinking to yourself: “Another one bites the dust. Let it never be said that 80s music is devoid of insight.”

however…well, all who’ve found their way here already possess intellect like the katana. Connect the dots on your lonesome. And be prepared to be too cocky sometimes, downright silly at others, and shot down by broads whose notion of wit is defined by Sinbad on vinyl and Everyone Loves Raymond.

By: No CF anymore

No CF anymore — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 02:36:04 +0000

smilar experience to what you mentioned in your blog…..one girl told she feels uncomfortable around me and it hurt her..i felt like shit after that…C.F means insulting as simple as that.

By: Erik Dahl

Erik Dahl — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 14:51:25 +0000

I don’t agree with using cockiness or cocky humor at all. Women will be insulted to the fullest degree no matter what. As a matter of fact, if you are a man like me, then you are physically fit, good looking, nothing but absolutely polite to all women and all others. This is exactly what all women claim they want in a man, but this is not true. If I even so much as look at a woman, whether she is attractive or not, they seem to be insulted by this very thing. They might try to recruit another man to physically attack me, or they would manipulate me as an insult, or they would just insult me personally, no matter how polite and king I am toward them. I am humble and I do not insult others unless they insult me. Even if they insult me, lately I have just been letting them continue to think whatever they may be thinking. The point is, if you have worked hard in life to be attractive to women, you will never have any woman whatsoever. I know this for a fact because this has been my only experience. The only women that I have ever gotten were either insane or drunk. No woman in the right mind wants to be with a good or kind man of any type. I am insulted by women no matter what I do or say, so I have decided to become an extreme male cheauvinist.

By: Grim0x

Grim0x — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 22:09:16 +0000

Harsh. I must say. And perhaps, unnecessary.
But I selectively agree with the above post.

You write on the premise of disagreeing with an certain angles taken by mr.DD, but truthfully, the content you’re advancing, is agreeing much with what he advocates…

C/F ought to be used as spice. Not the modus
operandi.

By: edmonds

edmonds — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 01:19:14 +0000

believe it or not this article is directly agreeing with mr. deangelo because his advice is to use c&f as a spice to add flair to a conversation to create and strenghten attraction. use it at the beginning to initiate attraction, then have a stimulating, real conversation spiced with a few c&f lines. why dont you read all of his books and material before u shoot your mouth about how it doesnt work. he teaches the correct body language to accompany it and how you have to act like a confident one who has superior genes over all men, this is all explicitly explained and detailed if you would read and study instead of skimming his info and trying to fill the gaps on your own. this is an ignorant article.

By: Grim0x

Grim0x — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 05:09:26 +0000

Some sentiments of this Article I can understand, from a personal level.
Having being a long time follower of “that certain gentleman” and being out there in the game, and observing my progress/responses, I gather much of what he is saying.

I’ve had cases where, the women took insult from me. Some are insecure – some arent fun. THAT IS TRUE.
But sometimes c/f doesnt work as he is saying. And I’ll share quickly, what in my experience, has been the cause:
One thing that “The Gent” has taken time to emphasize, which I think has been neglected mention of here is
: MAKING C/F A PART OF YOURSELF.

If you’re going through a routine, or following a “line” as the op puts it, a woman will be sure to sniff it out eventually.
BUT, if its genuine – theres nothing to sniff out.

From experience, and having experienced what the op speaks off – this I will say:
When it is that you’re just following a line – then things wont be as smooth as they should be.
You may say something in the wrong tone, the wrong words may come out, it will just be disingenuous.
IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE SOMEONE ELSE, BEING SOMEONE YOU’RE NOT, OR THE SLIGHTEST BIT UNCOMFORTABLE / reserving about what the response to your approach should be.
BE ADVISED.
The true power/concept of C/F HAS ILLUDED YOU.

C/F is an ATTITUDE/PERSONALITY>
NOT A ROUTINE.
Its less about how you say it
Even lesser about what you say.

When you make it a part of yourself – the scope of will CHANGE.
It wont necessarily be of the same nature as THAT CERTAIN GENT’s.
IT may be more mild.
It may be more playfull.
IT may be more C, or it may be more F.
IT may be more particular (of a certain situation).
It may be more about sex.
IT DEPENDS ON YOUR PERSONALITY.
But its a general concept, not a hard and fast thing. And when you implement it into your persona – I CAN ATTEST, that it will up your game, MUCH.
I want to be brief. But take one bloke’s experience:
Think of as MOLDING,and fusing this concept into your personality – the one you already have.
And not as taking on a big, and rash change to your persona. Not as becoming this “mr.cool” guy.
Just F.Y.I – cocky/funny is more about being superior to a woman, than it is about being “mr.cool”
If you think this notion is egotistic – then there’s to be learnt for you (whoever you are – nothing personal to the op ;))
You need to be the LEADER in a relationship. And it starts from your first encounter.
And its NOT about being bossy/controlling. But thats another matter – I digress.

If you dont change your perception of women, such that you see them as fun counterparts to play with, and jest with. – much like when you were in prep school.
And see yourself as man. IF you dont understand the roles – then this concept will be of less value for you.

But to reiterate, C/F, is something you HAVE TO, make a part of yourself, and REMEMBER, that it wont be just like HIS, – and his friend’s arent just like his either!
You’re making an attractive PERSONALITY, by fusing this into the one you already have.
In so doing – the SCOPE your YOUR C/F, will change.

By: K$AN

K$AN — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 00:08:58 +0000

I really can’t appreciate this blog enough. It kind of turned me straight towards the words I were looking for, as why Cocky Funny hasn’t gotten me results.

This should be at the top of that ‘certain gentlemans’ website. Seriously.

By: Leksei

Leksei — Sun, 22 Feb 2009 14:55:39 +0000

Great article! I started with c&f a couple of years ago, but had difficulties to implement it and often felt that I used it in a wrong way or had bad timing.

Now when I have more confidence, better calibration skills I sometimes find myself using some c&f, but in small doses and mostly with very secure and intelligent women or women who act having an up-fron bitchy attitude.

By: chazzreinhold

chazzreinhold — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 17:11:58 +0000

I just found your blog via sinn’s and I must say that it is possible one of the best written and well articulated blogs that I have ever written, seduction or not. Thank you for your great insight and advice.