Comments on: The 3-year Check Point http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/04/10/the-3-year-check-point/ Sat, 21 Jan 2012 15:44:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Not a PUA http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/04/10/the-3-year-check-point/comment-page-1/#comment-11319 Not a PUA Mon, 04 Oct 2010 21:32:53 +0000 http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/?p=609#comment-11319 Another superb, thought provoking article. Kudos to you Cameron!! I hear what you saying, I wished I heard it years ago. Dude your blog should be the first resource to read for anyone wanting to improve in this area of their lives. Not the Game, Mystery Method, DYD and alike. It will save years and effort. Get your SEO down man!! Another superb, thought provoking article. Kudos to you Cameron!!
I hear what you saying, I wished I heard it years ago.

Dude your blog should be the first resource to read for anyone wanting to improve in this area of their lives. Not the Game, Mystery Method, DYD and alike. It will save years and effort.
Get your SEO down man!!

]]> By: Dave http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/04/10/the-3-year-check-point/comment-page-1/#comment-1028 Dave Tue, 14 Apr 2009 02:39:09 +0000 http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/?p=609#comment-1028 Excellent post, Cameron. The community is something to dip your feet into, not a place to live. Pick up a few skills, improve your attitude, and start towards being the best person you can be. But you stay there, and it will destroy you. I'm in the best relationship in my life, with a beautiful, sexy, incredibly smart girl (Ph.D. from one of the top universities in the country) -- definitely a high value person -- and I would have never gotten her if I had use routines or canned lines or any of that crap. (And it is crap.) I attracted her by making the most of myself, trying to live a life that maximized my journey towards my higher self, and trying to be the best Dave I could be. I've used some stuff from the community, not as a means to control or manipulate her, but to understand her needs, wants, and subtext, in order to advance our relationship and our connection. But mostly it's been about being open, honest, and direct. Gary, the fact that you say that you are stuck in 6 and 7 heaven sends off warning signs. That you think of women in terms of numbers may be a symptom of something else. I'm no expert, but if you've been doing this for that long, and it's not working and you haven't walked away, there might be some other issue. Excellent post, Cameron. The community is something to dip your feet into, not a place to live. Pick up a few skills, improve your attitude, and start towards being the best person you can be. But you stay there, and it will destroy you.

I’m in the best relationship in my life, with a beautiful, sexy, incredibly smart girl (Ph.D. from one of the top universities in the country) — definitely a high value person — and I would have never gotten her if I had use routines or canned lines or any of that crap. (And it is crap.) I attracted her by making the most of myself, trying to live a life that maximized my journey towards my higher self, and trying to be the best Dave I could be. I’ve used some stuff from the community, not as a means to control or manipulate her, but to understand her needs, wants, and subtext, in order to advance our relationship and our connection. But mostly it’s been about being open, honest, and direct.

Gary, the fact that you say that you are stuck in 6 and 7 heaven sends off warning signs. That you think of women in terms of numbers may be a symptom of something else. I’m no expert, but if you’ve been doing this for that long, and it’s not working and you haven’t walked away, there might be some other issue.

]]> By: Gary http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/04/10/the-3-year-check-point/comment-page-1/#comment-928 Gary Sat, 11 Apr 2009 23:42:01 +0000 http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/?p=609#comment-928 This article really resonates with me as well. I have been at this for four years now and its still a real hard struggle. I have purchased Cameron's products (they are top notch), been to a few major bootcamps, had consultations but I still cannot attract the women I truly want. It seems like I am stuck in 6 and 7 heaven (when ever I am able to pickup) for the rest of my life. I had really high hopes for all this self help stuff. Its been very discouraging. This article really resonates with me as well. I have been at this for four years now and its still a real hard struggle. I have purchased Cameron’s products (they are top notch), been to a few major bootcamps, had consultations but I still cannot attract the women I truly want. It seems like I am stuck in 6 and 7 heaven (when ever I am able to pickup) for the rest of my life. I had really high hopes for all this self help stuff. Its been very discouraging.

]]> By: Dan http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/04/10/the-3-year-check-point/comment-page-1/#comment-917 Dan Sat, 11 Apr 2009 17:12:02 +0000 http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/?p=609#comment-917 Loved this post. Actually, I enjoy most of your writing, but this one particuarly resonated with me. I consider myself a success story, even though objectively, there are tons of guys who get laid more than me. Oddly enough the turning point came at another company's bootcamp. The instructor said, "you're likable, but you aren't cool and until you're cool, women will never go out with you." I remember thinking: Wait a minute...I LIKE who I am. Which was more than I could say for one of the instructors, who had everything I thought I wanted, but struck me as a deeply unhappy person. It was devastating, but liberating at the same time. Because for the first time, I realized I was the authority on my own life and ultimately, I had to answer to myself, instead of basing my life choices on what some other guy said. Dan Loved this post.

Actually, I enjoy most of your writing, but this one particuarly resonated with me.

I consider myself a success story, even though objectively, there are tons of guys who get laid more than me.

Oddly enough the turning point came at another company’s bootcamp. The instructor said, “you’re likable, but you aren’t cool and until you’re cool, women will never go out with you.”

I remember thinking: Wait a minute…I LIKE who I am. Which was more than I could say for one of the instructors, who had everything I thought I wanted, but struck me as a deeply unhappy person.

It was devastating, but liberating at the same time. Because for the first time, I realized I was the authority on my own life and ultimately, I had to answer to myself, instead of basing my life choices on what some other guy said.

Dan

]]> By: Cameron http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/04/10/the-3-year-check-point/comment-page-1/#comment-905 Cameron Sat, 11 Apr 2009 09:02:23 +0000 http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/?p=609#comment-905 Johnny, I take it you've been at it past 3 years? Just for you, I am going to edit the post and add my Audio product URL. lol take care Johnny,

I take it you’ve been at it past 3 years?

Just for you, I am going to edit the post and add my Audio product URL. lol

take care

]]> By: Johnny Utah http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/04/10/the-3-year-check-point/comment-page-1/#comment-902 Johnny Utah Sat, 11 Apr 2009 07:02:40 +0000 http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/?p=609#comment-902 Hey Cam, You asshole, you've just convinced me not to shell out for YOUR product now :) Hey Cam,

You asshole, you’ve just convinced me not to shell out for YOUR product now :)

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