Apart of being socialy retarded (how many girls will admit it right away even if they do?) he is claiming that all of them have the same needs and values wich is even more retarded. But the worst thing is that he have many followers.

I know this post wasnt about him but I want to add my 2 cents.

Cheers!

I would say that that number is so minor as to be negligible & less productive to address. Are there women out there that will not have SNLs no matter the circumstance, attraction, right timing, etc? sure…but in my experience, the number of women that would NEVER under ANY circumstance engage in the romance/adventure of being swept off her feet and into bed quickly is so small that a guy is better off erring on the side of assuming she would do that than she wouldn’t.

But I do agree that this is best accomplished by really getting to know the woman you are talking to and really being able to share with each other on your deepest levels.

Another right on the money post. You, Sinn, Nash and maybe two other guys have this so right. As Erika correctly pointed out, this whole SNL thing and correctly knowing your audience is so convaluted and there are so many teachers out there that say “oh our method is guaranteed” – well guess what nothing is guaranteed in life. I just read a post on another site about Day Game stating that if a woman does not have a same day date with you she is probably not attracted. Excuse me? You are the one interrupting her day and maybe she has to go to work, school, visit family. If you get her number, build enough comfort and connection, then hopefully it work out. This really can screw a guy up if he takes it to literally. You just have to do your best and try and learn from the best.

Yeah, for example, there are some women who will not have casual sex or SNLs not matter what approach a guy uses. I don’t ever hear anyone in the community acknowledging this.

In fact, I rarely hear guys in the community talking about getting to know the actual women who are on the other side of all this “pickup talk.” It’s like they see women as these distant “icons” rather than as living, breathing human beings with their own insecurities and sticking points and hopes and dreams.

And yet, if a guy doesn’t know his “audience,” how is he possibly going to be effective? If a guy doesn’t understand women and what he wants in a woman, how is he ever going to find anything that is truly fulfilling to him?

Cameron, maybe you should start off a modern church or something :-).