how about your rundown of jlax’s book?

I gotta say, my mom always said if you dont have anything nice to say then dont say anything at all….but I will say anyone who paid that guy money to learn pickup wouldve been better off doing anything else with it.

I havent finished his book but basically he was a douchebag drug addict who learned some pickup tactics and went to a shithole bad called the rio and picked up a bunch of drug addict women with serious issues who for the most part didnt want to hang out with him after he fucked them. and he had no friends it sounds like. on top of that a shitload of people at the bar hated him.

and have any of you guys actually seen chessclub in real life? I think he said she was a 9…uhhhhh no, more like a 6. so we have a PU teacher banging a 6 and bragging about it.

man the whole thing is just so fucked up.

TheMan

1. means that if it doesn’t become romantic/sexual then you still have a good, life enriching experience

2. In fact, if you’re giving more than taking/expecting, then she likely will be attracted and you just need to get better at reading the subtle signs and find the balls to do something about it. And relationships built on this sort of foundation are always going to be more rewarding IMO

So, this is a great, positive post and does more for ‘self improvement’ than a lot of the complicated community theories, i reckon.

Keep up the great work!

-Kris

when is your next post coming? did you ever get that email I sent you?

theman

haha god I chose a dumb nickname to post on your site with

I don’t associate myself as part of the “Community” anymore. ;-) But I know what you mean…..

I am pretty sure you’re joking but I think some may take you seriously while not getting the context of you mocking the community.

Erika,
Thanks. Glad you enjoyed, and the answer to your question is in the article. ;-)

Josh and Mojito, thanks for the good words. Your girlfriends are supposed to have all passed this test or they should’ve never become your girlfriends to begin with. It’s one of those things every man has to reach for himself. I can tell you about it, but it’s still not the same as you realizing it internally for yourself. Hence, I point towards the issue, and leave the rest to the individual.

Cameron

Cameron,

Your blog is the most refreshing out of most the “community”. Used to be big into the PUA scene and have since dropped it like a bad habit, I retained the most useful knowledge(just Zan’s).

This is an common sense post most aspiring PUA’s won’t get, with all the tricks put into their head by Mystery and Style.

Keep it up.

Josh