Comments on: Dating & Attraction Tips for the Socially Fit Man. (Part 3) How Nice Guys can Win

By: Jerry

Jerry — Tue, 25 May 2010 19:31:52 +0000

Holy shit this is absolute gold yet again!

This series of articles is of great value to many people I can not believe it.

Cam you are about to get about 10 more everday readers.

By: IulianC

IulianC — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 00:27:25 +0000

Cameron….thanks a lot, man. I’ve read your articles …”dating tips for the socially normal guy”…forgot the exact name. TOTALLY BLEW MY MIND. Way above 90% of the stuff I’ve read in the community. You reminded me of the stuff I used to do when I wasn’t all caught in my head… I had to fix my insecurities though… I’ve read a buncha articles on how if your dick ain’t 7 inches women will think it’s small (and of course what women think is highly important, right?….dammit! ) and I was also insecure about my looks…especially weight… and because I was worrying too much…my brain was overloaded and I kinda couldn’t speak. Inner game stuff was useful… yet I wanted to avoid being a creep…and I sort of felt doing certain things that gurus promote was creepy. I learned that happiness has to come from life and not women… women can join in the fun…and that my gym hobby wasn’t useless…it gets me in touch with my body and it helps with that “not taking shit attitude”…when you know guys can’t kick your ass for being real… you stand up for yourself.
I noticed that just because a guy has a GF doesn’t mean he’s good…meaning she might be with him for lack of choices (guys hitting on her only wanna fuck her and she wants a bf) or/and security….yet it still is creepy to me to approach a girl that has a bf in the club…especially if the guy is cool…you’re just showing uber-neediness, supermiscalibration and everything. We’re supposed to have general community spirit …not douchebag-seduction-community-against-the-world. Anyway,thanks a lot Cameron… the series was a huge help…

By: Peter

Peter — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 18:03:08 +0000

I found you blog very helpful.thanks a lot.

By: Breakdown2k

Breakdown2k — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 06:24:22 +0000

“last point. I think most guys are normal, and alll this game pua material fucks them up. they dont need much, just a good role model and some key points like you said.”

By: cani

cani — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 00:30:14 +0000

Great series.

Loved the post about the boudnaries. It makes so much sense. its all about treating everyone the same in terms of values.

I am a teacher, and i dont treat the pretty girls any diffrently. this can cause problems, cause some do have crushes on me. Cause they can walk over you.

being a leader is hard, am one naturally( thats why am a teacher) but accepting that you are a leader is hard too. I have had girls all over me, yet i was scared to push sexaully, so being comfortable and accepting your self as a sexual person and her as well is integral

last point. I think most guys are normal, and alll this game pua material fucks them up. they dont need much, just a good role model and some key points like you said.

By: Alex

Alex — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 05:55:58 +0000

Hey Cameron!

You are such a great motherfucker, u know!!

Thank you very much for this posts, I have been thinking about this stuff for sooooo long!! I always asked myself what was wrong with me if I don’t beat girls, I don’t smoke weed and I don’t get drunk every weekend. Thank you very much man, this was really good stuff, better than that garbage which has made some damage in my mind (DHV’s, neg’s…misfits’ stuff). I only have one question… could you explain further this concept of getting a better understanding of sex and what it entails? How do I reach that? I think not being sexual is one of my major barriers, really… Thank you very, very much!!!