A woman can be in a relationship for a long time, get burned by her boyfriend numerous cheating escapades and the finally decided, You know what! I am going to get back at him and go out with the girls and get back at him!

That does not make her a slut! It’s just payback!

What about those apples!

Perhaps you misunderstood the point of the article even though I think the title is clear.

It’s designed for my blog readers: Guys who may go to a bar & meet someone like you who creates DRAMA. Having read my article, They know that you’ll (Self-admittedly) will have one night stands with them easily. Nothing more. Nothing less

As for categorizing women, I have articles on that which you’ll find under “Archetypes of females” here: http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/starter-guide/

So, stop taking stuff personally. Go read and learn something.

Thanks for your contribution.

There are not two kinds of women, and men have GOT to stop looking at women like “virgin or sluts”. First of all, every woman has a little bit of innocence and a little bit of sluttiness to her. This is the most important thing to understand, and even though it is a simple concept most men dont get it. I have been a faithful girlfriend for years and years. I have also been the girl that has walked into a bar and had a one night stand. Does having a one night stand make me incapable of having a relationship? No. Does being a relationship “girl” make me incapable of having raucous, wild sex with someone I don’t know, or with someone i do know? No.

Now it might be easier for men to think that they can ‘classify’ women into two types of women, and this will effectively make them invulnerable to pain and able to judge what’s coming. I’ve got news for them though, it’s not happening. You can’t pidgeon hole people that way. That “relationship” girl you think you have under your wing could, at any point become (if she isn’t already) a big fucking whore. On the other hand, that big fucking whore you think you have pegged so astutely could be a very devoted, monogamous person (or even someone who is not half as whorish as you think she is) given the right person, environment, situation.

Now is this news unsettling for men? Sure. Sucks to know that you can’t predict or classify the big bad world of women. It sucks to know it, but it isn’t changing anything. Welcome to LIFE.

Of course, everything I’m saying will go into one ear and out another when it comes down to the ability of male chauvinists, feminists, and idiotic dudes looking to get laid alike, because people will stop at nothing to act like small-brained duds when it come down to the true ability to see people in multi-faceted ways. Oh, and because people are retarded.

80% of what you said is true when i think about her. i better find a healthier relationship.

my only regret is to found this article on 2012.

Men and women are equals. This does not mean that they are equal in every single thing they do. For example, men are, on average, physically stronger than women. It is much easier for a semi attractive (even a 6/10) woman to go out and get laid. The same cannot be said about men. Men have to work at it, have some skill (game) and thereby get a woman to sleep with them. It is a LOT harder for an equally attractive man to get women than it is the other way around. This is one of reasons behind why we, as a society, naturally celebrate men who are successful in bedding multiple women; while at the same time shame women who bed multiple men.

Let us briefly visit the topic of virginity from both perspectives. Virginity in a man is not a desirable state or label when it comes to an attribute that the opposite sex wants. This is because he has obviously not been preselected by other women. However, female virginity is not looked at negatively in the least by men. If she looks decent, no man cares if the girl is a virgin or not. In fact, a female virgin is often wanted more.

Now don’t get me wrong, men LOVE sluts. We will never turn down an opportunity to sleep with a good looking slut. Partly because she’s good in bed, partly because it’s sex. But any decently intelligent, self-respecting man will know that it is a terrible idea to emotionally involve himself (i.e. date) a slutty girl. That would be a very dumb move. Why would any man want to get emotionally involved with a girl who’s had 15+ sexual partners? We would just be setting ourselves up for failure. There are many nice worthy girls out there who don’t have daddy issues and haven’t slept with an entire fraternity house. But, by all means, fvck the brains out of sluts in the meanwhile.

Most guys can detect when a girl is a slut by the first few dates and by what he hears about the girl from other people and from the girl herlself. We put this information together and figure out if she is dating material or not. If not, I like most guys, will still go in for the prize but have no intention of following through with dating the dirty little tart.

To put it simply, a lock that can be opened by many keys is a useless lock and of little worth. But a key that can open many locks is a master key and is valuable.

Women complain about how unfair it is that men are called studs when they sleep around, yet women get called sluts for the exact same behavior. It’s actually not a double standard though, because both scenarios are pretty different in terms of circumstances and consequences. I can think of at least four crucial differences:

First, sleeping around is easier for women. Regardless of how you feel about promiscuity, we can all agree that a guy who manages to rack up a lot of sexual partners has to have some skills. It’s challenging for men to rack up partners, even for men with low standards. A man needs social intelligence, interpersonal skills, persistence, thick skin, and plain old dumb luck. For women, though, a vagina and a pulse is often enough. Whenever an accomplishment requires absolutely no challenge, no one respects it. It’s just viewed as a lack of self-discipline. People respect those who accomplish challenging feats, while they consider those who overindulge in easily obtained feats as weak, untrustworthy or flawed.

Second, women have potential to do more harm by sleeping around than men do. Say a man sleeps around with a bunch of different women. He’s definitely doing harm to these women if he pretends to be monogamous while sleeping around. He may cause them emotional pain by his promiscuity. He may cause unwanted pregnancy. He may spread VD. When women sleep around, however, they can cause not only all these same ill effects but one additional crucial ill effect: the risk of unknown parentage.

If one guy sleeps around with five women, each of whom is monogamous to him, and they all get pregnant, it’s a safe bet as to who the father is. If you reverse genders and have one woman who sleeps around with five men who are monogamous to her, and she gets pregnant, the father could be any of the five men. And if one of those men is tricked into raising a baby that isn’t his, he’s investing time, money, estate and property to provide for a child that isn’t carrying his DNA into the next generations, a costly mistake from an evolutionary standpoint.

Our two basic primal drives are to survive and to reproduce, and promiscuous women traditionally make it hard for a man to know for sure whether he is truly reproducing or is secretly raising another man’s child. Men stand a lot more to lose from promiscuous women than the other way around. And it’s no picnic for the child to not know who his real father is either. And it’s a mess for the women carrying on the deception as well. Or just look at any random episode of the Maury show if you don’t believe me.

Since the DNA test and the birth control pill didn’t exist until recently, there were no reliable ways to prevent pregnancy or prove parentage for most of human history. For this reason society developed a vested interest in preventing promiscuity among women, and society accomplished this by creating the slut stigma. And even though the creation of birth control and DNA tests have made this less of a risk than the past, longstanding traditions and customs are not easy for society to break so the slut stigma remains.

Third, men have evolutionary reasons to be programmed to sleep around more. A lot of women roll their eyes when they hear that men are “hard-wired” to sleep around. But from an evolutionary standpoint, it makes total sense. If the two primal drives of humans are to survive and to reproduce, nothing leads to maximum reproduction like one man sleeping with multiple women. If one women sleeps with many men in a nine month period, she can only get pregnant just once. Nine months of rampant promiscuity would give the same result as nine months of highly sexed monogamy: one pregnancy. Now if one man sleeps with many women during a nine month period, you can get many pregnancies during that period. The more women he sleeps with, the more possible pregnancies.

So from an evolutionary standpoint, there are concrete advantages to men being promiscuous compared to women being promiscuous. This doesn’t mean that women have evolved to be strictly monogamous. Women have evolved to be somewhat promiscuous too, something men badly underestimate. However they haven’t evolved to be as rampantly promiscuous as men.
Fourth, promiscuity poses more risk to women than to men. A woman has more to lose from choosing bad sex partners than a man does. She’s the one who gets stuck with going through a pregnancy and taking care of a baby alone if she chooses a deadbeat. For this reason, promiscuous women throughout history have historically been viewed as being a vastly more irresponsible risk takers than promiscuous men, who rightly or wrongly could always run away from the consequences of unwanted pregnancies easier than women could.

These four reasons explain why the longstanding tradition came about of men being rewarded for multiple partners while women get socially punished for similar promiscuity. Of course all this is gradually changing, but we’re up against millenia of evolutionary and cultural conditioning here, so don’t expect any dramatic overnight reversals.

Understand that I’m just explaining why the double standard came into existence and not condoning or condemning it. This is not an attempt to pass judgment or be self-righteous in any way. It’s just an explanation of why the two conditions are treated differently.

I fliirt with men to get cocaine for which cravings come after consuming alcohol, and often sleep with them because i feel obligated to do so and have trouble saying no. The shame and guilt after a night like his is tremendous. The first drink is what starts the downward spiral. On the street you would see me as a classy lady but in the club its a completely different story. For me its finding coping strategies and new ways to make me feel good about myself rather than seeking reassurance from others or using substances to dumb feelings of self hatred. If your one of these girls go get seek help because it can get better:). If your a man who chooses to use the information in this article to get laid.. Gfy!!!