Comments on: “Indifference” vs. “Accountability” in Dating

By: Should you be Indifferent towards women on dates?

Should you be Indifferent towards women on dates? — Mon, 31 May 2010 05:05:19 +0000

[...] Hence this article: Understanding Indifference versus Accountability. [...]

By: Irfaan

Irfaan — Sun, 23 May 2010 13:01:06 +0000

The Point couldn’t have been clearer. Understood it, Cam!

By: Cameron

Cameron — Sat, 22 May 2010 21:46:52 +0000

Petr,

That sucks! Well, at least you’re wiser for it. Hopefully, you’re no longer seriously dating such types.

Irfann, no reframe. It’s actually really simple math. If you need help with social skills, then seek the proper guidance, or continue sucking.

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By: Irfaan

Irfaan — Sat, 22 May 2010 14:45:58 +0000

Awesome Reframe, Cam! :-)

By: Petr

Petr — Wed, 19 May 2010 09:32:31 +0000

“You must be willing to walk away if the situation is counter-balanced to your values.”

Amen.

Tougher to do to than it appears…? Imho more than that. Sometimes incredibly difficult, but man must be able to do this.

Generally I think the less of “the game” you need, the better. If she’s not reacting positively to love, empathy etc, it’s just a waste of time. I’ve dated such girls. It ruined several years of my life.

By: Cameron

Cameron — Wed, 19 May 2010 03:53:39 +0000

Irfaan,

The fundamentals are in the 16 CD Audio course for those type of guys and anyone else who is interested ;-)

By: Irfaan

Irfaan — Tue, 18 May 2010 14:52:34 +0000

Then Show Us the Fundamentals Cam, so that You encounter less of such guys! ;)

By: Cameron

Cameron — Tue, 18 May 2010 06:33:42 +0000

Jerry,

Yep. Add to that: Have certain standards and be wiling to walk away if those are not met.

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Houstonfan,

It’s tougher to get and sustain attraction if that element is missing. You don’t have to be Steve McQueen, or Robert Downey Jr’s Tony Stark character in Iron Man, but let’s say being socially pleasant helps.

I’ve come across guys at conferences who come across needy, are unkempt, and socially unpleasant looking for a plethora of tactics to overcome the fundamentals they’re missing.

Cameron

By: HoustonRockets2ndgreatestfan

HoustonRockets2ndgreatestfan — Mon, 17 May 2010 22:43:14 +0000

Would it be possible to elaborate on what happens when you’re not “a cool guy to begin with”? Apart from the mother of all train wrecks…

By: Jerry

Jerry — Mon, 17 May 2010 22:24:05 +0000

Yet another good article.

Value yourself highly, be confident in showing your interest.