{"id":1005,"date":"2009-06-17T23:47:12","date_gmt":"2009-06-18T06:47:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=1005"},"modified":"2011-01-03T18:14:08","modified_gmt":"2011-01-04T01:14:08","slug":"shattering-myths-pure-game","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/06\/17\/shattering-myths-pure-game\/","title":{"rendered":"Shattering Myths: Pure Game"},"content":{"rendered":"

Seduction Community Myth busting<\/span><\/h2>\n

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I’m continuing my march towards shattering various seduction-community myths.\u00a0 Let’s talk about the notion of “Pure Game.”\u00a0 There is this notion that has been perpetuated by dating advice “Gurus.”\u00a0 It’s that you can run a sequence of words and tactics, when done perfectly, will produce the exact same favorable results repeatedly.\u00a0 Every woman will succumb to your perfect game.<\/p>\n

Nowhere outside the seduction community does such a paradigm exist.<\/p>\n

If you’d followed Mystery from the TV Show pick up artist, you’d have learned that if you approached, looking over your shoulder, showing disinterest, then conduced a “DHV” followed by a “Neg”, then compounded that by another “Neg”, and continued these exact sequence of actions, you’d get the girl.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, if you did all that and did not get the girl, it’s surely because you made an error in the tactics.\u00a0 It can’t be that the system is flawed.\u00a0\u00a0 But if you veered outside of that system and DID get the girl’s interest?\u00a0 Then you just got lucky.\u00a0 It was beginner’s luck or something.<\/p>\n

What if you have a nice lifestyle, good job, nice place, and have your life together?\u00a0\u00a0 In\u00a0 that case, you cheated.<\/p>\n

I don’t want to single out Mystery in this.\u00a0 He is not responsible for this notion.\u00a0 There are all sorts of dating advisors who want to shove a very rigid system down your throat.\u00a0 Another guy who wants to teach you NLP Patterns in order to seduce girls in a “Speedy” manner will tell you that anything outside of his system is useless.\u00a0 If you did get the girl, then you sure applied NLP concepts without knowing it.\u00a0 You can’t win with these guys.<\/p>\n

Well, I’ve got news for ya: There is no PURE Game.\u00a0 You’re not opening a safe, and as much as you want a universal combination that opens every safe every time, it doesn’t work that way.<\/p>\n

Put your best foot forward.\u00a0 Be willing to show your strengths.\u00a0 Your strengths could be within the “Edge” I have discussed before.\u00a0 Whether it’s that you’re charming, funny, interesting, good looking, fit, tall, or have a conducive lifestyle, you ought to utilize this advantage.<\/p>\n

You’re not going to see a guy who is good looking purposely gain 50 pounds of fat, dress like a slob, and smell like crap so he can prove he has “PURE” Game.\u00a0 Because why?\u00a0 There is no PURE game.\u00a0 The game of attraction is not about systematic sentence that come out of your mouth.\u00a0 Again, this is all very common sense outside the seduction community, but it becomes discombobulated within dating advice given to men.<\/p>\n

Be a cool guy.\u00a0 Have an edge about you.\u00a0 I have said it before, and I’ll probably mention it in future posts.\u00a0 If a guy is not a “Cool Guy, ” then the edge is meaningless.\u00a0 But let’s say the guy is an interesting guy who has his life together and had a nice house where he hosts great cocktail parties for a professional crowd.\u00a0 This is not cheating.\u00a0 This is called being successful in life for most people.<\/p>\n

In the seduction community, unless you’re an annoying pest accosting the women of a city, you are not running game.\u00a0 You’re somehow cheating.\u00a0 This notion is utterly ridiculous, and those who believe in it are usually the same people who don’t have many friends.\u00a0 To them, having a friend introduce you to a girl is cheating.\u00a0 To them having a female friend introduce you to another female friend at a cocktail party is probably beyond cheating.\u00a0\u00a0 It happens all the time at get-togethers.\u00a0 To those who have no friends, having friends, is cheating. So be it.<\/p>\n

At any rate, once you get over the notion of “Pure Game,” more doors will open up for you.\u00a0 You’ll learn to utilize your best assets into your advantage. These won’t be your only card to play, but they’ll be assets you can consistently utilize.\u00a0 Take sometime think about what your natural strengths are, and how you can futher enhance those.\u00a0 It will help you in the long run.<\/p>\n

Of course, there is a flip side to the “Pure Game” crowd and that is the\u00a0“Working a Niche” approach.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I’ll discuss that tomorrow.<\/p>\n

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PS.\u00a0 The articles on this blog will have a profound impact on your dating life.\u00a0 Please realize that they are supplementary and supporting material to what I discuss in my expanded work.\u00a0 Get a copy of my Ebook here: Building Attraction with Women<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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