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You probably have often heard this infamous phrase: \u201cMan, that guy has game!\u201d \u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
What does that mean?\u00a0 How is it that one guy \u201cHas game\u201d and the next guys doesn\u2019t?\u00a0 What does it really imply to even have game?\u00a0 What sort of a mystical power is this? \u00a0What the f*ck is game anyway?<\/p>\n
Let me strip it down to its basic components for ya!<\/p>\n
We say a guy \u201cHas game\u201d when he is pretty good at attracting women to himself.\u00a0\u00a0 The good old 80\/20 rule applies here.\u00a0 20% of men probably have game and the other 80% sort of fall into various categories of having little to no game.\u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n
Regardless of whether a guy learned to be good attracting women through the seduction community or just happened to be naturally good at it, he possesses certain ingredients.\u00a0<\/p>\n
In fact, to make it really simple: Let\u2019s say this dude is a \u201cNatural.\u201d He\u2019s never heard of the \u201cSeduction Community\u201d nor does he care about it.\u00a0 He is just good with women.\u00a0 He has game.\u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n
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Well, here is what game really is broken down to 3 components<\/span>: \u00a0<\/p>\n (The balls factor)<\/p>\n This means having big balls, taking chances, and having some alpha-male characteristics.\u00a0 That means he is confident and has maybe an edge of cockiness even perhaps.\u00a0 It\u2019s best summed up in the word Attitude.\u00a0 (Not attitude problem, but just an aura that the guy has high self-esteem.)\u00a0 If you wanted to take it a step further, you’d note that the ideal attitude would stem from a high self image!<\/span>\u00a0 At any rate, being gutsy and courageous is attractive.<\/p>\n .<\/p>\n \u00a0In the business, we call it \u201cCalibration.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0 It\u2019s Knowing what to say, and WHEN to say it!\u00a0 It\u2019s Having an intuitive understanding of the type of women you\u2019re talking to, and the circumstances you\u2019re in.<\/p>\n Men who are players have some intuitive understanding of social dynamics.\u00a0 They know when to push and when to pull back a bit, they know are able to gauge their target demographic.\u00a0\u00a0 It also means having a good nose for knowing when to go for the close because she is ready\u2026..\u00a0<\/p>\n I\u2019ve met guys who\u00a0were basically\u00a0male-bimbos who were good at attracting certain type of women, only because they intuitively understood their target demographic (which happened to be other airhead females, but they\u2019re good at working that target audience.)\u00a0\u00a0 They were also good at timing when to strike.\u00a0 Furthermore, someone of good social intelligence would also take care of his personal grooming, sense of style, and overall living space.\u00a0<\/p>\n .<\/p>\n Whether it\u2019s through humor, great storytelling, or intriguing conversations, the guy is able to create interest on some level.\u00a0 This includes guys who are not even very intelligent, but they\u2019re still able to tell idiotic stories of their exploits that engage their target demographic. (Picture the drunken idiot fraternity boy here.)<\/p>\n Most naturals seem to be pretty good storytellers.\u00a0 Even if they grew up in a small town and had the plain small town American experience, they\u2019re still are good at conveying it.<\/p>\n You have to be interesting as a person on some level and story telling is one of those ways.\u00a0 Whether you\u2019re an intellectual or a stereotypical jock, you have to be able to convey that on some level.<\/p>\n That\u2019s all Game is.\u00a0 When you hear someone say, \u201cThat guy has game,<\/span><\/span>\u201d<\/span> he basically has some attitude\/confidence, is interesting and is able to calibrate well because he has social intelligence.\u00a0<\/p>\n That\u2019s it!\u00a0<\/p>\n The riddle is solved!<\/em><\/p>\n Guess we can all go home now and resume our normal lives.\u00a0 If it\u2019s that simple, why is it difficult for some guys to get it?\u00a0 Or rather, why don\u2019t some guys ever improve significantly?\u00a0<\/p>\n That\u2019s because each of the main 3 points can take time to develop and there are a lot of nuances to be learned within each of the aforementioned areas.<\/p>\n I told my buddy Jay [aka formhandle] about these 3 categories and he was very adamant about me mentioning that just because someone possesses these 3 qualities, does not mean they can go and pick up women everywhere and anywhere.<\/p>\n He has a point.\u00a0 I can see how the post would be misconstrued.\u00a0 This post is merely drawing an outline.\u00a0It\u2019s a bird\u2019s eye view, a macro description<\/strong> of the entire process.\u00a0\u00a0It’s not an end-all, be-all solution, but rather a broad roadmap.<\/p>\n Guys who are good and do well consistently have learned what their demographic is and what environments they do best in.\u00a0 (I\u00a0 suppose this\u2019d fall under calibration anyway.\u00a0 There will be an important future blog entry about target demographics, something nobody in the community is talking about.)<\/p>\n Some guys are great at the bar\/night club scene but don\u2019t like approaching much during normal every day hours.\u00a0 Then there are guys who just hate bars\/clubs and they don\u2019t do well in bars and nightclubs.\u00a0 Yet, they\u2019ve done consistently well for themselves despite not being bar people.\u00a0<\/p>\n Others have learned to meet girls effectively working their social circle scene.\u00a0 Some had jobs or careers that were conducive to meeting women, doormen, bartenders, bouncers, DJs, club promoters and etc.<\/p>\n Some guys have learned to do really well meeting women online.<\/p>\n Despite where and how they meet women, these guys excel at these areas.\u00a0\u00a0 This post is not about pickup artists.\u00a0 It\u2019s about men who attract women on some level and do well for themselves.\u00a0<\/p>\n This blog entry is designed to provide you with a [very general] roadmap of sorts to allow you to see where you need to make improvements.\u00a0\u00a0 Maybe you want to date multiple women or maybe you want a good girlfriend whom you are attracted to physically and personality wise.\u00a0 Be honest with yourself and your sticking points.\u00a0<\/p>\n .<\/p>\n Troubleshooting:<\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n If you\u2019re stuck and not getting decent results, you\u2019re probably lacking in one of these areas.<\/p>\n Ok, so you have learned some openers, some routines, and are able to get the conversation started but you lack balls.\u00a0 You are too caught up in what other people (including women) may think of you.\u00a0 You are held back by too much fear and hesitation.\u00a0 Or you could display needy and supplicating behavior, which are usual symptoms of a low self-image if you dig deep enough.\u00a0<\/p>\n Maybe you don\u2019t have that much fear or hesitation, but you just haven\u2019t improved your social intelligence.\u00a0 Man, the seduction community is full of such guys.\u00a0 You say the wrong thing at the wrong time.\u00a0 You apply tactics when there is no need for tactics and you try to be alpha when there is no need to prove yourself.\u00a0<\/p>\n You learn about negs and misapply them.\u00a0 You neg an archetype of woman when you should be complimenting her, and you compliment a type of woman whom you should be telling to fuck off.\u00a0 (Not in those exact words, however.)<\/p>\n You are just not that interesting to be talk to.\u00a0 There is no appeal or lure to draw them to ya.\u00a0 This has nothing to do with physical attraction.\u00a0 It\u2019s about personality.\u00a0 Maybe you have a great personality but you haven\u2019t learn to convey that personality properly, or maybe you freeze up around women and then you can\u2019t display your cool personality (which brings up the first issue: lack of attitude and overwhelmed by fear.)<\/p>\n Start working on the areas you need improvements on.\u00a0\u00a0 At the end of the day, one thing is for sure:\u00a0 A guy who possesses the ingredients will do OK for himself.\u00a0 This isn\u2019t about becoming a PUA, hitting on 5000 women a day, or bragging to your friends about your number-closes and other retarded community dogma.\u00a0<\/p>\n It\u2019s that the Man who,<\/p>\n \u00a0will attract his fair share of females.\u00a0 This is despite race, hair, color, ethnicity, height, flashy clothes, religion, and other superficial differences.<\/p>\n Next time you see some random guy in your town, neighborhood or social circles who seems to do well with women, take a closer look and you\u2019ll see that he possesses the aforementioned components.\u00a0\u00a0Perhaps you may be at a house party and you notice one guy who seems to have the women attracted to him.\u00a0<\/p>\n Others will say, \u201cDude, that guy has game\u2026..\u201d\u00a0\u00a0but won’t be able to express why or how.<\/p>\n Having read this post, You will know exactly why.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0\u00a0Cameron<\/p>\n\n
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