{"id":1243,"date":"2009-09-10T07:05:03","date_gmt":"2009-09-10T14:05:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=1243"},"modified":"2010-06-04T19:16:40","modified_gmt":"2010-06-05T02:16:40","slug":"the-definitive-post-on-%e2%80%9cparty-chicks%e2%80%9d-part-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/09\/10\/the-definitive-post-on-%e2%80%9cparty-chicks%e2%80%9d-part-1\/","title":{"rendered":"The Definitive Post On \u201cParty Chicks\u201d &#8211; Part 1"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Introduction to Party Girls<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0This is a new mini-series on the Blog designed to communicate a tremendous amount of applicable real life knowledge on an archetype popularly referred to &#8220;<strong><em>Party Girls<\/em><\/strong>.&#8221;\u00a0 Yes, we are going to embark on a journey that&#8217;s going to give you, not only an understanding, but applicable tools you can use in future interactions.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0In this series, I am going to break down, step by step, the <em>mindset of party girls,\u00a0their behaviors, tendencies, and Modus Operandi.<\/em> \u00a0Furthermore, we&#8217;re going to use that information to learn how to recognize and then interact with this type if that&#8217;s what you wish to do. So without further ado, let&#8217;s get to it!<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Spend enough time out there and undoubtedly you&#8217;re going to run your fair share of party girls.\u00a0 Spend time where again?\u00a0 Well, bars, night-clubs, discos, and general party scenes that lend themselves to a party\/carefree atmosphere.\u00a0 These could range from posh nightclubs with the $3000 bottle service, to the neighborhood &#8220;Dive-Bar&#8221; to a house party around the corner.\u00a0 Then again, you&#8217;re going to come across Party-girls in the day time too.\u00a0 It&#8217;s not as if they&#8217;re vampires that slip nto hibernation during sunlight.\u00a0 When that does happen, it&#8217;s good generally to know what\/whom you&#8217;re dealing with.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0I am going to delve into a lot of detail analysis, and as usual, it&#8217;s a double-edged sword.\u00a0 The intention of the analysis is to give you a thorough understanding so you come to instinctively recognize social situations.\u00a0 It&#8217;s by no means meant to have anyone sit there with a checklist trying to check off bullet points in a mechanical manner. I urge you to avoid\u00a0over-analysis.\u00a0 Just\u00a0read these articles, enjoy them, and it&#8217;ll be compartmentalized somewhere in the back of your subconscious\u00a0mind, ready when you need it.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0How did this start?<\/p>\n<p>When I first started getting into all of this stuff, I along with a lot of my cohorts, started hitting the bar\/club scene pretty hard.\u00a0 I was going out three to four night a week consistently.\u00a0 It&#8217;s the place that offered (still does) an abundance of girls.\u00a0 Where else would we go?\u00a0\u00a0 We needed numbers\/quantities and the numbers were at the bars.\u00a0 Of course, most of the girls at these places, or perhaps a good majority of them, were what people generally categorize as &#8220;Party girls.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Coincidentally, these were also the women that were the hardest to get.\u00a0 By that I mean, they were hard to understand.\u00a0 They created a level of confusion because they made the dating process seem so complicated.\u00a0 They&#8217;re friendly one day, they ignore you the next.\u00a0 At times, they seem genuinely interested in helping you with something, but then they&#8217;re never dependable.\u00a0 They seem normal but then they do the weirdest shit that makes you think you&#8217;d have a better line of communication with a chimp.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0The can excite you and then confuse you.\u00a0 They can be fun, but then unleash drama.\u00a0 They say one thing but do the other.\u00a0 They tell you the qualities of a guy they want to date, but date someone completely different.\u00a0 They don&#8217;t make sense, and perhaps this is one of the downfalls of someone who likes to make sense out of things or people.\u00a0 If you observe your pet dog, you&#8217;ll see that even a dog&#8217;s behavior makes sense.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0When you&#8217;re inexperienced, you tend to lump all women together.\u00a0 You can&#8217;t distinguish between one archetype versus the next.\u00a0 They&#8217;re just women.\u00a0 This further compounds the confusion.\u00a0 Well, pretty soon, it&#8217;s jigsaw puzzle that has been shuffled along with missing pieces and you don&#8217;t know where to start putting it together.\u00a0 All you come to know is that you don&#8217;t really know.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Bars and clubs gave me the experience to interact, party, and fraternize with enough of these sorts to gain some understanding about them.\u00a0 Easily, over half the women I interacted with on a nightly basis were these types.\u00a0 They came from a variety of backgrounds.\u00a0 Party girls from various cities, states and geographical locations.\u00a0 Party girls of various ages, heights, body types, and backgrounds.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Add to that my natural fascination with human mannerisms, character, personality traits and the psychology of social interactions and what you get is&#8230;.\u00a0 Well, here we are, a lengthy thesis Blog entry on Party Girls..<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0They&#8217;re the least understood by men who seek dating advice because they&#8217;re the most difficult to interact with during social interactions.\u00a0 Majority of guys who seek dating advice online are the intellectual types who are often more introvert than extravert.\u00a0 The story is so ancient, it&#8217;s biblical.\u00a0 No, it&#8217;s older than that.\u00a0 Somewhere, someplace, 5000 years ago, there was a high school that had jocks, cheerleaders, nerds, and etc&#8230;\u00a0 They just didn&#8217;t have the technology to make modern-day &#8220;Teen Romantic Comedy movies.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0The beauty of films is that they&#8217;re scripted.\u00a0 The nerdy smart high school guy ends up with the popular cheerleader after a series of mishaps because she comes to see him in a different light, and in the process, we also notice that she is actually as sweet as can be and really wanted something like that all along.\u00a0 She just hadn&#8217;t realized it.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a beautiful story. I enjoy it too!\u00a0\u00a0 In the real world, however, it doesn&#8217;t quite work that way.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0I don&#8217;t even think most of the guys who are deemed &#8220;Naturals&#8221; really understand the party girl dynamic on intellectual level.\u00a0 What they do understand is &#8220;Cause and Effect.&#8221;\u00a0 Simple physics can creep its way in sometimes into seemingly complex social interactions.\u00a0 Men who are naturals, be it the clich\u00e9d popular high school quarterback, or the smooth talking slick used car salesman instinctively understand that pushing a series of buttons on the stimuli board produces certain results.\u00a0 The combination of these buttons pushed creates favorable results more often than not.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0This may seem ambiguous, or mysterious, but it&#8217;ll all make clear sense by the time I get through breaking down this dynamic.\u00a0 We&#8217;ll get back to what the exact buttons are in due time. We&#8217;ll examine what the &#8220;Cause and Effect&#8221; sequences are, how you can learn to create those dynamics within your interactions and your life, if this is something you wish to do.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0For the time being, we are going to discuss, what constitutes a party girl.\u00a0\u00a0 A definition of the archetype is sorely needed.\u00a0 Tune in tomorrow where I&#8217;ll define the archetype.\u00a0 Stay tuned.\u00a0 This mini-series on Party Chicks is going to give more content and more real world information than products you&#8217;ve paid 1000s of Dollars for!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 Introduction to Party Girls . \u00a0\u00a0This is a new mini-series on the Blog designed to communicate a tremendous amount of applicable real life knowledge on an archetype popularly referred&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[193,20],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1243","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-dating-advice","category-human-social-psychology-and-behavior"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1243","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1243"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1243\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2015,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1243\/revisions\/2015"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1243"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1243"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1243"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}