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Today’s article is about\u00a0identifying who and what constitutes a\u00a0proverbial\u00a0“Party-Chick.”\u00a0<\/p>\n
\u00a0Generally speaking, party girls are stimulus junkies.\u00a0 They are constantly seeking new stimulus and more importantly, will upgrade to the new stimulus.\u00a0 Loud Clubs, party, being part of the “In” social crowd, [Social Hierarchy] alcohol, drugs, money<\/strong> are all sources of stimulus that motivate party girls.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0This is vastly different than a girl who is mostly\u00a0 “emotionally present” girl who will want to connect feelings, share emotions, love, depth, life,<\/em> and so forth.\u00a0\u00a0 More often than not, the emotionally-present girl is not a one-night stand type of girl.\u00a0 This does not mean that she does not have a sexual side.\u00a0 It only means that she likes to have an emotional connection before becoming intimate, which then makes it more difficult for one-night stands.<\/p>\n \u00a0Party girls love absolutely love attention.\u00a0 These are the type of girls you find in clubs dancing on a table while flaunting their g-string for everyone to see, and the more guys who pay attention, the more they enjoy it.\u00a0 And if that’s not working, well then, they’ll just start making out\/kissing with another one of their girlfriends, as this is a surefire way to get the attention of the guys in the bar.<\/p>\n \u00a0Everything is designed to garner attention, and yet they will disdain you for giving them that attention.\u00a0 That is paradox in all of this, and it’s the cornerstone of what so many guys miss.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 The psychological reasons for the disdain warrant an entirely different essay altogether.\u00a0 (That’d perhaps be good fodder for a different blog entry.) \u00a0\u00a0If you’ve been to nightclubs and\u00a0bars, then you’ve seen the above dynamic.\u00a0\u00a0You’ve seen girls kissing each other and making out!\u00a0 Now,\u00a0if you’re not clear as to what’s going on, I got news for ya.\u00a0\u00a0 The above is NOT a SEXUAL \u00a0act.\u00a0 It’s an act designed to get\u00a0Attention<\/strong><\/span>!\u00a0 That’s all that is.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0If you plan to game these types of girls, don’t be the chump who stands their raising his beer in the air yelling, “Yeah, woohoo, cool<\/em>!”\u00a0 They’re looking for attention and if you’re standing there yelling showing your support, then you’re bunched in with all the tools standing there gawking.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0If you’re interested in pulling these girls out of the club, you have to display more attitude that they do along with social hierarchy.<\/strong>\u00a0 Don’t show any reverence towards their antics and be indifferent to their attention whoring tendencies.<\/span>\u00a0 You’ll have to dumb down the conversation and you’ll find that you’ll have more intellectually stimulating conversation with a chimp at the zoo.\u00a0 We’ll get to all of that in due time. I am going to\u00a0provide\u00a0you with detailed instructions as to how go about conducting yourself properly at the end of this mini-series.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0\u00a0Not all party girls are this easy to spot however.\u00a0 Personally, I enjoy the company of really intelligent women, but I’ve been to enough bars and clubs that I have had my fair share of encounters with party girls.\u00a0 I’ve gone on dates with party girls, and yes, I’ve\u00a0slept with party girls.\u00a0\u00a0It’s not my job to say what’s right for you. I can only help you understand how to make the distinction and tell you the pros and cons.\u00a0 What you do then is your decision.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0Before you read any further, I ought to include the disclaimer that not all women at a bar are party girls.\u00a0 You’re going to run into 21 year old college girls at a bar having drinks and having fun!\u00a0 It does not necessarily make them party girls.\u00a0 As I mentioned in the first article, party-chick is more of a mindset driven from personal values<\/span>.\u00a0 \u00a0As I alluded to earlier, party girls are always seeking more new stimuli.<\/span>\u00a0 You’ll notice that during conversations, even after you have known them for a while, they will not delve too deep into personal questions.\u00a0 For example, they will not ask questions you about your family, siblings, background or what’s important to you, nor will they offer much information about theirs.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0It’s a pattern that you’ll come to recognize now that you’re aware of it.\u00a0 I noticed this pattern with party girls I’d known for quite a while in certain social circles.\u00a0 In the beginning it’s tough to ascertain any sort of hypothesis that’s based on hasty interactions.<\/p>\n \u00a0However, staying the course with such people can be awfully revealing.\u00a0\u00a0 You could cumulatively engage in many hours of conversation over the course of 6 months or a year, and still, you’ll find that she still doesn’t know much about you.\u00a0 Not once has she asked if you have any brothers or sisters, which city you went to high school in, or anything that’s relevant to your background.<\/p>\n \u00a0Emotionally-present girls look for a way to connect emotionally.\u00a0 The conversational threads will be vastly different.\u00a0 Party girls won’t offer or ask much personal information.\u00a0 You’ll note that most party girls are not really interested in discussing intellectual or cerebral topics.\u00a0 If you start discussing deeper topics, or delve into philosophy and such, you’ll start to lose them.<\/p>\n \u00a0Look, I know the intellectual inside you wants to discuss the social caste system of Ancient Rome that contributed to their downfall, or how the Ancient Persians used wind-energy as an alternative fuel, or perhaps what’d actually happen if time-travel were possible right now.\u00a0 I enjoy discussing these things too.\u00a0 This is the wrong type of girl to talk about such topics with regardless of how long you’ve known her.\u00a0 A new Prada bag from Italy?\u00a0 Now, that’s the stuff of legends.\u00a0<\/p>\n So, have no worries.\u00a0 They’re capably of a wide range of topics to discuss. These are: Shopping, finding parties, relationship gossip, celebrity gossip, back to shopping and getting drunk again.<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0Party chicks are also the consummate “Bigger, Better, Deal”<\/strong> type of people.\u00a0 Remember, it’s all about the stimuli<\/span><\/span>.\u00a0 Invite them to an after party in a nice mansion half way up the hill where they can smoke a couple of joints, and they’re ecstatic to come.\u00a0 However, on the way there, another guy invites them to a nicer mansion that’s all the way on TOP of the Hill with a better view, and hey, he is got cocaine instead of weed, and they’ll abandon you rather quickly.<\/p>\n \u00a0A house half way up the hill with weed, is going to lose to the mansion all the way on top of the hill with cocaine, every time.\u00a0\u00a0 Bigger, Better, deal doesn’t have come in the form of houses or drugs.\u00a0 It’s basically operating on shallow values, and whoever can offer the more “Socially-Cool” package wins.\u00a0 That’s the way it goes.\u00a0 It’s part of that game, and the people who play it, understand it.\u00a0 Just remember that it’s part of the game if you choose to deal with this archetype.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0 At first when it happens, you get a little pissed off. At least that was, my experience, and then you learn that this is part of the process.\u00a0 If you’re going to deal with this archetype, then learn how the game is played.\u00a0 Either that, or surround yourself with a different category of people.\u00a0<\/p>\n .<\/p>\n \u00a0.<\/p>\n \u00a0The above photo is simply amazing<\/span> if you understand the dynamics and the party girl psyche!\u00a0 Take a look at\u00a0the photo\u00a0again, and let’s get to it:<\/p>\n \u00a0We have 3 girls vying for attention.\u00a0 Center girl in Black, Blonde in Brown dress on the left, and the obvious fake blonde in green dress on the right.\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0Notice how each girl is trying to outdo the other one for attention!\u00a0 The center girl,<\/strong> by virtue of being the one in the middle has the least work to do!\u00a0 Our eyes naturally focus on her because she is in the middle.\u00a0 So she figures a simple sticking out of her tongue will do!\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0The one on the right, (green dress) needs to\u00a0up the ante and so she opts for going for licking the center girl’s neck, and the one on the left is now really put it in a compromisable position.\u00a0 In this precarious position, how can she possibly salvage this to get\u00a0more attention than the other two??\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0She is not in the middle, and licking the other girl move\u00a0has already been taken.\u00a0 Can’t copy the girl in the green dress.\u00a0\u00a0 Thus, the only way she can possibly salvage this is by trying to simulate oral sex on another girl to steal the attention back.\u00a0 Yes, cunnilingus beats the \u00a0neck-lick!\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0The fascinating aspect of this is that consciously, they may not even be aware of what they’re doing, but the dyanmic above is exactly the motivation for the behavior\u00a0witnessed above.\u00a0 Spend enough time with party girls in clubs and it’ll become 2nd nature to you as wel.<\/p>\n \u00a0Again, this is not advice for any beginner.\u00a0 The point is that if you plan to pursue and “game” these type of women, then you had be prepared for such contingencies.\u00a0 Don’t bitch and complain about lack of loyalty and such.\u00a0 That’s not part of the equation here.\u00a0 It’s about stimulus<\/span> and it’s about social hierarchy..<\/span>\u00a0 Now, the mansion example may sound very LA, but it applies to all party chicks.\u00a0 In some part of the country, a bigger better deal may be a guy who has cable TV and more than half his teeth.\u00a0 Different stimuli, same dynamic.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0At the core level, if you wanted to understand the deeper structure of it, it’s about personal values.<\/span><\/em>\u00a0 They are not evil, and nor are they operating with malice.\u00a0 They just are what they are.\u00a0 They have shallow values and if you understand that, then you can play the game on that level, if you so desire.\u00a0 Sometimes, it’s compounded by the absence of dignity and self-respect (As seen in photo above.)<\/p>\n \u00a0Party chicks value stimulus and attention.\u00a0 This applies to men as well.<\/span>\u00a0 You probably know guys who are stand-up honorable dudes whom you could call on if you were in a jam.\u00a0 Then again, you also know the type of guy who’d like to help you but a girl told him she “Might” hang out with him tonight, so he’d rather stay home by his phone waiting in case she calls, rather than come drive your ass to the hospital because you’re bleeding from the gullbladder.<\/p>\n \u00a0It’s about what values each individual covets, and it’s not a sexist issue.\u00a0 However, this article is about party chicks, not “Party guys” or better known as drunk idiots.\u00a0\u00a0 Make no mistake about it: There\u00a0exists that\u00a0direct male equivalent to the party-chick as well.\u00a0 It took me longer to notice, because, let’s be honest, I never wanted to have sex with the dudes. However, a party-dude equivalent will leave your ass stranded to chase a piece of ass across State-line. However, since most of you are seeking to deal with girls, let’s refocus.<\/p>\n \u00a0Another tendency is that they’re not too often interested in time just with you, like relaxing at home watching a movie with you.\u00a0 There is not too much stimulus and social validation in snuggling up on the couch with you.\u00a0 It’s a matter of, “Where are the cool parties this weekend? Where can I find booze?\u00a0 Did a new shopping mall open here? Where is the bigger better party? Is it time to drink yet?”<\/em><\/p>\n \u00a0Yet another tendency is that they tend to get hammered on alcohol quite often.\u00a0 A mistake men make is trying to change this behavior.\u00a0 If you want a woman who is not getting blasted with alcohol every single weekend, then date a different type of woman.\u00a0 Yes, it really is that simple.<\/p>\n \u00a0To use a surfing analogy, Understand what’s coming at you, ride the wave, and then at some point, it’s time to get off.\u00a0 \u00a0The more hardcore ones are into a lot of drugs as well.\u00a0 They almost always tend to be good-looking girls and will try to use their looks as leverage to acquire things and get what they want. If you run into these girls, you won’t be able to establish too much deep rapport.<\/p>\n \u00a0You’ll find that it’s difficult to establish rapport on an emotional level and even more difficult to relax and discuss something personal or intellectual.\u00a0 Another tendency you’ll observe is that they love talking about themselves but do not seem to be interested much in you or others.\u00a0 Some party chicks are “Talkers.”\u00a0 The kind of talkers that you can put on speaker-phone, leave the house to run errands and come back, and they’ll be still engaged in monologues.\u00a0<\/p>\n They are very “Me, Me, Me” oriented so you’ll notice that it’s always about what their wants are.\u00a0 Some of them, I’ve noticed are the pain in the ass type of complainers.\u00a0 I don’t mean legitimate complaints, but the nagging types.\u00a0 “It’s boring here, let’s go” or “This food is too cold, ” meanwhile it’s\u00a0 5 degrees cooler than it should be.\u00a0\u00a0Even if you haven’t dated girls like this, I’m guessing you’ve been around other guys who were dating such an archetype.\u00a0Most of their friends are of the same ilk.\u00a0 The drama is never ending.\u00a0 If you married a girl like this, well, you probably fucked up.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0These types of girls are drama-heavy.\u00a0 Coincidentally, they’ll constantly talk about how they “Hate Drama” but spend some time with them, you’ll find that you’re engulfed in a never-ending sea of drama.\u00a0 A simple visit to a restaurant is no longer an enjoyably act of breaking bread with a few friends.\u00a0 “Food is too hot, food is too cold, waiter looked at me the wrong way, there was an extra mushroom on the plate, I want a refund,”\u00a0 and it just never ends.\u00a0 Tip for you to remember from now on:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00a0 Any girl who discusses or mentions drama, is all about it.<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n \u00a0You may or may not ever realize how much grief that is going to save you.\u00a0 Remember the above motto\u00a0even\u00a0when you’re reading\u00a0personal-ads on a site like Match.com.\u00a0 If she says she hates “All that Drama,” it’s because she is constantly knee deep in it.\u00a0 People who are not engufled in drama, do NOT mention it, because it does not even occur to them!<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n \u00a0Example: \u00a0When you walk on a sidewalk of a busy street, do you ever worry about a giant piano falling on your head?\u00a0 Probably not!\u00a0 Why?\u00a0 Better yet, would you write a personal ad talking about “You hate pianos falling onto the sidewalk from the 10th floor?”\u00a0\u00a0 Again, why not??\u00a0\u00a0 Because it’s not a common occurrence.\u00a0 If you lived\u00a0in\u00a0some neighborhood where pianos falling out of 10th story windows was a common occurrence, then you too would probably mention it, “Man, I am sick of seeing people getting\u00a0crushed by those falling Pianos.\u00a0 Enough is enough!”<\/p>\n \u00a0\u00a0 But as it stands, it probably didn’t even occur to you until I just brough it\u00a0to your attention\u00a010 seconds ago!\u00a0 Get my drift? ;-)<\/p>\n \u00a0I am going to do a recap of all these points at the end.\u00a0 This post was meant to give you an understanding, as well as a visual representation (of some obvious cases) of party girls.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0That’s\u00a0a lot for today!\u00a0 Stay tuned for the next Article in this series!\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0 ————<\/p>\n Definitive Series on Party Chicks: Part 3<\/a><\/p>\n PS. 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