{"id":1258,"date":"2009-09-14T01:00:15","date_gmt":"2009-09-14T08:00:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=1258"},"modified":"2010-06-04T19:28:00","modified_gmt":"2010-06-05T02:28:00","slug":"definitive-series-on-party-chicks-part-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/09\/14\/definitive-series-on-party-chicks-part-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Definitive Series on Party Chicks &#8211; Part 3"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Party chick, the Sociological and Anthropological Perspective.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>\u00a0.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0This is a continuation from, <a href=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/09\/11\/definitive-post-on-party-girls-part-2\/\" target=\"_blank\">Defnitive Series on Party Chicks, Part 2<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In the last article, I discussed what\/who party chicks are, what drives their actions, what motivates their behavior, and what their core values are.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0I&#8217;d like to take a sociological perspective on this.\u00a0 Now, let&#8217;s be honest.\u00a0 It&#8217;s doubtful that any university is going to offer me a guest lecture spot for my amateur stab at sociology, but then again, I&#8217;d bet you that a team of pencil pushing professors from prestigious universities of our fine nation couldn&#8217;t break down party girls for ya the way I can.\u00a0\u00a0 So, let&#8217;s get to it:<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s look at this from Afar:\u00a0 Imagine you&#8217;re an alien-being living in a different galaxy and you decide to watch your version of what is the Discovery Channel.\u00a0\u00a0You turn on your television or hologram tube and see a program on\u00a0people\u00a0and animals on Planet Earth: \u00a0<\/p>\n<ul type=\"disc\">\n<li>Today&#8217;s Show: Part of a series on Humanoids on Planet Earth just a few galaxies away.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>Today&#8217;s Episode: The Party Chick and its social mating habits.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0There is a subcategory of females that are, for better or worse, categorized as party chicks.\u00a0 They like to have a good time, and they&#8217;re self absorbed.\u00a0 WE already know that.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 Most &#8220;Party Girls&#8221; are in their 20s, and they happen to be more attractive than average.\u00a0 The age range can vary from 18 to 30, a being a party girl is not a matter of age, but rather it&#8217;s <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">mindset<\/span>. This is of the utmost importance. We&#8217;ll get to that later.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0The party-chick possesses physical attributes that she trades as social currency.\u00a0\u00a0 Most guys will wilt and bend when faced with the promise of sex.\u00a0 More than anything, the party-chick has learned to dangle sex like a carrot in front of the old donkey.\u00a0 \u00a0Keep in mind that the party chick comes in various flavors of socio-economic class.\u00a0 There can be clich\u00e9d &#8220;Trailer Trash&#8221; to the socialite.\u00a0 So you could be talking about Britney Spears or Paris Hilton,\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not a one sided affair, however.\u00a0 There are hordes of men waiting out there to trade monetary currency to hang with party girls.\u00a0 These are the guys who will spend lots of money buying the girls drinks, the ones with the limo waiting outside of the club, and bottle service inside the club, all part of the package deal to get back to the house to snort some blow.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Contrary to popular belief, these guys are not losers who just don&#8217;t have game.\u00a0 This, for better or worse, is their Game.\u00a0 Party girls want to have fun and have a free ride.\u00a0 These guys provide it and receive sex as compensation. Well, there are a lot of steps in between, but that&#8217;s what&#8217;s basically occurring here.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0What&#8217;s in it for them?\u00a0 They want sex with thin girls in their 20s.\u00a0 The men&#8217;s age range could very from 20s to 50s.\u00a0 It doesn&#8217;t matter.\u00a0 They dynamic does not change.\u00a0 What type of guys are these?\u00a0 These are guys who have lots of money.\u00a0 Money provides access to hottest nightclubs (remember the need to be seen socially, stimulus junkies), bottle service, lots of free flowing alcohol, and cocaine [amongst other hardcore drugs.)<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0The Money-man provides these in return for the party chick&#8217;s company and sex.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a weird symbiotic exchange that goes on.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a tacit agreement that is intuitively understood, yet never discussed, nor is it ever mentioned verbally between the two creatures.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Well, it&#8217;s all fun and games until father time and mother nature start exerting their will.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Suddenly, a funny thing happens on the way to the big three zero.\u00a0 When the Party chick hits the age of 30.\u00a0 She is no longer in demand by the type of guys who entertain, wine and dine party chicks.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 The men spending lots of cash do so because they desire girls in their early 20s.\u00a0 The dynamic works because party girls respond to social value.\u00a0 So it&#8217;s irrelevant if the guy lacks charisma, personality, or charm.\u00a0 He has what counts: Financial currency.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><em>The party chick has looks to trade as social currency.<\/em>\u00a0\u00a0 Make no mistake about it.\u00a0 At its most basic component, on a primitive scale, this is an exchange of currency.\u00a0\u00a0 Once the party-chick turns roughly 30 years old, she no longer possesses that social currency.\u00a0 The men spending 1000s of dollars on a nightly basis are not looking to catch 30 plus year old women.\u00a0 They want the young girls, and there is a new crop of 20 somethings has been harvested, a new generation has surfaced. They&#8217;re about to be introduced to the wilderness and the old generation is irrelevant.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Suddenly, the 30 year old party chick is put out to pasture.\u00a0 Past her shelf life, she has gone the way of the audio-cassette tape, obsolete and irrelevant.\u00a0 The majority of the time, party chicks are not career women or well educated.\u00a0 They have been too busy partying.\u00a0 (This is not always the case.\u00a0 Just the majority of the time.)<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0What type of guys are these?\u00a0 These are guys who have lots of money and are willing to use it to attract these types of women.\u00a0 Money provides access to hottest nightclubs (remember the need to be seen socially, stimulus junkies), bottle service, lots of free flowing alcohol, and cocaine [amongst other hardcore drugs.).\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The Money-man provides these in return for the party chick&#8217;s company and sex.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a weird symbiotic exchange that goes on.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a tacit agreement that is intuitively understood, yet never discussed, nor is it ever mentioned verbally between the two creatures.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Having no real education, trade, or career, the party chick turns into a state of semi-panic.\u00a0 She must now ponder her future and how she will maintain her lifestyle, or even provide a decent standard of shelter, food, and such. How will she do this?\u00a0 It&#8217;s scrambling time for the party chick.\u00a0 Having spent the bulk of their 20s partying, they usually don&#8217;t have much of an education, and since snorting coke and shopping do not come across that impressive on a resume, they don&#8217;t have much of a career track either.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0She must turn to a provider to provide this.\u00a0 Her looks are fading quickly and remember she only has her physical appearance as the only social currency for trade.\u00a0 Things are going to get dim unless she cashes in what currency she has left.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0She finds that provider.\u00a0 The provider is also referred to as husband and he is legally bound to provide for the party chick.\u00a0 He is the chump.\u00a0 In America, there is a service called carfax.\u00a0 Before you purchase the car, you can get a document telling you what the car has been through. There is no carfax service to for party chicks.\u00a0 The husband to be has no idea of what kind of unsavory character she has been spending time with, or if her nostrils are padded with a snowflake trail of cocaine.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Unfortunately, this guys is the biggest chump in his habitat.\u00a0\u00a0 He has bought a thrashed vehicle that was no good to begin with.\u00a0 The writing is on the wall.\u00a0 This man is going to be one miserable son of a bitch.\u00a0 In fact, we have a photo of a man taken a few years after his marriage to a party chick.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1259\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1259\" style=\"width: 225px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1259 \" src=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/09\/divrced-from-party-chick.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"185\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1259\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Divorced from Party-Chick<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0All kidding aside, I&#8217;ve had pals who succumbed to this and ended up having a party chick as a girlfriend or fianc\u00e9e.\u00a0 You wish them well, and you hope that it works out but then again, you know that the writing is on the wall.\u00a0 It&#8217;s 99% likely to fail miserably.\u00a0 And it does.\u00a0 Wait!<\/p>\n<p>Well, what if she change her ways?\u00a0\u00a0<br \/>\nWhat if she saw the light?\u00a0 What if she is now a person with goals and ambitions, perhaps even someone who wants to raise a good family?<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the big question, isn&#8217;t?\u00a0 Is the person reformed?\u00a0 Actually, the real variable here is cause of the reform:<\/p>\n<p>Did the person change her\/his ways because<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <em>She experienced some sort of an epiphany?\u00a0 Perhaps she had a paradigm shift?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Or<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; <em>Did the person change because her circumstances forced her to?\u00a0 (But she really didn&#8217;t want to&#8230;)<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0If it&#8217;s the latter, you&#8217;re screwed.\u00a0 Why?\u00a0 She still seeks stimulus.\u00a0 She never stopped WANTING to party, snort coke, and spend weekends wasted in a drunken haze.\u00a0 It&#8217;s just that the circumstances of the world forced her to change.\u00a0 That&#8217;s what she really wants to do, but then there are these minor inconveniences, like paying rent\/mortgage, paying bills, car payments, food and various bills..\u00a0 Someone has to pay for these.\u00a0That guy is set for misery, as seen in above photo. \u00a0\u00a0Don&#8217;t become like that guy!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">The Insider Perspective<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0 One of my greatest insights over the years came from knowing party girls whom I knew platonically because they were related to my friends.\u00a0 It&#8217;s one thing to observe this dynamic when the outside but it&#8217;s enlightening to watch it from the inside.\u00a0 These are girls that were off-limits because they were a friend&#8217;s sister or cousin.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 Time provides the luxury of experience and it you pay attention long enough, sometimes you learn a thing or two.\u00a0 When you get to your 30s, you realize that there are people you&#8217;ve observed well over a decade and most of the time, their behavioral tendencies don&#8217;t deviate much.\u00a0 Yet, it&#8217;s interesting to note how a change in life is created through change in circumstances.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Such is the case with one particular party girl I&#8217;ve known for years.\u00a0 She happens to be a cousin of one of one of my friends who is a few years old than me.\u00a0 As a teenager, I observed her to be the queen of her social circle.\u00a0 In demand, sought after, and taken care of, she had no worries.\u00a0 We used to watch her leave the house with no money in her pocket which was always intriguing.\u00a0 What about club cover charges, alcohol, taxicab rides?\u00a0 &#8220;Ha!\u00a0 We don&#8217;t pay to get in ever!\u00a0 And we just find guys to buy us drinks.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Said with the confidence of someone who didn&#8217;t take a dollar with her, so self-assured that she&#8217;d never need it.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 The story takes a turn as you might imagine.\u00a0 You watch them go from in demand to obsolete, out-dated , put out to pasture, marry a guy and divorce is sure to follow 5 years later.\u00a0 That particular script, I&#8217;ve seen numerous times.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0That&#8217;s because party girls seldom change. People seldom change.\u00a0 Really heavy\u00a0 people stay obese and alcoholic stay alcoholics.\u00a0 It takes hard work and dedication to change, something most people are not willing to do.\u00a0 That applies to party girls as well.\u00a0 Man, I can drag you by the hand to the South Bay tonight and show you 39-year old party-chicks.\u00a0 They got married, had kids, got divorced (not necessary in the sequence), and here they are still seeking chasing the dragon. You know what they did last weekend?\u00a0 Got drunk, went to some clubs, talked about nothing.\u00a0 Want to guess what they&#8217;re doing next weekend?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Hey, nothing wrong with a few cocktails and nothing wrong with having some fun!\u00a0 However, when that is ALL someone is about, you have to ask yourself a serious question: Do you want to have a relationship with such a person?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0If you&#8217;re someone who is seeking a long term relationship, a companion, or wife, you probably ought to stay clear from party girls.\u00a0 That seems like common sense, but then, it&#8217;s not always that simple.\u00a0 She could be reformed because she is husband shopping and that makes thing a bit more complicated.\u00a0 We&#8217;re back to the question I asked earlier.\u00a0 Was the reform a result of some sort of maturity, mental\/spiritual growth, or was it the circumstance that forced her hand?\u00a0 If you can answer that, you know the answer to your question.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 OK. but what if you want to become better at interacting with these types of girls?\u00a0 Now that you are aware of this information, how do you apply it?\u00a0 That&#8217;s the next article!\u00a0 You&#8217;re going to want to read that one!<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0PS.\u00a0 The very article you\u2019ve just read will significantly impact your dating life, and maybe save you from a\u00a0messy divoce and 10000s of Dollars!\u00a0 \u00a0Please realize that it is supporting material to what I discuss in my expanded work.\u00a0 Get a copy today:\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenanywhere.com\/ebook.shtml\" target=\"_blank\">Building Attraction Ebook<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Party chick, the Sociological and Anthropological Perspective. \u00a0. \u00a0This is a continuation from, Defnitive Series on Party Chicks, Part 2 In the last article, I discussed what\/who party chicks are,&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[193,20,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1258","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-dating-advice","category-human-social-psychology-and-behavior","category-in-field-advice"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1258","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1258"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1258\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1315,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1258\/revisions\/1315"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1258"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1258"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1258"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}