{"id":1263,"date":"2009-09-16T01:00:15","date_gmt":"2009-09-16T08:00:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=1263"},"modified":"2010-06-04T19:34:32","modified_gmt":"2010-06-05T02:34:32","slug":"definitive-series-on-party-chicks-part-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/09\/16\/definitive-series-on-party-chicks-part-4\/","title":{"rendered":"Definitive Series on Party-Chicks, Part 4"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Guidelines for Interacting with Party-Girls<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u00a0OK, Cameron, this is like an inside expose on party chicks.\u00a0 I love it, but how do I use this information?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u00a0Good question.\u00a0 Well, first you have to learn to spot the party girls. You do so through their <strong>mindset, behavior\/actions and speech.<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0If you need a review, read the colossal <a href=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/09\/11\/definitive-post-on-party-girls-part-2\/\" target=\"_blank\">guide to Party chicks part 2<\/a>,\u00a0as well as, \u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/09\/14\/definitive-series-on-party-chicks-part-3\/\" target=\"_blank\">Part3<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 Well, right off the bat, you&#8217;ll spot the ones that are just screaming &#8220;party chick.&#8221; These are the ones who insist on dancing on the table tops, making out with their other female friends, flashing their tits at guys, and various other attention whoring activities.\u00a0 Those are the obvious.\u00a0 A blind man could see them a half mile away.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0But then what if you&#8217;re talking to some girl at a casual house party and it&#8217;s relatively early.\u00a0 She isn&#8217;t drunk and she hasn&#8217;t gone into the full party mode yet.\u00a0 You&#8217;ll easy decipher from conversational topics.\u00a0 The topics revolve around partying, getting drunk, shopping, drama with their various friends, back to parting and getting drunk.\u00a0 You&#8217;ll notice that after talking to her for 20 minutes, you really haven&#8217;t really discussed anything of substance.\u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0You&#8217;ll also find that most of the conversations revolve around themselves.\u00a0 &#8220;I, I, I, Me, Me, Me,&#8221; is very common, and upon hearing you&#8217;re visiting from Switzerland, you&#8217;ll hear, &#8220;<em>Oh, wow, my friend so and so was at Interlaken.\u00a0 She was skiing, snowboarding, and partying all the time!\u00a0 Fun to party there<\/em>.&#8221;\u00a0 And we are back to partying again.\u00a0 They&#8217;ll\u00a0know nothing about the culture.\u00a0 \u00a0Or sometimes, they may just ask you, &#8220;Wow, how long did it take to drive here?&#8221;\u00a0 That one, you&#8217;ll have to just handle on your own.\u00a0\u00a0 (And yes, that is an actual response one of my Swiss friends received upon divulging from he was from Switzerland.\u00a0 You can&#8217;t make this shit up)<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Lastly, mindset:\u00a0 You&#8217;ll also find over a length of time that all activities and pursuit lead to high level stimulus.\u00a0 You may suggest going to watch the Sunset on the Beach, or going to hike in nature, or going to do something relaxing.\u00a0 Almost without exception, there will be an attempt to switch to some high stimulus activity, &#8220;Let&#8217;s go to such and such club or event where DJ Jerkoff is spinning tonight.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0It&#8217;s not some sort of a test, but rather, it&#8217;s just what they prefer.\u00a0 If you happen to like the aforementioned activities, then you just have to find a girl who likes those things as well.\u00a0 I know that sounds blatanly obvious, almost to the point of being insulting, but that points gets lost.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0I know guys will be quick to point out that, &#8220;This is true, but I&#8217;ve seen party girls become more relaxed once they have a boyfriend.&#8221;\u00a0 While this can and does happen, the effect is temporary in my observation.\u00a0 It may be 6 months later, it may be two years later, but she will revert back to the party chick persona, and the relationship is over.\u00a0 It was doomed.\u00a0 It never had a chance to begin with.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Perhaps at some point you will run into the &#8220;Party chick engaged into my buddy&#8221; conundrum.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a tough one to solve.\u00a0 You have a friend who is about to an exclsuve relationship to a party-chick or worse yet, propse to her for marriage.\u00a0 On one hand, you are not close enough with this guy to have a candid &#8220;Heart to heart&#8221; chat, and you are not distant enough to ignore the situation.\u00a0 You hope that it works out for the best and they they&#8217;re happy together but deep down inside, you know beyond any doubt, that this is a disaster waiting to happen.\u00a0 Most marriages may have a 50% chance of longetvity, but this one has a 99% chance of failure.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>So you&#8217;ve correctly identified the party girl through her mindset, actions\/behaviors and words.\u00a0 What to do next?\u00a0 How does this change the game plan?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Most women seem to have a\u00a0 sexual side of themselves that is roaring to be released in the bedroom.\u00a0 It&#8217;s probably why the old axiom exists.\u00a0 &#8220;A lady out the house, a slut in the bedroom.&#8221;\u00a0 I think given the choice, most men want a classy girl who can carry intelligent conversations with a group at a dinner party, and then turn into some sexual lunatic that looks like she walked out of the best porn scene you&#8217;ve ever seen.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<em>What changes the dynamics with party girls is that they like to wear their sexuality on their sleeve.<\/em>\u00a0 They like to flaunt the &#8220;Slut&#8221; attitude to get them attention.\u00a0 These are the ones begging for attention.\u00a0 Move too quickly, and you&#8217;re toast.\u00a0 They&#8217;ll push you away and ignore ya.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t make any move and you seem intimidated.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0To walk that fine line is to exude the attitude of &#8220;<em>Yes, I&#8217;d do bad things to you that make you scream and pant, but I am really not impressed with your antics.&#8221;<\/em>\u00a0 (Just to be clear, do NOT say the words outloud.\u00a0 Exude the attitude.\u00a0 If you don&#8217;t know how, well then, you gotta learn.)<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0As for me, I&#8217;d like to tell you that I treat all people the same.\u00a0 I&#8217;d like to tell you that I am classy, pleasant, and accomdoating to all folk regardless of how they treat me.\u00a0 I&#8217;d like to tell you that I behave similarly towards all women.\u00a0 I&#8217;d also be telling you a bunch of bullshit.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Maybe I am not spiritually advanced enough, or maybe I don&#8217;t read enough Deepack Chopra.\u00a0 Then again, maybe this is how a lot of us behave as people until the self-help movement of the past 20 years had us believing that if someone is screwing you, you ought to turn around and ask if they&#8217;d like to consume an ice cold beverage for all of their hardwork.<\/p>\n<p>Eitherway, I don&#8217;t treat all girls the same.\u00a0 This is not to say that this is something yoshould do.\u00a0 It&#8217;s what <strong>I<\/strong> Do.\u00a0 Let&#8217;s be clear on that.\u00a0 What you do is your business and it&#8217;s your own responsibility.\u00a0 Stand by the consequences of your actions.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Remember that there are some party girls who are fun and some who are just a pain in the ass.\u00a0 This\u00a0particular one,\u00a0who looks like a pain in the ass,\u00a0was in the news recently.\u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1277 alignleft\" title=\"bloghailey1\" src=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/09\/bloghailey1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"250\" height=\"235\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0One more photos for fun.\u00a0 By the way, <em>Anyone, male or female, who constantly flips off a camera<br \/>\nin every photo is pretty much a douchebag.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1278 alignright\" title=\"bloghailey2\" src=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/09\/bloghailey2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"169\" \/>\u00a0 <\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0This is\u00a0the same girl in both photos.\u00a0 The news people felt like they had to preserve the reputation of the other fine folk in these photos by blurring their faces out.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Tip # 1:\u00a0 Have FUN, and <em>Be Cooler<\/em> than They are.<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0During a conversation, I will determine if the person I am chatting with is a party girl or not.\u00a0 Pretty quickly, I decipher what type she falls into.\u00a0 Party girls are easy to spot.\u00a0 Someimtes, I even know it before having a conversation.\u00a0 Hence, I&#8217;d say things to them that I&#8217;d never say to someone I&#8217;d actually respected as a person.\u00a0 (And a few of the girls I&#8217;ve slept with, I didn&#8217;t really respect.\u00a0 And to be fair, maybe they felt the same way about me.)\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Party Chick:\u00a0<em>&#8220;Oh my gosh, I&#8217;ve been doing sooo many crunches.\u00a0 I do sit ups like everyday.\u00a0 Like all the time.\u00a0 Like I have been taking &#8220;Bootcamp&#8221;\u00a0 on Mondys.\u00a0 Oh my gosh, we do, like, so much ab work.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Me:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<em>Well, to be fair, abs are not your issue.\u00a0 You ought to start doing lots of lunges and squats, baby.\u00a0<\/em> (Friendly, friendly, friendly.\u00a0 With a smile, not hostile.\u00a0 Did I mention friendly?)<\/p>\n<p>PC: oh my gosh, can&#8217;t believe you just said.<\/p>\n<p>Friend chimes in- Cameron, did you just say, her ass looks terrible.<\/p>\n<p>Me:\u00a0 Come on.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t twist my words now.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Friend: Yeah, but you just said&#8230;..\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>ME:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Seriously, come to the gym with me.\u00a0 First lesson is on me.\u00a0 Free of charge.\u00a0 I&#8217;ll show you a good routine that&#8217;s going to make a big difference.\u00a0 (Do NOT engage in an argument.\u00a0 Pointless.\u00a0 State your case, move on.\u00a0 I am the nice guy here! Offering a free training session free of charge.)<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0The point is to:<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<strong>1. Have Fun<br \/>\n\u00a02. Be Cooler Than They are.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Now, how you care to conduct yourself to create that dynamic is your business.\u00a0 You don&#8217;t have to copy me.\u00a0 Timing is key here and you have to know when to say the right thing.\u00a0 My statements could be construed as insulting and probably will come across as insulting when said by the average dating-advice seeker.\u00a0 Thus, beware of that dynamic.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Tip #2:\u00a0 You Must\u00a0Ignore Sexual Baiting for Attention.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You could make a case that a musician performing in front of 10,000 people is also enjoying the attention from the crowd regardless of how much he enjoys his art.\u00a0 (By the way, I said &#8220;<em>Musician<\/em>&#8221; not some disgusting boy-band or repulsive concoction like Lady-gaga.)<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Receiving attention for something that took effort to create, years of practice to hone is to be appreciated.\u00a0 Trying to receive attention because you realized you were born with a vagina-orifice between your legs seems just a little bit&#8230;. Lazy, shall we say?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Wearing sexuality on her sleeve<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0 Going out of her way to tease you and everyone else sexually.\u00a0 Dancing provocatively with her girlfriend on the dance floor trying to garner the attention of everyone.\u00a0 You have two choices.\u00a0 More often than not, you&#8217;re better off ignoring it.\u00a0 The other option is go in and get involved, if you&#8217;re ballsy enough.\u00a0 They may try to push you away, or reject your advances, but that can&#8217;t bother you.\u00a0 There an entire species of men who score with these types of women solely because they&#8217;re aggressive and oblivious.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0It&#8217;s more like watching animal kingdom on disvoery channel than it is watching humans with evolved brains interact. However, it can work, and sometimes, it can work very well!\u00a0\u00a0 That is if you have the balls to do it, and if rejected, not give a damn, and do it again with someone else 5 minutes later.\u00a0 It&#8217;s not classy nor it is all that cool, but it can work!\u00a0 It&#8217;s not my style but since it can work, then it ought to be mentioned.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0However, whatever you do, please, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">do not ever get caught<\/span> as part of a large crowd of admirers.\u00a0 If there are two girls making out to attract attention, the last person you want to be is part of the group of guys watching with jaws dropped admiring the scene as though they just saw Aliens land on Planet Earth.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 Is ignoring them going to attract them to you?\u00a0 Not necessarily.\u00a0 You see two girls making out on the table tops, and your turn your head away. \u00a0This is not a tactic to get them salivating over you.\u00a0 It&#8217;s merely to save you from being the chump bystander observer.\u00a0 That, they might be intrigued as to WHY you are not smitten by their attention-seeking ploys is more of a by-product of the action than a\u00a0directly intended result. So, yes, it may work to your favor by arousing their curiosity should they even notice, but that is secondary\u00a0here.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0More on tips on the next Article&#8230; (part 5)<\/p>\n<p>PS. \u00a0Please realize that it is supporting material to what I discuss in my expanded work.\u00a0If you&#8217;re not at least &#8220;Somewhat Cool&#8221;, you&#8217;re not going to get girls. If you want to get that part handled, get yourself a copy of\u00a0my Ebook here::\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenanywhere.com\/ebook.shtml\" target=\"_blank\">Building Attraction Ebook<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0Guidelines for Interacting with Party-Girls . \u00a0OK, Cameron, this is like an inside expose on party chicks.\u00a0 I love it, but how do I use this information? \u00a0Good question.\u00a0 Well,&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[193,20,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1263","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-dating-advice","category-human-social-psychology-and-behavior","category-in-field-advice"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1263","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1263"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1263\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1276,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1263\/revisions\/1276"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1263"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1263"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1263"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}