{"id":1266,"date":"2009-09-18T01:00:15","date_gmt":"2009-09-18T08:00:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=1266"},"modified":"2010-06-04T19:24:48","modified_gmt":"2010-06-05T02:24:48","slug":"definitive-series-on-party-chicks-part-5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/09\/18\/definitive-series-on-party-chicks-part-5\/","title":{"rendered":"Definitive Series on Party Chicks &#8211; Part 5"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Party Girls &#8211; Conclusion <\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u00a0.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s contintue with more real world guidelines and practical tips\u00a0on interacting with Party chicks.\u00a0 (And by the way, you are receiving more valueable information here for free than workshops you&#8217;ve paid 1000s of Dollars for.)\u00a0 So with that note, let&#8217;s talk more Real-Life Applications!<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Tip # 3: Dealing with Drama<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I briefly touched upon this in part 2 but let&#8217;s talk about how you deal with it.\u00a0 Keep in mind that we are way past an initial cold-approach here.\u00a0 These girls could be ones in your social circles or\u00a0someone you&#8217;re dating.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone is bound to have a bad day here and there, and they&#8217;re entitled to vent to get it off his\/her chest.\u00a0 With party girls, it&#8217;s never ending.\u00a0 There is drama in everything, and everywhere regardless of how irrelevant or minuscule the situation or dynamics.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you&#8217;re out on a date, or just talking to one at the club, you have to learn be to non-reactive to the drama of <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">this<\/span> archetype<\/span>.\u00a0\u00a0It sounds simple enough, right?\u00a0\u00a0In reality, it&#8217;s a bit more difficult to be non-reactive to the bullshit drama thrown at you. \u00a0This mistake, I&#8217;ve made quite a few times.\u00a0 You&#8217;d think you&#8217;d learn after the first mistake, but nope.\u00a0\u00a0Well, I\u00a0definitely didn&#8217;t.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I think most of us are conditioned to want to be helpful, or perhaps it&#8217;s our human instinct.\u00a0 It&#8217;s noble and it&#8217;s dignified, except when it comes to this archetype of person.<\/p>\n<p>The biggest mistake men make in this situation is giving in to the hero complex.\u00a0 It plays out something like this: Party chick starts drama, guy tries to be the hero who &#8220;Helps&#8221; her, he becomes worse for it, she forgets about and moves on with no real resoultion to the matter.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0The best thing you can do, specially if you&#8217;re a\u00a03rd party who is not even involved\u00a0in the matter, is to leave it alone.\u00a0 Ignore it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Tip # 4 &#8211; Expect Flaking.<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Yes, this is going to happen.\u00a0 At first, you may be disenchanted that the person is not being honorable, or perhaps they&#8217;re not &#8220;keeping their word.&#8221;\u00a0 That&#8217;s a normal reaction when you operate under the umbrella of those value.\u00a0 In dealing with party chicks, (And Party men), you&#8217;ll learn quickly that their word means nothing.\u00a0\u00a0 They meant to come join you, and it was certainly their intention when they sent you that text.\u00a0 It&#8217;s just that something providing more stimuli presented itself.<\/p>\n<p>You could have been engaging back and forth in\u00a0various texts and things seemed fine.\u00a0 Two days later, you send a couple of texts and you get&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;nothing.\u00a0 It&#8217;s not personal.\u00a0 A bigger stimuli presented itself.\u00a0 That&#8217;s all.<\/p>\n<p>There is a silver lining in all of this.\u00a0 Remember that you&#8217;re operating on different value systems equivalent to speaking two different languages.\u00a0 So while YOU perceived the lack of reply (or the flaking) as a rejection, that&#8217;s not really how it&#8217;s perceived by the party chick (or the party dude.)\u00a0 They just sort of forgot about it.<\/p>\n<p>So let&#8217;s say you invited a party-chick to a house party and she agreed to go.\u00a0 Then, on the night of the party, she is a no show.\u00a0 You can ask her to the next event again next week!\u00a0 The <strong><em>key is to do so nonchalantly and casual about it.<\/em><\/strong> This may seem like you&#8217;re chasing a bit, and you probably are.\u00a0 However, if your social currency is lower, then sometimes that&#8217;s what it takes for you to get laid with this kind of girl.\u00a0 And yes, let&#8217;s be honest, you&#8217;re not pursuing this archetype for a relationship.\u00a0 You are not looking to make her a girlfriend\u00a0or even date her.\u00a0 You&#8217;re doing it for sex.\u00a0 Let&#8217;s not kid ourselves here. \u00a0Well, welcome to the jungle.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Tip # 5: Understand the Social Value Scale:<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The last paragraph segues\u00a0to the social currency scale.\u00a0 \u00a0Most party girls are good looking, and even physically average looking party girl at age 22 is going to have more social value than a man at age 22.\u00a0 It&#8217;s just the way it goes.\u00a0 How do you best engage this archetype?<\/p>\n<p>Well, go with your best foot forward.\u00a0 But you gotta realize what your best foot is.\u00a0 Also, realize that the gimmicks you learn in many &#8220;Methods&#8221; of pickup are designed as artificial tools to provide a temporary illusion that you hve high social value.\u00a0 Whether it&#8217;s a neg, a cocky funny insult, pretending to be a rockstar, preteding to be whatever&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Good looks,\u00a0a nice\u00a0physique, money, connections, resources, all play a part in the social value scale.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;d be better off as a douchebag who brags all the time. While socially unpleasant, it can serve its purpose.\u00a0 It won&#8217;t win anyone high quality circle of friends, but\u00a0it can win you\u00a0low self-esteem women. \u00a0Guys who deal often with this archetype have found ways of upping their social values.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve seen it all.\u00a0Well, may be not &#8220;All&#8221;, but quite a few variations.\u00a0 The following are different types of characters I&#8217;ve come across who use some sort of social leverage to gain an edge:<\/p>\n<p>Rolling Stone reporter, porn-business guy who can you porn\u00a0jobs! American in foreign country; \u00a0White guy in an Asian country, drug provider, connected guy, club promoter guy, porn-producer guys, fake producer guy, real actual producer, after-party guy, broke drummer of shitty band, actual retired drummer of good band, big fish in a small pond guy, small town guy from town&#8217;s influential family, the bad ass, the bad boy adventurer, drifter with an edge, flat ass broke but con-man charming guy.<\/p>\n<p>At bars across various States of the Union, from CA to NY, I&#8217;ve met some form of the above.<\/p>\n<p>A big party of the perception of you by others is going to be Fueled by your attitude as well.\u00a0 Unfortunately, you can&#8217;t fake this one.\u00a0 Well, people try but core-confidence cannot be faked, at least not in the long term.\u00a0 It&#8217;s not sustainable.\u00a0 Having a high self-image of oneself is going to pay good dividends in this matter.<\/p>\n<p>Without the proper attributes, this knowledge will only partially help you.\u00a0 To develop the attributes, you know where to go&#8230; Well, I&#8217;ll make it easy. Click here: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenanywhere.com\/audiocourse.shtml\">http:\/\/www.attractwomenanywhere.com\/audiocourse.shtml<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Tip # 6:\u00a0 Perspective.\u00a0 Look at it for what it is.<\/strong> <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This has been a lengthy series on the archetype of Party-chicks.\u00a0 You may have various perceptions of such girls but it&#8217;s important to know that they&#8217;re not good or evil.\u00a0 The acquaintance partygirls I&#8217;ve known over the years are not some sort of evil people.\u00a0\u00a0They&#8217;re a bit self-absorbed, too concerned with their social value &amp; hierarchy, and too much in need of constant attention regardless of where they&#8217;re at.\u00a0 They may not be the sharpest tools in the shed, and they won&#8217;t win any intellectual awards any time soon, but they can be fun to hang with. They can be friendly and\u00a0fun and you can even learn a thing or two from the way the\u00a0move their way in social\u00a0situations.<\/p>\n<p>As the evil judge once said on the classic Rodney Dangerfield movie, <em>Caddie Shack<\/em>:<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;The World needs ditch diggers too!&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And the World needs party girls.\u00a0 Have you ever been to a bona fide Rock Star&#8217;s house party?\u00a0 A real Band that is notorious for\u00a0their\u00a0tendency\u00a0to party, (like a Motley-Crue type of band)?<\/p>\n<p>Neither have I.\u00a0\u00a0 But I&#8217;ve heard stories.\u00a0 It looks like something like the morning-after scene from the recent comedy movie, &#8220;<em>The Hangover<\/em>&#8221; except without the Tiger.\u00a0 Want girls to do naked hot oil wrestling and then snort cocaine off each other&#8217;s tits?\u00a0 A normal girl with dignity and self-respect isn&#8217;t going to that.\u00a0 Party girls will.\u00a0 Party girls will do almost anything so long as you are cooler than they are and have more social value.<\/p>\n<p>Remember this motto: <em>The Party girl who is a bitch to you, is someone else&#8217;s bitch.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>That simply means this:\u00a0A party girl\u00a0may act standoffish towards you if you&#8217;re in a position of being deemed uncool, and yet 10 minutes later, she&#8217;ll be doing lewd acts even the government of Mexico would frown upon.\u00a0Yes, there is a need for party girls.\u00a0 We want them in the same way we feel for the desire for plastic beer cups, or disposable hand wipes.<\/p>\n<p>So while guys complain on one hand about party girls, they don&#8217;t seem to mind the actual partying part of the equation.\u00a0 Can&#8217;t have it both ways.\u00a0If you like to party with this archetype, then you&#8217;ve gotta learn how to deal with such persons.\u00a0 The other option is, spend time with a different type of person.<\/p>\n<p>You may read the article and think that you are poor at attracting such women. First question you have to ask is, do you really want such people in your life?\u00a0 If yes, then learn how create the proper social milieu.\u00a0 As difficult as it may seem to get such girls for you now, it&#8217;s that easy when you tip the social scale in your favor.\u00a0 Such is the nature of the beast.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ngm.nationalgeographic.com\/print\/2005\/11\/longevity-secrets\/buettner-text\"><\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Quick Recap:<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Party girls seek constant high stimulus environments. (loud clubs, alcohol, drugs, etc)<\/li>\n<li>Conversational Topics are very limited:\u00a0 Partying, Gossip of various forms, Shopping, alcohol.<\/li>\n<li>Bigger Better Deal.\u00a0 They will upgrade to the next highest bidder who can provide more stimulus? What, better drugs?\u00a0 I&#8217;m there.<\/li>\n<li>Difficult to maintain conversations with depth.\u00a0 Will not ask personal questions often.<\/li>\n<li>Seek Attention all the time.<\/li>\n<li>Social value is of the utmost important to them.<\/li>\n<li>Ignore the drama that is bound to happen, (repeatedly.)<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t take flaking as rejection.<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t fall for the obvious sexual baiting<\/li>\n<li>Have Fun<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t take it seriously.\u00a0 It&#8217;s not that big of a deal.<\/li>\n<li>Have fun and be cooler than they are.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>PS&gt; \u00a0Please realize that it is supporting material to what I discuss in my expanded work.\u00a0If you&#8217;re not at least &#8220;Somewhat Cool&#8221;, you&#8217;re not going to get girls. 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