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\u00a0\u00a0A couple of weeks ago, a friend was in town.\u00a0 He is preparing to move to Los Angeles, and someone I met through my late friend Seth.\u00a0 This guy knows about the type of work that I do in the dating-field and so he asked me questions regarding a couple of girls he is interested in.\u00a0<\/p>\n
\u00a0There was one in particular that he really wanted to get out on a date.\u00a0 Upon whipping out his iPhone, he showed me a lengthy chain series of SMS Text exchanges.\u00a0 This texting must have gone on for a couple of weeks with no real substance to the conversation.\u00a0 At the end of this exchange, he was not too much closer to getting the girl to come out for a date than he was in the beginning.<\/p>\n
\u00a0I first corrected his obvious mistakes in his texts.\u00a0 Quite a few texts exhibited approval seeking behavior and some were way too long.\u00a0 You can’t constantly write paragraphs of texts when the other person’s replies are just one liners.\u00a0 It’s an uneven flow.\u00a0 It’s too much investment on your part, and not enough investment on her part.\u00a0 She is not committed enough to whatever relationship you have, while you’re really going above and beyond the call of duty.\u00a0<\/p>\n
\u00a0Having corrected his obvious texting mistakes, I took it one step further.\u00a0 I gave him the Cemented-Vagina test.\u00a0 I told him I’d thought about posting it on my blog quite sometime ago, but I never did.\u00a0 He insisted that I must do so, as I owe it to all men, as it had given him a new perspective and clarity.<\/p>\n
\u00a0This is by no means a pessimistic view of women.\u00a0 It’s not about cruelty, castration, or objectification.\u00a0 Rather, it’s about realization.\u00a0 Realization of how you live your life and the decisions you make.\u00a0<\/p>\n
It’s an exercise of the mind.\u00a0 Here is how it goes:<\/p>\n
\u00a0So the next time you’re talking to a girl, in her 20s<\/strong>, imagine that for some odd reason she poured concrete in her vagina.\u00a0 Maybe she watched one of those boring French movies and couldn’t take it anymore.\u00a0 It doesn’t matter.\u00a0 There is cement in the vagina.\u00a0 If asphalt helps you with the imagery, use that. Once cement solidifies, there is nothing going in, nothing going out.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0 So you have a Cemented Vagina<\/em>.\u00a0 It’s solid!\u00a0 Tough with density of a brick wall, it’d break your hands if you hit hard enough.\u00a0 Point being: your penis is never, ever, ever, going inside it.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0So here are a series of questions for you to answer:<\/p>\n Now, that you know it to be a physical impossibility for your penis to enter her vagina, do you care anymore?<\/p>\n \u00a0Take a moment and run this exercise on all the girls you currently know!\u00a0 Yes, all the ones on your networks, all the girls on your cell phone, and this also includes all of the ones in your precious facebook account.\u00a0 Do so and you shall be amazed.\u00a0 Or maybe you’d cry!\u00a0 You’ll realize that all of the stuff you’ve put up with was for chance to line up a landing formation for your penis into the tunnel of love.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0I’d speculate that 8 out of 10 girls you associate with would immediately fall off your radar if you applied the cemented vagina imagery exercise.\u00a0 2 out of 10 may fall into the category of, “Yes, I’d still talk to her!\u00a0 She is a cool person.”<\/p>\n \u00a0Look, there are going to be girls\/women that you like, and women whose company you enjoy.\u00a0 Ones you engage with in interested discussions, ones who share common interests, and hold similar values, the ones you laugh with, and you two share a ton of inside jokes that only make sense to the two of you. \u00a0Romantic relationship or not, you like them as individual people.\u00a0 You actually like them as human beings.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0The real question is, how many?\u00a0 Perhaps what percent fall into that category?\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0Now, look at your phone and look at the unreturned text you were thinking about emailing someone like me about.\u00a0 Apply the Cemented-Vagina exercise.\u00a0 You couldn’t have sex her with a rod made out of solid steel, let alone your penis.\u00a0 Ahhh, you feel silly, don’t ya.\u00a0 It happens to all of us.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 All of that effort was to make a precision strike on what my friend Steve P. calls “A small piece of real estate.”<\/p>\n \u00a0You probably have met your fair share of douchebags, idiots, and the like in the male population.\u00a0 You probably didn’t dwell on why they didn’t return your texts or phone call.\u00a0 Sure, maybe it was annoying at first, because you were trying to arrange a meeting or had something to talk about…..\u00a0 Nevertheless, shortly after, you forgot about it and moved on quickly.\u00a0\u00a0 Why?\u00a0 Well, no piece of real estate between their legs that you were interested in.\u00a0 Let’s be honest here.\u00a0 We are not talk about friends or people whom you had an emotional investment in.\u00a0 For the most part they were acquaintances.\u00a0 “Stranger” is a better adjective for it.\u00a0 The “Strangers” who didn’t have the desrired piece of Real Estate, you estranged rather quickly….<\/p>\n \u00a0So where does that leave the average guy?\u00a0 Am I advocating that from now on, you should only associate with women you like beyond sexual attractions?\u00a0 That would be nice, but I am not going to take that much of leap into an idealistic scenario.\u00a0 Plus it’d be hypocritical of me.\u00a0 I don’t even do that myself!!!\u00a0 I’d like to tell you that I approach every girl with the noble intention of pursuing a relationship, but it’s not the case.\u00a0 While I am open to the possibility, I quickly discover after 90 seconds of conversation that she is not ever going to be someone I am interested in dating long term.\u00a0 Yet, I continue to converse with her.<\/p>\n \u00a0 I flirt with lots of girls where my only intent is sexual and nothing else.\u00a0\u00a0 When Mr. Testosterone takes over, there is little rhyme, little reason, no room for logic, and your mind is subject to treason.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0So what’s the take away lesson thus far?\u00a0 It’s that we should NOT take this stuff too seriously.\u00a0 Sure, part of our ego, and self-pride gets involved and there is the element of validation that comes from that ?ber hot professional model liking us.\u00a0 At the same time, apply the cemented vagina test to the hot model and again, you’re sort of left pontificating your actions, and time spent.<\/p>\n \u00a0Hey, if you did that, you sort of would be behaving like an attractive high status girl.\u00a0 How is that?\u00a0 In my experience and observation, women are more choosy in selecting sexual partners than men are.\u00a0 We pretend to be selective, but let’s be honest, when there is vagina thrown at us and we’re single, we take it.\u00a0 (And sometimes even when married, but that’s a different story.)<\/p>\n \u00a0If I told you, I’ve known female friends who during a private conversation complained they had not been laid in months, you [the male reader] would immediately reply, “Why, they must be ugly dogs!\u00a0 Surely a half-way decent woman could get laid extremely easily.”\u00a0\u00a0 And I’d tell you that they are physically very attractive, and no, they’re not fat either!\u00a0 (I Know that’s your next thought.)\u00a0 We’re talking very flat stomachs.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 If you’re female and reading this, you probably understand it.<\/p>\n \u00a0\u00a0Women are just as sexual as men, but for some reason, they seem to exercise better self-control when it comes to engaging in sexual activity.\u00a0 Part of it is that they have offers of sex thrown at them all the time. \u00a0Now, you can get to all the evolutionary psychology and sit here to mentally masturbate about how men are genetically geared to spread their seeds while women must be careful because they can only bear one child every 9 months, and yada, yada, yada…\u00a0 It is what it is.\u00a0 The point is if you were to engage in that similar of behavior, you’d be in essence emulating the behavioral pattern of the proverbial “Hot chick” with high self-esteem.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0Actually, doing so, is a lot more difficult.\u00a0 Why would even want to try pal?\u00a0 After all, you’re not a hot chick and you’re looking to clean up any vagina thrown at you.\u00a0 Well, it’s that if you could successfully accomplish this exercise, even for a short period, you’d notice a huge difference in your interactions.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0Essentially, if you could even for just 1 week, put away any expectations of sex on the interactions, it would effectively eradicate any neediness.\u00a0 In layman’s terms: When you don’t expect pussy, you can’t possibly be needy.\u00a0 Unless you’re one of those annoying multi-level marketing people who wants to sell your dumb schemes, you’d have no need to keep a conversation going, no need to get a phone number, no need to have her return your last SMS text, no need to push for a date, no need to impress your male friends with a girl you just laid.\u00a0 The cemented vagina has halted of that.<\/p>\n \u00a0 That’s part of the point of this post.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0 \u00a0What if you’re in college right now and confused?\u00a0 You’re the university student who is trying to figure out how to infiltrate that particular sorority that houses the really attractive and really snobby girls.\u00a0 Maybe you know one or two of them from one of your classes.\u00a0 Apply the Cemented-Vagina test<\/em><\/strong>.\u00a0 Suddenly that entire sorority has come down with the cemented-vagina epidemic.\u00a0 You can’t have sex with that girl or any of her sorority sisters, ever!\u00a0 No one can!\u00a0 It’s physically impossible. The laws of physics prevent it.\u00a0 How much value do you put on trying to socialize with the girls of that sorority now?<\/p>\n \u00a0It’s Damn Frightening, isn’t it??\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0\u00a0What’s the greater point of all of this?\u00a0 What if you could zoom out and see the bigger picture?\u00a0 If you could step back, or rather step up a couple of hundred miles into outer space, right about the orbit of satellite and look down from the satellite-view perspective?<\/p>\n \u00a0Again,\u00a0\u00a0don’t take this stuff so seriously.\u00a0 You approach girls and date various ones.\u00a0 You have sex with some, and others won’t be interested.\u00a0 But if you’re approaching them just to have sex, then it isn’t that big of a deal if they’re not interested.\u00a0 And if you’re looking for a girlfriend or relationship, you interact with enough girls until you find the ones that DO PASS The test of the cemented vagina.\u00a0 If you still enjoy her as a person even without the sex, then you have something.\u00a0 Then the sex is the proverbial icing on the cake as the American clich\u00e9 goes.\u00a0 It creates the complete package.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0I’ll share\u00a0my experience. \u00a0You may have sex with a lot of girls\/women in your lifetime but the truth is you’re only going to remember a small percentage of those women….\u00a0\u00a0 And the ones that you do remember<\/span>, well, it will NOT\u00a0be because of the sex.\u00a0 It’ll be of the times spent together, the silly stuff you did, goofy moments you shared together, fun activity you engaged in or moments that moved you emotionally.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00a0\u00a0So my friends, if you’re confused and feeling dejected, if you’re knee deep in game-theory, and caught in a whirlwind of tactics of how to reply to that last text or say on that next phone call, Pause<\/span>, take a moment, take a deep breath and apply the cemented vagina test.\u00a0\u00a0 It may alleviate all that self-imposed pressure you’ve put on yourself and it may just give you a new perspective.\u00a0\u00a0 It just may change your life for the better.<\/p>\n Cameron<\/p>\n\n
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