{"id":1422,"date":"2009-12-09T01:59:56","date_gmt":"2009-12-09T08:59:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=1422"},"modified":"2010-05-31T22:37:24","modified_gmt":"2010-06-01T05:37:24","slug":"the-drama-with-soporno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/12\/09\/the-drama-with-soporno\/","title":{"rendered":"The Drama with Soporno…"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00a0The Drama with Johnny So-Porno<\/span><\/h2>\n

.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Shifting gears for a second here, I am going to switch from Dating-Advice to just Entertainment for a minute.\u00a0 If you’re seeking wholesome dating advice, the next couple of posts aren’t for you.<\/p>\n

\u00a0If you’re curious to see what freaks of nature walk amongst us, then you’d be pleasantly surprised and perhaps even pleased.<\/p>\n

\u00a0Johnny Soporno sends me an email asking why I’ve taken “Potshots” at him.\u00a0 He alleges that “Someone” sent him an email regarding me.\u00a0 Johnny would like to know why on the “Barry Kirkey Radio Show”, I’ve said that he is condescending.<\/p>\n

\u00a0I write him an email that’s very blunt, straight from the hip, and very sincere calling him out on his antics.\u00a0 I figure he asked and hence, he deserves to know. Man to Man.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u00a0His reply back is simply amazing in its cantankerous nature.\u00a0 Suddenly, Barry contacts me and wants to talk about Johnny’s reply \u00a0on his podcast.\u00a0 I then realized that Johnny copied Barry (and a girl named Janine) on his reply back to me.\u00a0 I can’t quite figure out why he’d copy Barry Kirkey on an email that had nothing to do with Barry.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u00a0Nevertheless, it’s what he did, and the second he did that, he opened Pandora’s box.\u00a0 Telling Barry is like Telling CNN or (would it be more like TMZ?), everyone is going to know about it.\u00a0 He is going to talk about it on his podcast, because it is intriguing and entertaining.\u00a0 So it all became public.<\/p>\n

Since it is somewhat public,I am going to print the email on my blog.\u00a0 It’s entertaining and even educational.\u00a0It’s not really even drama.\u00a0 Just a bit of entertainment.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Here we go.\u00a0 Below is my letter to Johnny.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ————————————–\u00a0<\/p>\n

Hey Johnny,<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0Your anonymous emailer makes a lot of assumptions.\u00a0 There are a lot of people in the “Pick up\/ Dating” business I enjoy joking about including “Mystery.”.\u00a0 I don’t hate them, but the weirdness of it all is so rich, it’s fun joking about.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

As for the alleged “Potshots.”<\/em><\/p>\n

    \n
  1. I don’t agree with the “Seductive reasoning paradigm”\u00a0 I know it’s your source of epiphany, but I find both its reasoning and effectiveness faulty.\u00a0 I don’t think that’s a potshot.\u00a0 Just a professional disagreement.\u00a0
    \n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/li>\n
  2. Being condescending.\u00a0\u00a0 Johnny, you’re very condescending to people around you while hanging out with them.\u00a0 At first, I thought it was just accidental, but after prolonged exposure, I realized that it’s very deliberate.\u00a0 You’re not dumb.\u00a0 You’re a smart guy, so you cannot not know that you’re blatantly condescending to others (Me, Barry, and many others.).\u00a0 There is no way you can be unaware of the constant games of “one-up-manship” and condescension. I am sure you have your reasons for doing what you do, but I don’t hate you for it.\u00a0 It is what it is man, but is it interesting? Yes, it’s fascinating to me.\u00a0 Do I want to be around it? No.\u00a0<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    \u00a0Lastly, the most peculiar part of it is that you’re doing this to people who study & TEACH social dynamics for a living.\u00a0 They can deconstruct what you do down to every bolt and screw within a matter of minutes, and yet you insist on continuing this behavior:\u00a0 The NLP reframes, slipping in embedded commands, and positioning yourself in some sort of a hierarchy through constant games of 1-up-manship. Man, you must think the rest of are pretty damn stupid.\u00a0 It’s either that, or that you think no one will ever call you out on it.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

    \u00a0I find irony, in that\u00a0 for a guy who admonishes “Mystery\/Markovic” for using “Negs” and put downs on women, you far outdo him in your fair share of put downs on men.\u00a0 As a matter of fact, for all the times I hung out with him, I cant’ recall Mystery using “Neg” type of behavior around his male buddies.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

    \u00a0So there you have it. It’s NOT for me to tell you or others how to live your life or how to conduct yourself.\u00a0 I don’t make it a point to talk about you, but if someone (like Barry) mentions being belittled by you, then I am going to agree based on my personal experience.<\/em><\/p>\n

    Take care,<\/em><\/p>\n

    C.<\/em><\/p>\n

    \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ——————————————–<\/p>\n

    So there you have it!\u00a0 The personal letter that became public.\u00a0\u00a0My personal philosophy is that if\u00a0a man\u00a0confronts you with honor and respect then you owe it to him to deal with him on that save level.\u00a0 His reply came from a different mindset I suppose.\u00a0 It’s intriguing and astonishing.\u00a0<\/p>\n

    Stay Tuned for that reply tomorrow…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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