{"id":152,"date":"2008-11-24T05:22:55","date_gmt":"2008-11-24T12:22:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=152"},"modified":"2011-01-13T17:05:15","modified_gmt":"2011-01-14T00:05:15","slug":"what-is-social-currency","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2008\/11\/24\/what-is-social-currency\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Social Currency&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">How Humans Are Traded As Social Currency<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\">.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\">\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">A while back, a buddy of mine was visiting L.A and while I was showing him around, he turned to me and said, &#8220;It just seems like affluent rich neighborhood in any city also have the largest number of hot women.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Have you ever thought about that?&#8221; <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\">\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: &amp;amp;amp; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\"> Nope.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>I never consciously thought about it.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Why?<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Because I had already accepted it on a subconscious level.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>It was so ingrained and basic that I had never even bothered thinking about it.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>My mind simply associated an affluent neighborhood with hot women.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: &amp;amp;amp; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">Because that\u2019s the way it\u2019s always been.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>If I am in Los Angeles, I intuitively know that certain neighborhoods like Beverly Hills and certain Beach communities will have a plethora of physically attractive women living there.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Just as I intuitively expect a large number of less than stellar physical specimens in certain beat up and ragged neighborhoods.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">This isn\u2019t unique to me. I am willing to bet it\u2019s ingrained in all of our brains.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>The question is why does this occur?<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>L.A. may be considered a shallow place, but this phenomenon exists in every major city in America.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>(Except for Newark perhaps, which is just one giant dump.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\"> One explanation is that wealthy people live in affluent areas. It\u2019s a simple linear model.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Wealthy people marry the more physically attractive women. Hence, this leads to<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>a physically better looking offspring, and the cycle repeats itself.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>(Not to mention access to better health care and dentists who can ensure that beautiful pearly white smile.)<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Many people correlate evolutionary psychology to such occurrences and that is partially responsible, but it is a social construct of our culture, and it is part of our social fabric at this point. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">On a secondary level, people by nature are drawn to the \u201cNicer things\u201d in life. Hence, all men and women would like to live in a nice beach house with view of the Ocean and immaculate sunsets over the pacific.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>So why do then the better looking women reside in these nicer neighborhoods?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">This is where it gets tricky.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>It comes down to what I call \u201cSocial Currency.\u201d<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Everyone is looking to trade in his\/her social currency to get to upgrade the current status amongst the masses when it comes to access to coveted social spots\u2026 Often coveted places have that attachment because they\u2019re perceived to be high status.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">Physically attractive women have a built in mechanism in place to trade as social currency.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> It&#8217;s pretty simple really: <\/span>It\u2019s their physical beauty.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>That gets them into parties, hot spots,<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>perceived prestigious night clubs,<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>and so forth.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>(And this lasts until they\u2019re about 30.)<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Men on other hand can\u2019t really trade in looks as social currency even if they\u2019re handsome.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>They rely on other things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">So let\u2019s assume there is a fantastic exclusive party in a mansion this coming weekend and it\u2019s by invitation only.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">Women will trade in their looks as social currency to get in.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>\u201cYou\u2019re a hot chick?<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>You\u2019re in!\u201d<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">Men use affluence, wealth, women, and drugs as their social currency.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>For a guy to enter the party, he has to either bring with him \u201cHot women,\u201d<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>or drugs.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Either that, or he has to have some sort of affluence.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">Nowhere is this more exposed and self-evident than standing outside a hot nightclub.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>In fact, it\u2019s amazing to watch.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>This is THE venue to watch social currency in action.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>It\u2019s where self-indulgence meets the shallowest human values possible.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Hence, it\u2019s a perfect place to examine Social Currency in Action. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">Stay tuned for the next blog entry to dissect the Night Club Scene under a microscope.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How Humans Are Traded As Social Currency . 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