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How Do I Date 9s and 10s? The Super Attractive Women?<\/span><\/h2>\n

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I received the following in an email.\u00a0 Good questions are appreciated as they give me ideas on what to write about next.\u00a0 So here is the email:<\/p>\n

Hello Cameron,<\/p>\n

I stumbled upon your blog after reading an article you wrote about phony PUAs and “flash game.” Your honest and open approach is admirable. It’s refreshing.<\/p>\n

I’ve been in the community for about 1.5 years now, faithfully going out about three times per week and doing day game at school. (I’m 23.) I’m also proud to say that I have a real social life, hobbies and friends too, which seems to be a rare thing amongst the community guys I’ve met. I’m sure you know what I’m talking about. After reading your article, you seem like a guy I could trust to give me a quick piece of advice. If so, I would be grateful.<\/p>\n

Essentially, I can go out to a club and come home with a few legit numbers or get a pull from 7s or 8s. (Nothing wrong with these girls, nice people.) I believe this and know this; it’s just how it is. However, I’m still having trouble breaking through to the really hot girls, the 9s and 10s. The few community guys around here are good guys but also pretty new and awkward. I don’t have much for mentorship. I’m wondering if you could give me some insight regarding your experiences with breaking through with these hotter girls. Did you have any epiphanies or turning points that resonated with you as you were learning? Any practical advice?<\/p>\n

Thanks for taking the time to read this letter. I will continue to read your stuff.<\/p>\n

Cheers,
\nNick\u00a0from Canada<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Hey Nick.<\/p>\n

Before I get to the answer on this one, I’d like to point out to two things: I’m really not a big fan of the constant categorization of women by a number system.\u00a0 Imagine if women categorized men by “Level 1, 2, 3” and so forth and it was all based on the level of income a man had.\u00a0 You think they were shallow bitches and you’d be right.<\/p>\n

Look from the other angle, and “I want a 9, 10” has the same social meaning.\u00a0 Having said that, (homage to Larry David’s Curb your Enthusiasm), I understand that this terminology is here to stay when discussing dating and attraction.<\/p>\n

The 2nd<\/sup> issue is that rating is so subjective.\u00a0 Seduction Community people throw around 8s,9s, and 10s as though they’re just apples growing on a tree.\u00a0 In an article last year, I mentioned that to me the bench mark of that proverbial “9 or 10” would be equivalent to a Sport Illustrated swimsuit model.\u00a0 If you’re going by sheer physical looks, then the person as to have striking features with or without<\/span> make up.<\/p>\n

As an example, here is a photograph of model “Amber Valletta” who coincidentally was in the film Hitch<\/em>.<\/p>\n

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I picked her photo because on the web, I also\u00a0found a B&W\u00a0photograph of her\u00a0wearing absolutely no make up.\u00a0 It was part of a series entiteld models without makeup.\u00a0 I thought it was brave and gutsy to volunteer for that. \u00a0This is her with no makeup at age 35:<\/p>\n

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Again, even at 35, with zero makeup, she still has stunning features, and a very defined face.\u00a0 My point: How many guys giving dating-advice consistently<\/em> date women who are extremely naturally attractive?<\/p>\n

Well, I haven’t seen it, and I’ve pretty much met\/hung out with all of these dudes.\u00a0 It’s just that in their boasting and claims, they like to brag about how they specifically date “9s and 10s.”\u00a0\u00a0 This is from 6’5-inch (195 cm) tall Mystery right down to 3-foot (127 cm) tall Stephenson.\u00a0 They all want YOU to specifically know that they only date 9s and 10s.<\/p>\n

Even if they did, (which they don’t), bragging about it to guys on the Internet makes you a bit of a douchebag in my book.\u00a0 But hey, that’s just my opinion.\u00a0 Bear with me here, there a point to all of this, and that is:<\/p>\n

*If you truly are getting 7s and 8s, you’re doing damn well, and better than probably 80s% of the men on this planet.<\/p>\n

So the first point is that you’re obsessing about something community influenced people obsess about: Chasing down 9s and 10s.<\/p>\n

Should a man not desire an extremely beautiful woman?\u00a0 I didn’t say that.\u00a0 In my observation, most guys who do get the proverbial 9s and 10s, don’t put so much emphasis on doing so.\u00a0 And they don’t exclusively date 9s and 10s.\u00a0 One day, you’d see them with a cute girl, another time, it’s a totally average girl, and then one day the dude is hanging with a physically stunning specimen.<\/p>\n

Make it a point to observe those kinds of guys and their demeanor.\u00a0 You’ll find what I wrote to be very spot on.\u00a0 Yet, it’s the community charlatans who create this myth of themselves in dating 9s and 10s, and even then, their ideas of 9s and 10s are women who don’t look very wholesome.\u00a0 You know the type…. Platinum blonde hair, wearing so much makeup that you need a jackhammer and some sort of an acid to try and break the hardened pancake makeup off of their face.<\/p>\n

I am going to assume that the latter is not what you are asking about.\u00a0 With that thought in mind, would I claim I only date a certain type?\u00a0 No.\u00a0 I have dated\u00a0extremely attractive\u00a0women and I have dated ones whom I thought were cute\u00a0 (And usually more fun to hang with.)<\/p>\n

It’s more of a case of “Getting it out of your system!”<\/em> Then you can relax more and enjoy the women for who they are and how much fun you have with them, instead of valuing what others would rate them physically.\u00a0 Sometimes, you have to date a few super attractive women to get it out of your system.\u00a0 After you do, you won’t care about it as much anymore, because you will have stopped caring about the validation of other people regarding whom you date.\u00a0\u00a0 And once again, that comes from within.\u00a0 It’s like you had to prove it to yourself to get over your own ego.\u00a0 (Or such has been my personal experience.)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0It’s like, “I came, I saw, I conquered, proved I could do it.\u00a0 Forget the rest of you.”<\/p>\n

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So, how do you step up your game to the next level to ATTRACT REALLY ATTRACTIVE Women?<\/h2>\n

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