{"id":1572,"date":"2010-01-21T11:48:29","date_gmt":"2010-01-21T18:48:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=1572"},"modified":"2010-01-21T11:52:39","modified_gmt":"2010-01-21T18:52:39","slug":"cool-guys-explosions-9s-10s","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2010\/01\/21\/cool-guys-explosions-9s-10s\/","title":{"rendered":"Cool Guys, Explosions, Dating 9s &#038; 10s&#8230;."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This is a popular sighting in action films, which I used to make comments to my friends about.\u00a0 Glad to see someone made a video of this phenomenon.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Here it is:\u00a0\u00a0 <strong><em>Cool Guys Don\u2019t Look At Explosions<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em><object classid=\"clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000\" width=\"425\" height=\"350\" codebase=\"http:\/\/download.macromedia.com\/pub\/shockwave\/cabs\/flash\/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0\"><param name=\"src\" value=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/Sqz5dbs5zmo\" \/><embed type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" width=\"425\" height=\"350\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/Sqz5dbs5zmo\">\u00a0<\/embed><\/object><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0An explosion of that magnitude is one of the coolest things you could ever see in life.\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0Well, not to mention that there may debris, shrapnel and flying metallic parts coming towards at a high velocity.\u00a0 Forget the safety factor, you\u2019re too cool to even look at it from a spectator\u2019s point of view.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Besides the comedy factor, there is a lesson to be learned here.\u00a0 The proverbial \u201cCool Guy\u201d characters in major motion pictures walk away without looking because they do NOT care.\u00a0 Remember, that article about \u201cDating 9s and 10s?\u201d I wrote last week?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Same dynamic.\u00a0 If she does not reciprocate the effort you put forth, you ought to be willing to walk away (preferably in slow motion.)\u00a0 And if Mark Wahlberg can walk away from that spectacular explosion (1:25 in the video), then you shouldn\u2019t have to worry about walking away.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0So how does it relate to dating?\u00a0 So, you\u2019re not feeling the chemistry with that hot girl.\u00a0 You\u2019re willing to walk away (without setting her on fire. FYI.)\u00a0 You don\u2019t try extra hard to try and make it work.\u00a0 You walk away\u2026.\u00a0 (Btw, I\u2019ve done my fair share of trying too hard to make a cold-approach work, and from experience, I\u2019d tell ya that it\u2019s not really a good idea.)\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0I still, however, would look at an explosion.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0But then you didn\u2019t get the girl!.\u00a0 Yes, You didn\u2019t &#8220;get&#8221; the girl and you don\u2019t really care.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Your pals and acquaintances may say \u201cHey man, you didn\u2019t get the girl\u201d and guess what\u2026. You don\u2019t care about what they have to say about it either\u2026\u00a0\u00a0 There are a lot of important things to care about in life, but initial approach interactions (and apparently explosions) are not part of them.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Plus, remember there are tens of millions of attractive women in the world.\u00a0\u00a0 You will come across many of them.\u00a0\u00a0 How often in life will you see a movie-type explosions that uses 100s of gallons of gasoline to create spectacular fire?\u00a0 Maybe a few times??\u00a0 (Unless you\u2019re in a war torn country in which case, you\u2019d still probably choose to duck and take cover).\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0If Wolverine can walk away unconcerned about his beautifully permed &amp; conditioned hair catching on fire, then you can walk away from someone who is not reciprocating your efforts\u2026.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that \u00a0there are cool guy AREAS you have to walk to&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Enjoy<\/p>\n<p>Cameron<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 This is a popular sighting in action films, which I used to make comments to my friends about.\u00a0 Glad to see someone made a video of this phenomenon.\u00a0 \u00a0Here&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1572","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1572","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1572"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1572\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1577,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1572\/revisions\/1577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1572"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1572"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1572"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}