{"id":1900,"date":"2010-03-10T14:48:00","date_gmt":"2010-03-10T21:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=1900"},"modified":"2014-08-27T09:28:55","modified_gmt":"2014-08-27T16:28:55","slug":"how-to-spot-promiscuous-girls","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/10\/how-to-spot-promiscuous-girls\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Spot Promiscuous girls!"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">How to Spot Promiscuous Women<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, how I have another simply awesome blog\u00a0article for ya.\u00a0 This time, it\u2019s about tell-tale signs that a girl you&#8217;re chatting with in this Bar\/Nightclub is promiscuous and will sleep with you pretty quickly.<\/p>\n<p>A little backdrop as to what inspired this article: I am hanging with some pals and a friend of a friend is talking about how he\u2019d like to just once try having a one night stand with a girl he met at a bar.\u00a0 Just once, he\u2019d like to walk in, meet a girl and take her home. That&#8217;s what he tells me!<\/p>\n<p>This is a big deal to him, and while I don\u2019t think of this as some accomplishment, it dawns on me that most men have never done something like this.\u00a0 To some guys, the completion of this task holds some form of validation.\u00a0 So, I am going to provide a few tips on some of the secrets of what guys who are good at this are able to do.<\/p>\n<p>Its significance and what it means to you personally <em>\u201cto accomplish this<\/em>\u201d is between you and your therapist.<\/p>\n<p>Realize the irony of the situation: Women are under the impression that any guy can walk into a busy nightclub filled with drunks and pull someone home. They&#8217;ll advise you,\u00a0 <em>&#8220;Hey, just walk into a bar and you can get laid<\/em>.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0 Why do they believe that?\u00a0 Why does their life experience indicate that?\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Because their impressions are formed from the 20-30% of men who ever approach them in these environments.\u00a0 Now, some of these guys are smooth operators, and some are just aggressive belligerent drunk idiots and play the numbers until they find that straggler.\u00a0 (See <a href=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/06\/15\/the-limping-gazelle-game\/\" target=\"_blank\">Limping Gazelle game<\/a> on this blog for reference.)<\/p>\n<p>However, keep in mind that female impressions are formed by the guys <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">that do approach them<\/span>, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">not by the majority who sit &amp; look at them from afar.<\/span> (Which constitutes 80% of men.)<\/p>\n<p>What if you\u2019re one of those guys who has a dream to have a same-night lay? (Let\u2019s hope it\u2019s not your only dream, but one of those things you want to \u201caccomplish\u201d like the guy I mentioned above.)<\/p>\n<p>Even though I barely go to bars\/clubs anymore, I\u2019ll throw some pearls of wisdom at ya, and what you do with it is your responsibility.\u00a0 An important part of having one night stands comes down approaching the proper type of woman who has made it a habit to do this sort of thing.\u00a0 Granted, there have been times where I&#8217;ve met a girl and it led to us sleeping together rather quickly because we had amazing chemistry.\u00a0 That can happen.\u00a0 However, you are not loitering at bars seeking for that one individual with amazing chemistry, and let&#8217;s face it: You&#8217;re in a f**king nightclub.\u00a0 Most of the people in there aren&#8217;t that worthwhile for relationships.<\/p>\n<p><em>Hence, <strong>screening<\/strong> for the proper type is one of the most important parts of the process.\u00a0 This is a huge part of the puzzle most men miss, and it&#8217;s one that &#8220;Players&#8221; intuitively understand.<br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n<p>In my recent visit to Phoenix, my buddy Jon and I had a fun conversation comparing notes as to what mannerisms these type of\u00a0 girls display.\u00a0 This goes back to the archetype stuff I\u2019ve been talking about consistently throughout this blog.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Again, people (male as well as female) fall into various archetypes.\u00a0 Those archetypes always consistently display the same behavioral patterns.\u00a0 By identifying the behavioral patterns, we can work backwards to identify the archetype. Think of it as reverse engineering. <\/strong><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Simply put: Promiscuous girls you run into every weekend at bars have certain habits, mannerisms, vernacular, and behaviors that give them away.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Knowing this information helps you in two ways:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Look for the type that is readily available in bars\/nightclubs to sleep around with anyone (including you.).\u00a0 Important distinction is: Don\u2019t think you\u2019re special.\u00a0 You\u2019re one of many.<br \/>\n.<\/li>\n<li>Help you cut your losses early &amp; move on if you\u2019re NOT interested in certain types, particularly the likes of ones who come with drama, are just completely dysfunctional.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>The second point is just as important.\u00a0 You may be seeking a relationship. \u00a0 It&#8217;s extremely important to be able to weed out women who are not suitable for you as well.\u00a0 I am going to address this further in the next article.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>.<br \/>\n<strong>Addendum<\/strong> for those who have reading comprehension issues in the comments section of this article:\u00a0 The article does not imply that promiscuous women are &#8220;Bad&#8221; people.\u00a0 However, SOME\u00a0 of these women (such as drama-addicts) are toxic individuals to have around in your life, and I have specifically noted those.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Signs that the girl you\u2019re talking with in the bar is promiscuous:<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><strong>Tells you about often &amp; repeated bouts of drunken debauchery.<\/strong> <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u201c<em>Oh, wow, I was so wasted last weekend, and then got hammered again last night on a Wednesday&#8230;.\u00a0 And I have to recover for a party this coming Friday.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Not an isolated incident but a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">repeated pattern<\/span>.\u00a0 Also safe to say, you can probably assume this is not a career-minded person either.\u00a0 This girl sleeps around, and may leave with you.\u00a0 You may have to endure alcohol breath and drunken antics&#8230;. but chances are higher she&#8217;ll leave with you come last call.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><strong>Has a lot of guy friends.\u00a0 Does not get along with other girls<\/strong>. <\/span>(Credit this one to Jon)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Always competing for attention, has trouble maintaining friendships with women.\u00a0 Has lots of guy friends, has hooked up with many of them.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 (One notable exception to the rule above, I\u2019d like to add: \u201cAlpha-Females\u201d, the athletic \u201cTomboy\u201d types, but they\u2019re a different breed and more rare to find.\u00a0 Do a search on this blog and you can read all about &#8220;<em><a href=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/02\/24\/how-archetypes-affect-your-dating-success-part-1\/\" target=\"_blank\">Alpha Females<\/a><\/em>&#8221; on as well.)\u00a0 As a side-note, most alpha-females don&#8217;t frequent nightclubs too often.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Refers to her girlfriends as Bitches, causally.<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Example: \u201c<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Hey bitches, what\u2019s the plan tonight?\u201d<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p>To me, this is perhaps the greatest tell-tale sign of a girl who is not only promiscuous, but also attention seeking.\u00a0 I don&#8217;t think it has ever\u00a0failed.\u00a0 Someday, I may run into one exception, but it has not occurred yet. \u00a0 Please note the word bitch is used casually.\u00a0 (Not used in hostility or judgment.)<\/p>\n<p>The amazing (and yet frightening) thing about the casual usage of the word \u201cBitch\u201d is that it is cross-generational.\u00a0 I\u2019ve seen 22 year old girls do it, and I\u2019ve been to that Cougar-bar in Manhattan Beach and have seen 40 year old females use it.\u00a0 Same exact behavior pattern, stemming from the same exact personality type.\u00a0 They&#8217;re also the type to avoid, if you want someone of substance.\u00a0 As I said, more on that later.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you hear that casual reference, <strong>&#8220;<em>You bitches look cute tonight<\/em>,&#8221;<\/strong> you already know this chick sleeps around, and most likely, so do all of her friends, including the married ones!!<\/p>\n<p>This is also an immediate sign of a woman you\u2019d <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">never<\/span> want to pursue a relationship with. (Not because they&#8217;re promiscuous, but rather because you&#8217;ll find that they&#8217;re self-absorbed and very drama prone. Research your own experience.)<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Tries to talk tough and ghetto.<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Example: <em>\u201cI would have fucked her up<\/em>\u201d or \u201c<em>I\u2019d have knocked out that bitch.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Fill in the blanks here.\u00a0 You already know who you&#8217;re dealing with.<br \/>\nPS. That&#8217;s a\u00a0double whammy, as she used the word bitch and talked tough. (And we\u2019re talking about White chicks here.)<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Uses overly dramatic &amp; yet emotionally-empty phrases often,<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>\u201cI missed you girlie.\u00a0 You\u2019re so the best!\u00a0 I love you guys so much\u2026. \u201c<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The usage of emotional hyperbole in casual conversation denotes a promiscuous girl.\u00a0\u00a0 Basically, it\u2019s like this: You see these plastered on a Facebook page and within 10 seconds, you already know the score\u2026\u00a0 (because you read my awesome article.)\u00a0 Just an extra free tip from me when you&#8217;re cruising through social media postings.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Cigarette Smoking<\/span> <\/strong>\u2013\u00a0\u00a0 Credit Jon for this one.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This is Jon&#8217;s greatest tell-tale sign.\u00a0 There is a correlation between risk taking behavior and promiscuity.\u00a0 If she is willing to kill her to blow puff to look cool, she is willing to do a lot of other things.\u00a0 I am not sure how this would correlate in Europe for example, but it definitely applies in the United States where smoking is hugely frowned upon, and specially in California.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">The Skank tonality.<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>One of my favorites to joke about.\u00a0 I don\u2019t even have to see the person\u2019s face sometimes.\u00a0 If I hear the skank-tonality from behind, I know the type.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s difficult to describe that on paper, but these girls sound like every sentence has a question mark at the end of it, and they drag the last word.\u00a0 \u201cLike, oh my gosh, that is sooo weiiiiiiiiiiiird????\u201d\u00a0\u00a0 (weird would sound like \u201cWe-Eeeeeerdd?\u201d\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 It sounds like a question, but it\u2019s not.\u00a0 It\u2019s a statement.\u00a0 There was an episode of the TV show \u201cFamily Guy\u201d: where little Stewie points this out regarding a girl Brian the dog is dating.\u00a0 (If you\u2019ve seen that episode, then you exactly know what skank tonality is.)<\/p>\n<p>If you hear that speech pattern, you immediately know two things within a few seconds:<\/p>\n<p>1. Girls sleeps around a lot.<br \/>\n2. May not be gainfully employed.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Drama.<\/span> <\/strong>This is huge!\u00a0 She is telling you about drama.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>\u201cMy friend Lisa broke up with her boyfriend, was late to the post office, ran over a cow, had to move out, missed her paycheck, which was eaten by the cow she ran over, that cow was turned into steak, and gave me indigestion because of the paycheck it had eaten\u2026\u2026.\u00a0\u00a0 Well, I really think Lisa PLANNED All of this to get back at me since she is so jealous of me.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n<p>It never ends\u2026.\u00a0 The drama with her will never end&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I am going to cover \u201cDrama\u201d in the next article, regarding girls you want to run AWAY from. However, when you\u2019ve heard that dramatic story, you KNOW you\u2019ve met someone who\u2019ll sleep with you quickly if that\u2019s what you seek.\u00a0 This type is also a<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"> toxic personality<\/span> to have around.\u00a0 (Reading challenged critics, take note.)\u00a0\u00a0 If you&#8217;re at a place in life where you seek a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">meaningful relationship<\/span> with a cool woman, run for the hills if you hear drama stories.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Inner Thigh touch-<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Jon really wanted to add this one.\u00a0 I suppose it\u2019s an obvious on some level, and it&#8217;s not something you&#8217;d experience right away, but a lot of guys are sometimes clueless.\u00a0 If her hand should brush your inner thigh during the convo, well, it\u2019s pretty much a done deal.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Girls who utter the words you, \u201c<em>I hate Drama\u201d.<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<p><em> <\/em><\/ul>\n<p><em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>&#8220;Oh, my, Gosh!\u00a0 I hate drama!\u00a0 Like, I am so over drama.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Usually, it\u2019s the girl above whose friend\u2019s paycheck was eaten by the cow telling you this.\u00a0\u00a0 Girls who don\u2019t have drama, don\u2019t say <em>\u201cI hate drama\u201d<\/em> because it does not occur to them.\u00a0 Now, if you\u2019re the girl above, you deal with it on a daily basis, so the topic is always fresh on your mind.\u00a0 Since it&#8217;s prevalent in your life, you make point to mention it in conversation.<\/p>\n<p>So FYI: As soon as you hear (or read) the following words from a girl:\u00a0\u00a0 \u201c<em>I hate drama<\/em>\u201d or <em>\u201c<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">I am so over all this drama<\/span>,\u201d<\/em> you know 3 things:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>This girl has lots of drama.<\/li>\n<li>She\u2019ll be telling about it often, if you see her more than once. (Poison for a relationship.)<\/li>\n<li>She\u2019ll sleep with you pretty quickly. Yep.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">She tells you, <em>&#8220;I\u2019m trying to be good.&#8221; <\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I don\u2019t even know where to start with this one.\u00a0 This could be the girl who had to move out of a small town at some point because she was basically ran out.\u00a0 (yes, I\u2019ve met them,)\u00a0 If someone is trying to change his\/her ways, They don\u2019t say \u201cI am TRYING to be good.\u201d\u00a0 They just do it.\u00a0\u00a0 This is like your buddy who is over-weight telling you he is trying to lose weight\u2026.. for the past 3 years.\u00a0\u00a0 You get the idea pal&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">She mentions Drugs.<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Talking about drugs, Ecstasy, Cocaine, Speed, is also a sign of girls who sleep around.\u00a0 Unfortunately, with these girls, it goes beyond sex for just pleasure.\u00a0 Sometimes, it&#8217;s having sex to GET the drugs for free.\u00a0 And by the way, if you hear &#8220;Heroine&#8221;, run away.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t walk.\u00a0 Run.\u00a0 (Can&#8217;t speak from personal experience but I&#8217;ve seen enough cracked out people.)<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">She tells you, \u00a0 <em>&#8220;I don\u2019t date.&#8221;<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>&#8220;I just don\u2019t date.\u00a0 I am over the dating thing. I am taking a break from it.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Jon pointed out this one, and man, it\u2019s true!\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s fine!\u00a0 If you had your cute Star Trek universal translator, what you\u2019d really hear is, <em>\u201cI sleep around, and then complain that I can\u2019t have decent relationships.\u00a0 I\u2019ll sleep with you too\u00a0IF you\u2019re very sexual with me.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><strong>Self-Proclaimed Bitches<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u201c<em>Oh, I am just a bitch&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Girls who tell you in a proud manner, \u201c<em>Oh, I am just a bitch<\/em>\u201d are promiscuous as well, and also have <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">toxic personalities<\/span>. This is usually a cry for attention and attempts to claw at holding on self-grandeur.\u00a0 (Mainly because it doesn\u2019t take any talent or hard-work to be rude.)\u00a0 Nevertheless, you know she sleeps around.\u00a0\u00a0(Credit Jon for this one as well.)\u00a0 Having read my blog, when you hear this phrase, you already know the score.\u00a0\u00a0 These girls are also toxic for relationships.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> <strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">It&#8217;s closing Time AND She is still around. <\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Yep, it&#8217;s 2 AM (Nightclub just closed), people are loitering outside and there they are: Drunk and walking around in circles.\u00a0 I picked up on this in the period I was going to clubs often, probably because, I was the ONLY sober person at the time. \u00a0\u00a0 In my experience, quality women don&#8217;t frequent nightclubs on a weekly basis and if they go to celebrate a friend&#8217;s birthday, they&#8217;re usually out of there sometime around midnight or 12:30 AM.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a strange phenomenon and now you&#8217;ll notice it too.\u00a0 They sort of vanish.\u00a0 You had a nice conversation, she seemed really cool and poof, an hour later she disappeared.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 What you have at 2 am is often the underachiever who is also promiscuous.\u00a0 I used to know dudes who stayed home til 1:30 in the morning then rolled out to the clubs at closing time just for that reason&#8230;..\u00a0\u00a0 The fact that she is simply STILL there at closing time is often a sign as well&#8230;..<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>Subtleties:<\/p>\n<p>And then we get to the really subtle stuff.\u00a0 You spend enough time talking to girls, you hone your eyes and ears and cute little subtle phrases tell you that they are promiscuous.\u00a0These are tiny phrases that most people completely miss.\u00a0 They seem innocent and completely in the norm, but I catch them, and now, so will you.<\/p>\n<p>Example:\u00a0<strong> <em><span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u201cI Know, right???\u201d<\/span> <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That phrase above, said with a certain flare and tone equals girls who will sleep with you pretty quickly.\u00a0 Now, they say the phrase frequently, so if you\u2019re tuned\u00a0in, you&#8217;ll\u00a0recognize it.<\/p>\n<p>Some random individual will read that at some point and say, \u201cOh come on!\u00a0 How can you determine someone\u2019s sexual behavior from a few phrases, or sentences?\u201d\u00a0 And the short answer it that I am just good at identifying people\u2019s characters and behaviors.<\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind that, the above individuals display the same type of demeanor and body language as well.\u00a0 If you know screen properly, then you have isolated the right type who will leave with you.\u00a0 Now, it\u2019s a matter of attracting them, and having the proper logistics.\u00a0 Is there an after party?\u00a0 Inviting her back to your house?\u00a0 You have to provide the logistics!\u00a0 This is information guys you deem as &#8220;Players&#8221; intuitively know.\u00a0\u00a0 Look for this type, have a bit of fluff conversation, it&#8217;s closing time, and\u00a0 hey, let&#8217;s have a little after-party.<\/p>\n<p>Congrats.\u00a0 You now know information that only a small percentage of men are privy to. They may know it intuitively having never broken down consciously, but these are the subtle clues they use to determine the right type.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 In the next article, I am going to talk about how to use above information to AVOID certain personality types who will be toxic to your life.\u00a0 You may be a guy who has his life together but not too skilled with women.\u00a0 Dating women who love snorting cocaine, who bring drama and then spend countless house telling you how much they hate it, is a terrible idea. \u00a0 Stay tuned&#8230;&#8230;\u00a0 for the next article\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/12\/how-to-spot-promiscuous-girls-part-2\/\" target=\"_blank\">How To Spot Promiscuous Girls Part 2<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Cameron<\/p>\n<p>PS.\u00a0 The articles on this blog will have a profound impact on your dating life.\u00a0 Please realize that they are supplementary and supporting material to what I discuss in my expanded work.\u00a0 Get a copy of my Ebook here: \u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenanywhere.com\/ebook.shtml\" target=\"_blank\">Building Attraction Ebook<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>Addendum 2:<\/p>\n<p>This article seems to be elicit strong reactions.\u00a0\u00a0 It\u2019s based on personal experiences and observations at nightclubs.\u00a0 Keep in mind, I\u2019ve dated girls who have (By common American standards) had a high number of sexual partners.\u00a0 However, they did not have the toxic aforementioned drama-filled lives.\u00a0 \u00a0They were just cool girls whom I dated for a while.\u00a0 They certainly weren&#8217;t having sex for validation or to score cocaine from some dude at a bar. \u00a0 \u00a0 This seems to be more prevalent in Europe than in the U.S.<\/p>\n<p>On that same note, I\u2019ve gone on FIRST dates where I ended up sleeping with those girls that very first night.\u00a0 I also ended up dating many of those same girls for quite a while.\u00a0 (Not random bar hook ups).\u00a0\u00a0 You&#8217;ll hear this common philosophy from guys often regarding every girl,\u00a0 \u201cHey man, if she is doing it with you, then she is doing that everyone, she has no standards.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 I chose to attribute it to great chemistry.\u00a0 Yes, it\u2019s self-indulgent, but if you\u2019re confident in yourself, you can choose to just as easily believe that she did it because she found you attractive for various reasons, not because she has no standards.\u00a0\u00a0 Why take the low self-esteem route that you\u2019re just like every other man she has dated?\u00a0 Why not take the high self-esteem route that she has super high standards.\u00a0 (In part 2 of the article, I do cover the Lumberg effect)\u00a0\u00a0 Keep in mind, this wasn&#8217;t a random night-club encounter.\u00a0 I said &#8220;Dates.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re an experience guy, you&#8217;ll read this article and think, &#8220;Yep, yep, yep, that&#8217;s right. Haha. \u00a0 So true!\u00a0 I&#8217;ve seen this, that&#8230;..&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0 If you are not experienced, just look at it as an educational tool for identifying the archetypes of people you will come across in bars &amp; night clubs.\u00a0 If you&#8217;re a girl with decent standards in men, you&#8217;ll have a good laugh because you have observed this.\u00a0 If you&#8217;re one of the women who has led the above life, slept with dudes to get free cocaine, you&#8217;ll be angry and upset.\u00a0 Instead of unleashing your anger on me, look at this as a fortuitous event.\u00a0 Maybe this article is a wake-up call to change your ways by changing your values &amp; beliefs.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How to Spot Promiscuous Women . 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