{"id":1910,"date":"2010-03-12T06:00:53","date_gmt":"2010-03-12T13:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=1910"},"modified":"2010-05-31T09:44:05","modified_gmt":"2010-05-31T16:44:05","slug":"how-to-spot-promiscuous-girls-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/12\/how-to-spot-promiscuous-girls-part-2\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Spot Promiscuous Girls &#8211; Part 2"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Distinction between Promiscuity &amp; Toxicity in Dating<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>In part 1, I talked about giveaway signs that a girl is promiscuous.\u00a0 You should read that article first before you continue on to this one:<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/10\/how-to-spot-promiscuous-girls\/\" target=\"_blank\">How to Spot Promiscuous Girls &#8211; Part 1<\/a><\/p>\n<p>After reading that, you can take this fun pop-quiz:<br \/>\nScenario: House party.\u00a0 Interior.\u00a0 Night time.<br \/>\nYou see a group of girls from a short distance away.\u00a0 You\u2019ll observe one turn to her friends and loudly say:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cYou bitches look so fine tonight!\u00a0 We totally gotta party it up tonight, but I can\u2019t handle getting as wasted as last Tuesday.\u00a0 The \u201cE\u201d is so weeeeiiiiirrrrddd\u2026..\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>OK, Tell-Tale signs from what you just learned in my last article.\u00a0 (REAL-LIFE applicative tips you\u2019re not going to find in too many places) :<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>She casually referred to her friends as \u201c<em>Bitches<\/em>.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Realize that \u201c<em>You look so fine tonight<\/em>,\u201d was a cry for attention, not a compliment.<\/li>\n<li>Talked about being repeatedly wasted.<\/li>\n<li>Wasted on a <em>Wednesday<\/em> night.<\/li>\n<li>Talked about Doing Drugs. (\u201cE\u201d indicated Ecstasy\u201d )<\/li>\n<li>Used the Skank Tonality while speaking<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>You keeping track here?\u00a0 That was 6 clues, and we haven&#8217;t even looked at the way she was dressed, make-up, tattoos, body language, and demeanor.<\/p>\n<p>That short 10 seconds of conversation just gave you A LOT Of information.\u00a0 In 10 seconds time flat, she gave you 6 piece of information.\u00a0\u00a0 From that, you can NOW deduce and conclude that it\u2019s 90% likely:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>This girls is promiscuous<\/li>\n<li>Will sleep with you <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">tonight<\/span> if you can create the circumstances. (Attraction + Logistics.)<\/li>\n<li>She seeks attention at every chance<\/li>\n<li>Probably not a career woman<\/li>\n<li>Will tell you stories of \u201cDrama\u201d of her girlfriends often.<\/li>\n<li>She is an Underachiever<\/li>\n<li>Will upgrade on you in a heartbeat to a better party, (more stimuli.)<\/li>\n<li>Thinks she is unique for reasons unknown to the rest of us.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>And irrelevant but fun facts:<\/p>\n<p>9.\u00a0 She probably has a twitter account and tells people what she just ate for lunch<br \/>\n10. Probably gives status updates on facebook 6-8 times on a daily basis.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, if she referred to her friends casually as bitches, talked about doing drugs carelessly while using the skank tonality, this is a mathematician\u2019s dream.\u00a0 It\u2019s about 99.5% likely she sleeps around indiscriminately.\u00a0 This is like you counting cards at a blackjack table, you got an Ace, and you\u2019re 99% sure the next card you\u2019re getting is a King. Your chances of taking her home just increased by tenfold.<\/p>\n<p>You recall the guy who wanted to \u201cJust Once\u201d pull a girl back home from a bar?\u00a0\u00a0 Lets revisit him. Let\u2019s say he does do that, and now he is feeling very proud of himself.\u00a0 Problem is you can\u2019t get your ego wrapped in this.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, some of these girls are the type who screw guys indiscriminately.\u00a0 Sometimes, it\u2019s easy to get your ego caught up in thinking that you have some magical skills.\u00a0 It may be true that you\u2019re smooth and likable, but also do remember, if it weren\u2019t you, she\u2019d be going home with some other guy she met 5 minutes later.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>The Lumberg-Newman Effect<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This all may be fine and dandy, until that day you come across the girl who fucked Newman.\u00a0 (Reference to the Seinfeld episode where Jerry\u2019s date had slept with his disgusting evil neighbor known simply \u00a0as \u201cNewman.\u201d\u00a0)<\/p>\n<p>Better reference yet, you\u2019ll come across the girl who had sex with \u201cLumberg\u201d from the classic must-see comedy, \u201cOffice Space.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>You may even think to yourself that she liked your personality, intellect, humor or just your looks superficially.\u00a0 Truth of the matter is you met the baseline requirements and let me tell ya: The bar was set VERY low.\u00a0 If you could walk in a straight line and operate heavy machinery without crashing into a wall, you met the minium standard that night.\u00a0 Seriously, you&#8217;re not that special in that instance and the girl above will be the first to say so.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll scratch your head and think, \u201c<em>WOW, she is willing to fuck that guy?\u00a0 The Lumberg-Newman mutation?\u00a0 Are you kidding me?\u201d<\/em> In that moment, you\u2019ll learn to not so feel special having banged a girl who fucks <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">indiscriminately<\/span>.\u00a0 Again, this probably won\u2019t make sense to most guys until they\u2019ve been in that situation, and granted, some guys don\u2019t care at all anyway.\u00a0 Nevertheless, I think a word of advisory caution is well warranted.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Promiscuity : Not Always about Sex.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Here is the key:\u00a0 Not all promiscuous\u00a0 girls are cut from the same cloth.\u00a0 This is an important distinction to make<\/strong>.\u00a0 There are girls who play around and experiment just as men do.\u00a0 Sometimes, it may be a phase, and if your goal is to maintain a monogamous relationship, you can still create that dynamic with that particular type.<\/p>\n<p>Then there are girls who are promiscuous, but also have toxic personalities that will ruin the quality of your life.\u00a0 The toxic personalities sometimes have sex indiscriminately and it\u2019s not always about sexual pleasure.\u00a0 The psychological reasons, (Needing validation, feeling of importance, being accepted, or just your various social climbers) are outside of the scope of this article.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993300;\">It\u2019s not the act of sex or pleasure driven from sex. It&#8217;s what it\u00a0represents and signifies, and that\u2019s just the beginning of the toxic personalities. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993300;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Question for you:\u00a0 What do you want?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re the 25 year old guy emailing me about how to score, then you just learned that you can take the above girl (in the quiz example) home tonight if you attract her and then create the proper logistics (After party., whatever.)<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re the 35 year-old guy emailing me (or whatever age) , saying you want to settle down, get a girlfriend, life partner, wife, or whatever, then run for the fucking hills.\u00a0 Actually, age is irrelevant.\u00a0 If you\u2019re looking for a girlfriend, then run, because the above woman will make you miserable.<\/p>\n<p>Marrying her means you\u2019ll watch reruns of \u201cMarried with Children\u201d and will identify with Al Bundy, which is not encapsulation of happiness by any means.<\/p>\n<p>Similarly, if you\u2019re a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">well-adjusted woman<\/span> who somehow stumbled upon my blog (and you\u2019re not a motherfucking dating coach, or seduction teacher, or porno participant; I specifically said a well-adjusted woman!!) then the same dynamic applies to you.<\/p>\n<p>I have female friends who tell me they want to meet a guy to have a meaningful relationship.\u00a0 (They\u2019re not ugly or fat, so get that out of your head.)\u00a0\u00a0 Meeting some dude who talks about partying all the time, being out til the wee hours of the morning on a Wednesday night is not the type of man you&#8217;d want for a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Examples of TOXIC PERSONALITIES:<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Dramatic Girls.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Take this to heart:\u00a0 Girls who have these dramatic stories ALWAYS have them.\u00a0 You could go out with this girl for 6 weeks or 6 months, and every single time you talk to her, there\u2019ll be such a story, about drama.\u00a0 Between her girlfriend of the same ilk and herself, there\u2019ll be some form of drama.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll run through gamut.\u00a0 You\u2019ll hear everything from her girlfriend\u2019s boyfriend leaving and taking all the furniture, to her same girlfriend with repeated DUIs (Driving Under Influence of Alcohol) who is in jail again for her 2<sup>nd<\/sup> or 3<sup>rd<\/sup> DUI infraction, to a recent tiff she\u2019s having with another girl because she said this or that\u2026..<\/p>\n<p>So while you may a 25-year old guy taking the bait of the easy sex, it\u2019s important to walk away from this type. (Unless you\u2019re kinda fucked up yourself, in which case you two will be a good match for each other.)<\/p>\n<p>From a sociology perspective, looking at the Macro-picture from afar, we\u2019d see that these girls will also complain about how guys are assholes and there are no good guys left to date.\u00a0 The reality is the good-guys they do meet run for the hills, and they\u2019re left with \u201cPlayer\u201d guys who just want a piece of ass, (And then they run away), and the cycle of complaints keep on mounting.<\/p>\n<p>This is the other reason why these last two articles are important.<\/p>\n<p>*Yes, they\u00a0 identify girls who sleep around.<\/p>\n<p>*Perhaps more importantly, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">they identify girls with toxic personalities you should AVOID<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Lack of Personal Pride.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This is not to be mistaken with arrogance or rude behavior.\u00a0 Girls who lack any personal pride or dignity are toxic personalities who ruin the quality of your life through their actions and toxic comments.<\/p>\n<p>Girls who have some sense of personal pride come from a more grounded place.\u00a0 Part of their sense of self is internally driven.\u00a0 This is monumentally important because having some sort of internal validation reduces the need for constant stimuli of the external kind.<\/p>\n<p>In layman\u2019s fucking terms: Person with pride is not going to fuck some random guy in order to score drugs and be invited to the cool party.\u00a0 She does not need to do that in order to feel better about herself or to feel validated somehow.\u00a0 On the otherhand, the girl with a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">lack<\/span> of pride (Self respect) will blow the bouncer to get the chance to fuck the guy with the cocaine and to be invited to that party again.\u00a0 This is basically a broke Paris Hilton.<\/p>\n<p>To me, when that\u2019s what the word \u201cSlut\u201d represents.\u00a0 It\u2019s not so much a girl who sleeps with guys for the sheer act of sexual pleasure, but more from the ulterior motives of the act.\u00a0\u00a0 My personal definition notwithstanding, women with lack of personal Pride are highly toxic and will ruin your life as well.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Incessant complainers:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You\u2019ll recognize these quickly even if totally inexperienced.\u00a0 They complain about everything.\u00a0 I haven\u2019t dated too many of these, but have been around friends who have.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, I watched them destroy the quality of my friends\u2019 lives, and heck, they weren\u2019t even married.\u00a0 One particular friend really got a raw deal with one of these types.\u00a0 So, this one hits a sore spot with me personally.<\/p>\n<p>Rest assured that every time you go to a restaurant with the constant-complainer, she will complain about the food, or the service, or the venue (or ALL.)\u00a0 <em>The food is too cold, too hot, too rich, too lean, too thick, too thin, it arrived late, it arrived too early&#8230;&#8230;.<\/em> It\u2019ll never stop.\u00a0 If you spot this behavior, get rid of this type.\u00a0\u00a0 Within a few dates, you\u2019ll notice the behavior pattern.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do not allow the lure of easy sex entrap you into a courtship with the incessant complainer.<\/strong> Enough said.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>In conclusion, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">be able to distinguish the promiscuous girl from the toxic personality woman.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>If you meet the constant complainers or any of the toxic personalities above, get rid of them quickly.\u00a0 After 1 or 2 dates, cut them away from your life.\u00a0 You can even be honorable about it.<\/p>\n<p>Use my line if you\u2019d like:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>I think you\u2019re a nice person, but we have very different personalities that don\u2019t match well.\u00a0 We\u2019re both nice people, just too different. <\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Use that one compliments of me, free of charge.<\/p>\n<p>In essence, you are FIRING that person from your life, except you give it that nice soft touch of being fired from a job respectfully.\u00a0 <em>\u201cHey, we think you have a lot to offer, and can excel somewhere else.\u00a0 Unfortunately, you don\u2019t fit well with our company and our goals<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s honorable, and it&#8217;s the truth. \u00a0Not all personalities mesh well together. \u00a0Just like having good friends in life, having good women raises one&#8217;s quality of life. That may be something one of your parents told you when you were 15, but sometimes you gotta go the long way to find out for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, yea, I almost forgot.\u00a0 If you want more choice as to the quality of women you date, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">you owe it to YOU<\/span> to get my audio product:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenanywhere.com\/audiocourse.shtml\" target=\"_blank\">16-CD Audio Course on Attraction<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Eitherway, the information in these last two articles will go a long way in helping you identify which girls are promiscuous and which ones are the toxic women to avoid.<\/p>\n<p>Addendum:\u00a0 The point of the last articles (Part 1) \u00a0was to help you identify promiscuous women rather quickly.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Not all\u00a0promiscuous women have toxic personalities, but a good percentage do.\u00a0\u00a0 The point of the second article is to help\u00a0you identify the toxic\u00a0population of the promiscuous\u00a0\u00a0type in order to save you stress and drama.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s like this: You meet the girl I mentioned in the beginning of this article and you hear her discuss Drama and refer to her girlfriends very casually as &#8220;Bitches.&#8221;\u00a0 You immediately now know you&#8217;re dealing with a toxic personality type (as well as a promiscuous person).\u00a0 What you do from that point\u00a0on, is your choice&#8230;&#8230;..<\/p>\n<p>Enjoy<\/p>\n<p>Cameron<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Distinction between Promiscuity &amp; Toxicity in Dating . 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