{"id":1944,"date":"2010-03-23T19:28:02","date_gmt":"2010-03-24T02:28:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=1944"},"modified":"2010-05-31T09:39:19","modified_gmt":"2010-05-31T16:39:19","slug":"how-underground-advice-can-make-you-weird","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/23\/how-underground-advice-can-make-you-weird\/","title":{"rendered":"How Underground Advice can Make You Weird…"},"content":{"rendered":"

How Seduction Community Advice can make men Weird<\/span><\/h2>\n

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In the last article, I talked about how atrocious mainstream advice has men perpetually dateless and womanless, and hence, those men turn to an underground Dating Community.\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0The advice suddenly improves drastically, and the guy gets some<\/span> results, but then, things get out of hand.\u00a0 They go too far.\u00a0 Today, I\u2019m going to post an encounter that is the polar-opposite of the last article.<\/p>\n

I rarely read Dating forums or other websites because, well, (Except for a handful) they\u2019re mostly shit, and a waste of my time.\u00a0 Out of curiosity from an old school-newsletter that arrived in my mailbox, I decided to take a look.<\/p>\n

I found something interesting.\u00a0 I\u2019ll post with my comments in blue.<\/p>\n

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“If you really want to work on your game, the gym is the perfect place to
\nwork on your active AND passive value.”<\/span><\/p>\n

Hint:\u00a0 If you\u2019re WORRYING about your active & Passive Value, you\u2019re not that cool!\u00a0 That\u2019s the first problem.\u00a0 Thinking about issues in such \u201cDungeouns & Dragons\u201d terms is the first sign of maladjustment.\u00a0 \u201cOh look, grand-dragon slayer, my active value is at 8, but passive value is a 6.5\u00a0\u00a0 I win!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s really not that cool<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If you look at Matador, even though
\nhis active game is extremely well honed, his passive value is exceedingly
\nhigh, which makes him an extremely powerful PUA. So use this as an
\nopportunity to work on both parts of your game.<\/span><\/p>\n

Grand Dragon-slayer, replies: \u201cYes, but I know Matador!\u00a0 He is on my side and his PUA powers dwarf those.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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We Seek Powerful Matador<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

\n

PS.\u00a0 If you actually did play Dungeouns & Dragons, I can respect that.\u00a0 (just not when mixed with player wannabes)<\/p>\n

One of the main advantages (assuming you’re going to the gym on a daily
\nbasis) is that you’ll usually see the same people there over and over again.
\nThis gives you the luxury of having lower investment interactions, and when
\nyou have them on a day to day basis, she develops MUCH more comfort with you
\nthan in most other pick up situations.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, a bit of good advice.\u00a0 I wish he\u2019d applied the above common sense to the beginning.\u00a0 If you cut out the bullshit, things become simpler.\u00a0 Simpler works better for the beginner. <\/span><\/p>\n

So I just joined a new gym in my job relocation and I noticed that there are
\n7-8 girls who are regulars and are HB8s and above\u2026\u2026 (Skip)\u00a0 \u2026\u2026\u2026..So I’m on the calf machine. I look at her, smile and nod my head as she
\npasses by me. She stops:<\/span><\/p>\n

Her: Hey, I see you here all the time, are you new here or
\nsomething ?
\nMe: Yeah, I just moved here from Los Angeles (MIND YOU
\nTHIS IS A FAIRLY SMALL TOWN, SO IT’S A PRETTY BIG DHV WHEN
\nYOU SAY YOU’RE FROM A LARGER CITY.)
\nHer: (INTRIGUED) Oh wow, what made you move here to
\nthis small town ?
\nMe: New job here. Offered more competitive pay than what I
\nhad back in Los Angeles.
\nHer: Oh, so what do you do ? (HER WAY OF GAUGING MY
\nDIRECT VALUE. ALL WOMEN ARE GOLD DIGGERS TO SOME EXTENT. NO
\nGIRL WANTS SOME POOR ASS GUY.)
\nMe: I’m a Financial Cost Analyst for a medical consulting
\ncompany. I work over at the Wachovia Building right off
\nRiverfront. (PLENTY OF BUZZ WORDS TO PEAK HER
\nINTEREST.)
\nHer: Oh cool, sounds exciting !
\nMe: Not particularly. Definitely pays the bills and then
\nsome, but nobody likes being trapped in a box. I have a few
\nbusiness plans I’m getting off the ground once I’ve massed
\nup some more capital.<\/span>
\nWe banter for a little longer and then right at the end, I drop in the time
\nbridge.<\/span><\/p>\n

Me: Well hey, I need to bang out a few more sets before the
\ngym closes, but are you on Facebook ?
\nHer: Who isn’t ?
\nMe: Cool<\/span><\/p>\n

———————————<\/p>\n

So the guy writing this moved from Los Angeles to some small town, told a girl he makes good MONEY, and got her facebook information.\u00a0\u00a0 What\u2019s wrong with that?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the robotic nature of it that screws up most of the guys who come to learn dating advice.<\/p>\n

    \n
  • Thinking about conducting a \u201cDHV\u201d<\/li>\n
  • Negative view of women \u201cthey\u2019re all gold-diggers\u201d, he claims.<\/li>\n
  • He does a \u201cTime-Bridge\u201d\u00a0\u00a0 (More nerd lingo created by Mystery)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    The above is just one example that I am using for demonstration.\u00a0 It’s not to pick on the author.\u00a0 He is a representation of a lot of dudes out there, who suffer from the same mental anguish.\u00a0 Their thinking represents the paranoia of the Christian Bale character in American Psycho.<\/p>\n

    \u201cShe is just trying to gauge my direct value\u2026 All women are gold-diggers.\u00a0 I must show her I am not broke.\u00a0 I use Oil or Olay facial scrub.\u00a0 Women can appreciate such a scrub.\u00a0 This adds to my direct as well as passive value.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

    See where I am going with this?<\/p>\n

    On the one hand, we have the completely clueless idiot from yesterday\u2019s article, and today, we have Patrick Bateman from American Psycho.<\/p>\n

    Trying to balance the advice from both sides can be difficult.\u00a0 Now, you add to that various dogmatic methodologies (Always Be Direct) or (Never show Interest), and you compound it further with \u201cSpiritual Seduction Teachers\u201d\u00a0 who want to help you get in touch with yourself, and you\u2019re really fucked.<\/p>\n

    Man, you\u2019re more confused than the doctor being told by Michael Jackson to give him another shot of his desired medication\u2026\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u201dOn the one hand I don\u2019t want to get fired from this kickback job, on the other I cannot just let this freak have whatever medication he desires\u2026..\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

    So, in the next article, I am going to discuss how you can work around this paradigm and create a game plan that makes sense.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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