{"id":1955,"date":"2010-03-24T11:56:09","date_gmt":"2010-03-24T18:56:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=1955"},"modified":"2010-05-31T09:37:25","modified_gmt":"2010-05-31T16:37:25","slug":"balancing-dating-advice-your-personal-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/24\/balancing-dating-advice-your-personal-life\/","title":{"rendered":"The 3 Areas of Benefit From Dating-Advice"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Balancing Dating-Advice &amp; Your Personal Life<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>In the last two articles, (<a href=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/23\/how-underground-advice-can-make-you-weird\/\" target=\"_blank\">How underground advice makes you weird)<\/a> I talked about two polar opposite ways of thinking.\u00a0 One is clueless and the other resembles a sociopathic style of thinking where everything is analyzed to the nth degree.<\/p>\n<p>How do you balance these two a blog reader asked?<\/p>\n<p>First and foremost, your first objective ought to be improving your SOCIAL SKILLS, Social Intelligence and SOCIAL Confidence.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0If you\u2019re looking to improve your dating life, you probably need improvement in one or more of those areas.\u00a0 Some guys need major improvement in all 3!!!<\/p>\n<p>Take concepts and principles from the seduction community and apply them in a way that is socially pleasant.\u00a0 Apply them in a way that makes sense in your world, your town, and your culture.<\/p>\n<p>As a concrete example:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Having a Strong Reality:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This is a fantastic concept.\u00a0 It implies believing in yourself and believing in your ideal.\u00a0 You remain steadfast and undeterred in those standards which you value.\u00a0 Great idea!\u00a0 Present a strong reality.\u00a0 \u00a0But then you wouldn\u2019t go to a Christmas dinner party with your cock hanging out of your pants, would you?\u00a0 \u201cHey, I have a strong reality, and it doesn\u2019t bother me.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0 Well, it bothers everybody else, and it\u2019s not socially cool.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<em>Such a ridiculous example, Cameron!\u00a0 Of course, I wouldn\u2019t do that.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Well, OK, a bit ridiculous, but is this too far off?<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1956\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1956\" style=\"width: 187px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1956 \" src=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/mex-lair.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"187\" height=\"309\" srcset=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/mex-lair.jpg 187w, http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/mex-lair-181x300.jpg 181w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 187px) 100vw, 187px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1956\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">count Mexicula<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">(photo compliments of BKRS)<\/p>\n<p>At least with the guy whose cock is hanging out, you can ask him to put it back in.\u00a0 How do you make this guy normal again?\u00a0 That\u2019s fodder for another day.<\/p>\n<p>Pictured above is a guy who\u00a0 at some point lost touch with common sense and sensibilities. His emotional zeal for becoming a \u201cPick Up Artist\u201d overpowered his brain\u2019s logic and reason.\u00a0 Granted, this can happen to any of us to some extent, but this dude took it to another level.\u00a0 Point is that you have to balance the concept and its application.\u00a0 I am for pushing social boundaries but then you have to know how to do so without repercussions to yourself, your lifestyle, and your career.<\/p>\n<p>As another example, you may get away with dressing up like a flamboyant rock-star in Los Angeles or NY, but you just might downright get your ass kicked in a smaller redneck town.\u00a0 Now, this is pretty much common sense, but it becomes lost in the zeal of \u201cPick Up Artist Mastery.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you can remember the objectives in the back of your mind,,<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Chief goal is improving your social skills, social intelligence, social confidence,<\/li>\n<li>Staying true to your identity and ideals<\/li>\n<li>Applying fair-Balance between the outrageous advice and your particular lifestyle.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>When you come across ANY concept, you have to apply the following questions:<\/p>\n<p>-Does this fit in within my lifestyle?<br \/>\n-Is this conducive to the TYPE OF WOMEN I desire?<br \/>\n-In which Area is this going to benefit me?<\/p>\n<p>The 3 areas for potential benefit are:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Social Skills.<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Social Intelligence.<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Social Confidence.<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Which area are you improving in?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Example:\u00a0 NLP Infatuation<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Some guys become obsessed with learning NLP, hidden phrases, embedded commands.\u00a0 So, let&#8217;s say you&#8217;re being bogged down in NLP. What areas are you going\u00a0to improve you in?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;Social Skills?\u00a0 Definitely not.\u00a0 It\u2019s sold as a better communication tool, but have you ever observed NLP people trying to socialize at a party?\u00a0 Enough said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;Social Intelligence?\u00a0 Probably not in terms of getting girls.\u00a0 Unless you consider trying to manipulate people with embedded commands a tool of social intelligence.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;Social Confidence?\u00a0 Well, I don\u2019t think so.\u00a0 If you think it helps your confidence, go for it.<\/p>\n<p>Apply common sense and decide for yourself.\u00a0 As a side note, now that you know that, you\u2019ll see a trend amongst my dating-related articles.\u00a0 Each article fits into one of the above categories.<\/p>\n<p>Example of my previous articles (Yes, this is where I get to boast) :<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>My recent Articles on &#8220;<em>How to spot promiscuous and\/or toxic girls<\/em>&#8220;: <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Social Intelligence<\/span>.<br \/>\n.<\/li>\n<li>Recent Article on &#8220;<em>How to develop Charm<\/em>&#8220;:\u00a0 <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Social Skills<\/span>.<br \/>\n.<\/li>\n<li>Various Articles on &#8220;<em>Understanding the importance of purpose &amp; Identity<\/em>&#8220;: <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Confidence<\/span> (Better Self-Image.)<br \/>\n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>I know you\u2019re thinking,\u00a0 \u201c<em>Clever Cameron!\u00a0 How did he do that!\u201d<\/em> I know, right???\u00a0\u00a0 [Inside joke if you\u00a0follow the blog]<\/p>\n<p>OK, but now that the secret is out, let\u2019s get to another important issue in the AREA OF SOCIAL SKILLS that will ENABLE you to gain SOCIAL CONFIDENCE.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s coming in the next article, I am going t share one of the most profound secrets that\u2019s been staring you in the face all along!<\/p>\n<p>Stay tuned,<\/p>\n<p>Cameron<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenanywhere.com\/ebook.shtml\" target=\"_blank\">Building Attraction Ebook<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Balancing Dating-Advice &amp; Your Personal Life . 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