{"id":1966,"date":"2010-03-27T07:30:45","date_gmt":"2010-03-27T14:30:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=1966"},"modified":"2010-05-31T09:35:35","modified_gmt":"2010-05-31T16:35:35","slug":"a-simple-concept-incredible-gains","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/27\/a-simple-concept-incredible-gains\/","title":{"rendered":"A Simple Concept, Incredible Gains in Your DatingLife"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Simple Concept to Get More Dates<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>A simple Concept to Enable You to Reap Great Gains.<\/p>\n<p>In the last article, I discussed the 3 areas of potential benefit from Dating advice.\u00a0 (You can read it here: <a href=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/24\/balancing-dating-advice-your-personal-life\/\" target=\"_blank\">3 Areas of Benefit<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>Next is Application! You have to apply what you have learned.\u00a0 I have 3 rules that I\u2019d emphasize to you when it comes to in-field-application:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Simplify<\/li>\n<li>Simplify<\/li>\n<li>Simplify<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>If you can\u2019t remember this last point, you probably shouldn\u2019t be reading my blog.\u00a0 \u00a0It is far easier to apply simple techniques for the brain under duress than it is to carry out plans that you have to think about.<\/p>\n<p>Simplicity works because,<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Fewer things to remember, less moving parts,<\/li>\n<li>Becomes instinctual rather quickly.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>For many guys, cold-approaching a girl they\u2019ve never met is nerve-racking.\u00a0 Why this nervousness exists is irrelevant to this article.\u00a0 This outside pressure is similar to the one a fighter faces when he steps into a ring.\u00a0 When faced with this nervous stimulus, it is easier for your brain to carry out simple tasks.<\/p>\n<p>Concrete Example:\u00a0 Cold-approaching<\/p>\n<p>How do you simplify it?\u00a0 You throw away all of the thinking that goes inside your head.\u00a0 You focus on the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">simple task<\/span> you have to carry out.\u00a0 You throw out most of the complicated stuff you\u2019ve come across in a dating community, (DHVs, IUDs, etc.)<\/p>\n<p>Even the archetype info you\u2019ve read from me, throw it out in that moment!<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s awesome, yes it\u2019ll benefit you well in the long run, yes, and it\u2019s &#8220;one of kind information&#8221; that most of the socially-inept folk who call themselves \u201cDating-gurus\u201d cannot offer you.\u00a0 All of this is accurate.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, at the moment of action, you need not be concerned with it.<\/p>\n<p>Here is something I&#8217;ve created that works for me!\u00a0 I have a phrase that I say in my mind, which I created\u00a0while weightlifting.\u00a0\u00a0I think YOU may find it useful as well in a dating context!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em>Do it Now!\u00a0 Think About it Later. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When I am in the gym weight-lifting, about to lift another heavy weight (for me) for yet another set, a bit of restlessness can set it.\u00a0 You have to do another set of deep squats, the weight is heavy, and you still have to get underneath it, squat down low with heavy bars &amp; plates of steel on your back, and then come back up.\u00a0 Sometimes, you can start thinking about it too much as you\u2019re standing there staring at the squat rack\u2026<\/p>\n<p>There comes a time when it\u2019s just\u00a0time to lift.\u00a0 Thinking about it various thoughts doesn&#8217;t do you much good.\u00a0 Your focus needs to ONLY be on hoisting the steel up and down.\u00a0 Other thoughts are counterproductive. \u00a0Simplify.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Do it now.\u00a0 Think about it later.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a simple command, but it makes sense in my mind.\u00a0 Obviously, there has to be an overall safety issue factored in.\u00a0 It\u2019s not implying to go snort cocaine while putting a giant dildo in your ass, and then thinking about it later as you leave the emergency room with a bloody nose and a bill from a proctologist.\u00a0 (In case, there is 1 moron out there who finds this article by mistake.)<\/p>\n<p>In the weightlifting example, I know that I can do the weight.\u00a0 I know it\u2019s safe, and that I won\u2019t suffer injuries.\u00a0 It\u2019s still f*cking heavy, and it\u2019s still tough, but no point thinking about that now.\u00a0 <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Do it now, think about it later.<\/span> Come to think of it, I don&#8217;t think about it much later except that I am glad I got it done.\u00a0 The simple mantra just helps my mind focus on action instead of thinking about it.<\/p>\n<p>Same application with the approaching women.\u00a0 Do it now, think about it later.\u00a0\u00a0 Again, take common-sense safety factors in.\u00a0 If she is hanging with a group of Hell\u2019s Angels Bikers, and you walk in trying to be Mr. \u00a0cool-Alpha\u2026.. Well, you may get knifed or stabbed in the stomach if you\u2019re a disrespectful little prick, and let&#8217;s be honest, it\u2019ll probably be well deserved. So let\u2019s keep it within reason.<\/p>\n<p>Barring similar situations mentioned above, there isn\u2019t much to worry about.\u00a0 Keep it simple.\u00a0\u00a0 You&#8217;re interested in a girl who works in your office\u00a0building?\u00a0 Have a simple game plan, nothing fancy.\u00a0 Go &amp; talk to her.\u00a0 Do it now.\u00a0 \u00a0Think about it later.<\/p>\n<p>Back when I taught \u201cIn-Field\u201d workshops, I came across many guys who were deathly afraid to go over and talk to a girl in a bar.\u00a0 In that situation, you have to keep it simple.<\/p>\n<p>-Forget about getting a phone number.<\/p>\n<p>-Forget about \u201cClosing\u201d any sort of deal,<\/p>\n<p>-Forget about any tactics or strategies or acronyms.<\/p>\n<p>At the point of action, the above are irrelevant.<\/p>\n<p>For the nervous wreck guy (From the east coast) , here is what I told him: Keep it beyond simple.\u00a0 Here is the simple opener in one particular situation:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cHey, Know where I could find good pizza around here?\u00a0 I just came out here from back east, I\u2019m having a tough time finding good pizza!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now, in the above scenario, if she asks what part of the East Coast you\u2019re from, or WHY you moved out here, feel free to converse like you would with me.\u00a0 If she just offers plain information from an uninterested disposition, then just say, \u201cCool, thanks.\u00a0 I\u2019ll see you around.\u201d\u00a0 And walk away as though you accomplished your mission.\u00a0 Remember you push comfort zone in baby steps.\u00a0 (Read important article here:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/02\/12\/being-comfortable-vs-pushing-your-comfort-zone-oyyy-what-to-do\/\" target=\"_blank\">Pushing your comfort zone<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p>Why such a no-brainer conversational starter about Pizza?\u00a0 How is this great &#8220;Game?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Because it\u2019s SIMPLE!\u00a0 It\u2019s easy to execute.\u00a0 It\u2019s a simple mission. Apply the basic parameters:\u00a0 Approach with the proper body language at the right time, have your basic mission in hand, do it, and get out.\u00a0 By the end of the weekend, that same guy is able to do direct-approaches, situational ones and even had full-fledged 30-minute long conversations that resulted from a cold-approach.\u00a0 Yes, the same guy who was nervous to even ask about Pizza. \u00a0Btw, if&#8217;ve you just cold-approached someone and are still engaged in conversation (dialogue) 20 minutes later, you&#8217;re in!\u00a0 That&#8217;s most of the game.<\/p>\n<p>Key is <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">s<\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">implicity in application<\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">. <\/span>There are plenty of guys who can spout theories (Including many guys who claim to be \u201cTeachers\u201d) but most of them can\u2019t talk to women (or men).\u00a0 Theory only gets so far.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Application is what counts.\u00a0 Simplicity creates easier application. <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>What if you talk with girls here and there, but your interactions don&#8217;t go very far?\u00a0 There are a number of a variables causing that dynamic.\u00a0 Again, keep it simple.\u00a0 Devise a simple game plan as to what you want to do in those interaction and accomplish those one at a time.\u00a0 Gettiing lost in a plethora of complicated tactics is going to have you where you are right now.\u00a0 Hey,\u00a0\u00a0if you want to hold on to the old complicated model, that&#8217;s fine too, but then how came you haven&#8217;t made any strides in your ability to attract women or have more dates since Clinton was President?<\/p>\n<p>Like I\u2019ve written before, most guys won\u2019t improve because they don\u2019t put in the work based on proper applicative knowledge!<\/p>\n<p>I provide the knowledge.<\/p>\n<p>You do the work!<\/p>\n<p>You will reap the rewards. \u00a0<em>It&#8217;s that simple, if you simplify.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Cameron<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0PS.\u00a0 The articles on this blog will have a profound impact on your dating life.\u00a0 Please realize that they are supplementary and supporting material to what I discuss in my expanded work.\u00a0 Get a copy of my Ebook here: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenanywhere.com\/ebook.shtml\" target=\"_blank\">Building Attraction with Women<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Simple Concept to Get More Dates . 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