{"id":2072,"date":"2010-04-22T00:34:22","date_gmt":"2010-04-22T07:34:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=2072"},"modified":"2010-05-30T22:16:10","modified_gmt":"2010-05-31T05:16:10","slug":"the-saga-of-ben-roethlisberger","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2010\/04\/22\/the-saga-of-ben-roethlisberger\/","title":{"rendered":"The Saga of Ben Roethlisberger"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ben Roethlisberger Exploits<\/span><\/h2>\n

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If you live in the U.S, then you probably couldn\u2019t help but hear about the Ben Roethlisberger case in the past 2 weeks.\u00a0 He is a two-time superbowl Champ NFL Quarterback for the Steelers who\u2019s been in hot water due to sexual assault allegations.\u00a0\u00a0 If you\u2019re the kind of person who frequents bars\/nightclubs, this story is fascinating.\u00a0 It\u2019s even more intriguing from a perspective of social psychology.<\/p>\n

Initially, I thought that perhaps Ben was a bit of a douchebag going around exposing his genitals, but after reading the details I\u2019ve changed my mind.\u00a0 Keep in mind that I am by no means a Pittsburgh Steeler fan.<\/p>\n

Here is what Happened according written statements turned in by the various girls involved.<\/p>\n

Ben Roethlisberger, his friend, along with his personal Bodyguards are out frequenting college Bars in Georgia.
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Job Perks<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Why? That\u2019s where the hot chicks are. They\u2019re fun, want to hang out, and don\u2019t carry tons of baggage or attitude.\u00a0 [By the way, Ben let himself go, and got really fat!]<\/p>\n

Sequence of Events:<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ben & pals are at a club called, \u201cVelvet.\u201d<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 The accuser and friends come and introduce themselves to him<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ben meets girl with \u201cD.T.F\u201d necklace<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 They tell Ben, \u201cD.T.F.\u201d stands for \u201cDown to Fuck.\u201d<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 They chat for a while until bar gets busy.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ben and pals leave the bar to go party at the \u201cBrick.\u201d<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ben leaves Brick and goes the \u201cCapital.\u201d\u00a0 (From what it sounds like)<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ben is having a good time, buying people shots, taking photos with randoms Joes<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Accuser shows up.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ben meets her privately in bathroom, takes his cock out.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Her friends want to get her, but bodyguard acts as wingman.\u00a0 Stops them.<\/p>\n

Girls leave disenchanted.\u00a0 Call the Police Later.<\/p>\n

The weird thing about this is that encounters such as the one above are not all that uncommon in clubs.\u00a0 There are a subset of women who are willing to have sex with if you have \/power\/money\/fame or a combination of.<\/p>\n

There is even a dating coach out there, (whose name rhymes with Brad P.) who blatanly advises guys to invite girls to a bathrooms.\u00a0 His routine is to ask the girl if she\u2019d like to watch him jerk-off, and then he proceeds to take his penis out and masturbate.\u00a0 [No, I am not making this shit up.] \u00a0 Point is people react as though they’re horrified but this sort of stuff occurs \u00a0more often than people think.<\/p>\n

The difference is that Ben is a rich & famous athlete, and not too bright.\u00a0 (Which I\u2019ll get to in a second.)<\/p>\n

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The most honest testimony seems to come from Victoria Garofalo<\/span>.\u00a0 In her written statement:<\/p>\n

Some time later it came up that [Name redacted]\u2019s name tag (from a birthday earlier) said d.t.f on it (a joke between a few of us) but Ben said he didn\u2019t know what d.t.f. meant so we told him it means \u201cdown to fuck\u201d and he said \u201cI\u2019m not d.t.f. but I like to fuck girls.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

WTF?\u00a0\u00a0[That means “What the fuck<\/em>” in case Ben is a blog reader.]<\/p>\n

What does that mean?\u00a0 \u201cI am not DTF, but I like to fuck girls.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

As opposed to what?\u00a0 Horses?\u00a0 Goats?\u00a0 Exhaust pipes?<\/p>\n

While you gotta appreciate Ben\u2019s honesty, you also can see clearly that Ben doesn\u2019t really get it all that well.\u00a0 His response echoes that of the cro-magnon man.\u00a0 \u201cGrrr\u2026. Me likey, fuckey fuckey, girls.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0 It\u2019s also terrible game.\u00a0 If Ben were an average fat guy in the bar, they\u2019d laugh and walk away at that reply.\u00a0 \u201cUmm, errr, ummm, I am not D.T.F, but I like to fuck girls.\u201d<\/p>\n

By the way, wearing a necklace that has initials that mean: \u201cDown To Fuck.\u201d<\/strong> Wow, does that open a whole can of worms.<\/p>\n

Case Closed.\u00a0 This is where the District Attorney\u00a0 should start laughing, and telling people, \u201cCute story.\u00a0 But I\u2019ve got actual criminals prosecute.\u201d<\/p>\n

Basically, a very small category of women would wear such a necklace at that age.\u00a0 (We ain\u2019t talking about a 42 year old cougar here.)\u00a0\u00a0 My buddy Jon wrote a great summary post on \u201cQueenbees and Wannabes: The evolution of club girl psychology<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Regina - D.T.F<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

There is a very specific type of woman who wear this necklace: She is the Queenbee type that Jon explains in his summary post.\u00a0 An attractive social climber who is\u00a0sort of at the top of\u00a0her local\u00a0food chain.\u00a0 Why? Because she can afford to wear that necklace without repercussions from her fellow sorority sisters.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 This is key.\u00a0 Not every girl can wear that necklace without massive repercussions of being called a slut, ho-bag, or loose.<\/p>\n

So from that tidbit, we know she is attractive, popular, and a social climber.<\/p>\n

Eyewitness Victoria Garofalo is the only girl who has any remorse about the evening.\u00a0 She concludes her statement with the following:<\/p>\n

And more talking went on between us all until they left the bar.\u00a0 Then I seperated with [Name redacted] and the other girls and went with another group and everything else happened & I was told about it this morning and felt I needed to give my statement. <\/em><\/p>\n

Looking back and hearing all of the details it seems to me that it was a set-up and so I think this needed to be told.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Victoria feels it was a set-up by her own sorority sisters.\u00a0\u00a0 Ben does leave the bar.\u00a0 He goes somewhere else where the accuser and friend catch up with him.\u00a0\u00a0 Massively drunk, (with prob a fake ID?) since she is only 20, (drinking age is 21 in America.\u00a0 I know this disappoints you Europeans), donning her \u201cDown to Fuck Necklace,\u201d she does Find Ben again, this time at a club called the Brick.\u00a0 Next Account:<\/p>\n

Ann Marie Lubatti<\/span> writes:<\/p>\n

\u201c[Name redacted], Nicole Bianofiore, Victoria Garofalo and I arrived at Velvet at 11:15.\u00a0 We introduced ourselves to Ben Roethlisberger and took pictures.\u00a0 Ben, his 2 bodyguards, and 1 friend left Velvet.\u00a0 After about 20 minutes [Name redacted], Nicole, Victoria, and I went to the Brick.\u00a0 Ben was sitting at the bar, so we talked to him for about another 30-45 minutes.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ben, his 2 bodyguards, and 1 friends left when the Brick started getting crowded.\u00a0 After about 10 minutes [Name redacted], Nicole, AMA and I went to Capital.\u00a0 The backroom was curtained off and Ben was back there with about 15-20 girls.<\/em><\/p>\n

He was bying everyone shots and just talking and taking pictures with everyone.\u00a0 At this point he was noticeably intoxicated. <\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/em>OK, Ben may not have tight game, but the dude gets an “A” for being a chill motherf*cker.\u00a0 He is buying everyone shots and interacting with people.\u00a0 Living in LA, one common trend you\u2019ll hear about celebrities is not only they don\u2019t buy you shots, they pretend you don\u2019t exist.\u00a0 As in, they won\u2019t make eye contact even if you\u2019re standing right next to them for 10 minutes, bleeding.\u00a0 (Ok, to be fair, some may be afraid of falling into the Ben trap, but then we\u2019re talking about buying shots for dudes!)<\/p>\n

Ann Marie continues:<\/em><\/p>\n

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I saw [Name redacted] and Ben talking from across the bar.\u00a0 Then I saw one of Ben\u2019s bodyguards come up to [Name redacted] and guide her to a side door.<\/em><\/p>\n

About 2 minutes later I saw Ben walk back there.\u00a0 I immediately went up to the other bodyguard and said \u201cthis is right. My friend is back there with Ben.\u00a0 She needs to come back right now.\u201d <\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

So this is what\u2019s fascinating:<\/p>\n

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  1. \u201cD.T.F\u201d Girl and friends meet Ben at Club VELVET.<\/li>\n
  2. Ben leaves, and goes to club \u201cBRICK.\u201d\u00a0 They find him again<\/li>\n
  3. Ben leaves, and goes to club, \u201cCAPITAL CITY.\u201d\u00a0 Where they find him again\u2026<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Granted, in college bars, people bounce in and out of clubs all of the time, and it\u2019s not uncommon to run into the same people at a different venue.\u00a0 However, to repeatedly and persistently approach Ben who is now wasted on booze and discombobulated after buying half the bar shots, and meeting at least 50 different hot girls in 3 different venues, smells like a bit of an agenda.\u00a0 Wouldn\u2019t you agree?<\/p>\n

    Well, the drunken Ben at this point starts following the \u201cMystery Method\u201d that perhaps he saw on VH-1.\u00a0 He isolates his \u201cTarget\u201d, but doesn\u2019t want to wait 7 hours, so he takes his cock out right then and there.\u00a0 Then again, maybe it\u00a0was just common sense.\u00a0 \u00a0His 2 bodyguards act like the ultimate wingmen, and from there, the details become fuzzy.<\/p>\n

    It\u2019s hard to determine what the agenda was exactly.\u00a0 Ben seems like a dude who likes to party and drink, but doesn\u2019t exercise the best judgment.\u00a0 (He is also the same guy who refused to wear a helmet, crashed a motorcycle and paid the consequences for an entire season.)\u00a0 Gifted with great athletic talent but poor intellect off of the football field, he is a simple man.<\/p>\n

    I doubt Ben will ever be the guy sampling gourmet French wine aged in particular caskets while having special filet Mignon.\u00a0 He\u2019ll guzzle cheap beer on top of a sloppy hamburger and follow it up with Alka-seltzer or Tums’s antiacid meds, while expression his carnal desires.\u00a0 But a rapist?\u00a0 Nah.\u00a0I doubt it.<\/p>\n

    Perhaps, the best summary to this was the comment left by a girl in reaction to this.\u00a0 Brutally honest, it\u2019s also intuitively insightful from a female perspective.\u00a0 She captured it best:<\/p>\n

    It seems to me like he has always been out for a good time and all the girls are out for a good time until their egos get shattered! Its kinda like your boyfriend has the biggest d*ck in the world until you break up then he was the worst mistake of your life.<\/p>\n

    All these girls wanted him and when they found out they weren\u2019t the best they thought oh I\u2019ll get you back watch this and now his career and his reputation is ruined! All accounts of the story are different all the players are twisted. there are no criminal charges in ANY CASE<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

    It\u2019s all fun and games til your ego gets hurt.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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