{"id":211,"date":"2009-01-13T13:17:17","date_gmt":"2009-01-13T20:17:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=211"},"modified":"2011-03-13T17:15:40","modified_gmt":"2011-03-14T00:15:40","slug":"the-casino-of-dating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/01\/13\/the-casino-of-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"The Casino of Dating"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">If Dating Women Were A Casino Game.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Welcome to the grand opening of the dating casino\u2026.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-219  aligncenter\" title=\"bellagio-blog\" src=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/bellagio-blog.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Get your Chips, high rollers stand in front, let the game begins.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">.<\/p>\n<p>The world of dating and attracting women can be a lot like a casino.\u00a0 You have to understand the type of game you play and the odds you face.\u00a0 Otherwise, the house takes your money and you\u2019re left standing there, broke, dejected, sporting that post gambling look that says \u201cWhat the f*ck happened?\u201d<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Despite what any dating \u201cGuru\u201d tells you, approaching women is a numbers game!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>It always has been!\u00a0 It always probably will be!\u00a0 Unless you\u2019re in a position where women are approaching you, you\u2019re going to play the numbers game and that\u2019s not necessarily a bad thing. If that&#8217;s the case, then why should you even bother reading dating advice?<br \/>\n.<\/p>\n<p>Because you learn to improve the odds in your favor.\u00a0 How so?\u00a0 Well, a guy who is good at interacting\/flirting with females will talk to 10 women, and out of those ten, he\u2019ll have 5 or 6 good interactions.\u00a0 (We are not talking about getting laid.\u00a0 Just a good interaction where you both enjoyed the time spent.)\u00a0 The guy who is mediocre at it will have to approach 50 women to experience those 5 or 6 good interactions.<\/p>\n<p>.<br \/>\nSo with that thought in mind, let\u2019s the hit the grand casino of dating.\u00a0 You want to stack the odds in your favor, and make sure the statistics are favored towards you.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Loud Night Clubs:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ahhh, this is the dating equivalent to roulette from hell.\u00a0 Normal Casino roulette has two green slots for \u201c0\u201d and \u201c00\u201d which give the odds to the house regardless of whether you bet on red or black,\u00a0odd or even.\u00a0\u00a0 This roulette table has ten green slots!\u00a0 The odds are stacked against you from the get go.\u00a0\u00a0 Loud music, distractions from every which way, attention whores dancing on table tops, girls walking around in a chain gang with locked arms, obnoxious drunks, and a garden variety of douchebags running amok.<\/p>\n<p>.<br \/>\nSo why even go there?\u00a0 Well, that\u2019s a good question.\u00a0 Probably because the place sports enough bimbos to be called \u201cSkanks R\u2019 us.\u2019 And the lure is too great to resist for men.\u00a0 Is it impossible to work the scene?\u00a0 No, but this scene does favor certain types of guys. These are guys that fit one (or a combination) of the elements listed below:<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-228\" src=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/the-hoff2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"158\" height=\"199\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>the good Looking,<\/li>\n<li>the fit,<\/li>\n<li>the Popular,\u00a0 (Remember, this is high school on a bigger stage)<\/li>\n<li>the rich (will try to swing things his way through bottle service purchase if this is a \u201cClassy\u201d joint.<\/li>\n<li>the loud extrovert\u00a0 (talk to enough people and you\u2019ll create a buzz.\u00a0 Attitude goes a long way.)<\/li>\n<li>the persistent\u00a0 (fire at will, fire at will.\u00a0 He&#8217;s just\u00a0looking to capture just 1 for the night.\u00a0 This is like watching discovery channel where the lion\u00a0feasts on the limping lama or gazelle in the back of the heard.\u00a0 The persistent guy will hit on enough women to find that limping lama.)<\/li>\n<li>*the perpetual drunk\u00a0 (the annoying drunk who is there every weekend.\u00a0 This guy will hit on and slobber on every single woman until one caves in.\u00a0 He is more like the hyena, a creature which has no self-respect that chews on remaining carcasses from another predator\u2019s kill.)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Damn it, the casino analogy is turning into the Discovery channel\u2026..\u00a0 Let\u2019s get back to the casino.<\/p>\n<p>So can an average looking guy standing at 5\u20197\u201d\u00a0 (170cm) \u00a0tall whose favorite hobby is reading meet a girl in this venue? Yeah, of course, it\u2019s possible.\u00a0 Chances are he could run into a similar archetype-woman who found her way there for whatever reason that night.\u00a0 However, we are talking about the numbers game and this is one game where the odds are stacked against a lot of guys.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>The house is prepared to take your money, and I actually mean that.\u00a0\u00a0 $20 entrance fee, $15 cocktails, and doctor\u2019s fees to fix the hearing damage, you should be prepared to pay.\u00a0 (If you live in LA, add $20 for parking.)<br \/>\nI am not saying you can&#8217;t meet girls at a loud club.\u00a0 Just pointing out that the odds are not the greatest.\u00a0 And if you\u2019re\u00a0NOT good looking or fit, then you\u2019re better off being a persistent belligerent drunk in this venue than the scholastic individual in the corner.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-225 aligncenter\" title=\"drunkards\" src=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/drunkards.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"275\" height=\"230\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-dt\">\n<div class=\"mceTemp mceIEcenter\">\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">.<\/dd>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/dd>\n<dd class=\"wp-caption-dd\" style=\"text-align: left;\">. <\/dd>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<ul>\n<li>The cocktail Lounge:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Approaching in a lounge is sort of like playing black jack.\u00a0 With a bit of skill, you can turn the odds quite a bit.\u00a0 The crowd is more sophisticated, and the environment is a bit more peaceful.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a more conducive environment to meeting people than the last venue.\u00a0 It&#8217;s not loud and the place isn&#8217;t crawling with blatant attention whores.\u00a0 You won&#8217;t find people dancing on table tops or the dancing monkey who thinks he is back in the 70s disco.\u00a0 The crowd is a bit more refined too.\u00a0 They like to smell the cork off the bottle here.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-224 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/blackjack-pic11.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"250\" height=\"166\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Dive Bar:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Close to a black jack game, except you\u2019re playing at one of those casinos off the beaten path where the clientele are missing teeth and possibly a couple of limbs here and there.\u00a0 You can meet girls but you gotta be careful because people in dive bars often know each other.\u00a0 (You\u2019re playing at a table where all the players are pals.)\u00a0 Pace yourself, and get to know the place.\u00a0 Make a couple of pals in the bar and suddenly you know half the place.\u00a0 It becomes a friendly game.\u00a0 Once you know some of the locals, you really stack the odds in your favor.\u00a0 Now, you\u2019re playing blackjack with a team and you\u2019re counting cards.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t catch filet mignon at a dive bar often, but sometimes ground beef will do.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cDay Game\u201d\u00a0 Coffee shops, Super markets, Bookstores, and the like.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This is the equivalent to playing craps at the casino.\u00a0 You have the best odds in this venue, and the proverbial house advantage is minimal.\u00a0 Maybe you&#8217;re a guy who is not interested in being\u00a0a lound drunk, and you\u00a0definitely don&#8217;t want to meet half the bar.\u00a0 \u00a0This venue provides a more genuine\u00a0meeting ground.\u00a0 \u00a0Loud night clubs are sort of an extension of high school so there exists the\u00a0social peer pressure of whom you&#8217;re seen with.\u00a0 For the more introverted\u00a0inclined, this venue provides a nice platform.\u00a0 On top of that,\u00a0girls are\u00a0less superficial since they&#8217;re not worried about the peer pressure aspect of things.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Online game,<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This is\u00a0 basically online blackjack.\u00a0 With a bit of skill, you can do well for yourself.\u00a0 The skills here is learning how to write the proper profile, selecting the right photos and having a bit of proficiency with prose.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve known guys\u00a0who\u00a0meet\u00a0quite a few women consistently\u00a0from the comfort of their own home.\u00a0 You have to figure out which games adhere themselves to your advantages.\u00a0 Online isn&#8217;t my specialty because I don&#8217;t invest too much time in it. \u00a0 I am the loud gregarious guy so I like face to face meetings.\u00a0 This is where you gotta match the game to your personality.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>House Party:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Talking women at a house party gives the best odds.\u00a0 This is somewhat equivalent to playing poker.\u00a0 You can really clean the table pretty well if you\u2019re a skilled player.\u00a0 The great thing about it is that even if you\u2019re not very proficient, you can still win a few hands.\u00a0 Very social environment which allows people to be open and more friend to striking a conversation with strangers.\u00a0 Even with little skill, you can bluff your way to winning a few hands at a house party.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_230\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-230\" style=\"width: 275px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-230 \" src=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/rounders1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"275\" height=\"184\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-230\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Poker<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>House Party.\u00a0 (And it\u2019s your house.)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Now, you are the casino.\u00a0 It\u2019s your house (literally) and you\u2019re playing with house money.\u00a0\u00a0 You\u2019ve got security, pit bosses, and dealers and \u201cEyes in the Sky\u201d (but let\u2019s save the kinky shit for some other post.)\u00a0 They\u2019re all working for you.\u00a0\u00a0 This is probably the easiest venue to work since you run the show, and it\u2019s your rules.\u00a0\u00a0 You\u2019re playing with house money so there is little pressure, and you run the joint so what you say goes.<\/p>\n<p>Look at your personality, and decide what type of women you want to date.\u00a0 Choose a\u00a0venue that 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