{"id":2110,"date":"2010-05-23T06:00:10","date_gmt":"2010-05-23T13:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=2110"},"modified":"2011-01-13T17:32:13","modified_gmt":"2011-01-14T00:32:13","slug":"understanding-indifference-in-dating-part-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2010\/05\/23\/understanding-indifference-in-dating-part-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Understanding &#8220;Indifference&#8221; in Dating (Part 1)"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">The Pros &amp; Cons of &#8220;Indifference&#8221; \u00a0in Dating<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>Continuing on my quest to clarify Dating concepts, I am going to deconstruct the &#8220;Indifference&#8221; today. \u00a0Undoubtedly, I am sure that you&#8217;ve come across people touting this concept if you&#8217;ve sought dating advice for a while.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>How does Indifference Work?<\/li>\n<li>What Are the Requirements?<\/li>\n<li>When does it backfire?<\/li>\n<li>What type of women\/girls best respond to this?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t intuitively understand the answers to the above four questions, you&#8217;re not going to be very good at applying this concept. \u00a0This is one of the biggest reasons why 90% of guys who seek dating advice do not really improve much, and to be completely honest with you, most dudes teaching you dating techniques don&#8217;t know it themselves.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>How does \u00a0Indifference Work<\/strong>?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Its chief design is to create, or rather trigger, an emotional response in people by providing the appearance that you have higher value and to further trigger that &#8220;people want what they can&#8217;t have&#8221; type of situation.<\/p>\n<p>This is generally a sound concept, but there is an enormous piece of the puzzle most guys overlook. \u00a0That piece, a prerequisite to making Indifference functional, happens to be &#8220;Attraction.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>During a conversation with a girl, you can apply &#8220;Indifference&#8221; by having the attitude of &#8220;I don&#8217;t really care.&#8221; \u00a0It&#8217;d resemble the following attitude: &#8220;<em>You want to go out on a date? \u00a0Sounds great. \u00a0You are not interested in seeing me? \u00a0OK, no biggie. \u00a0There are other girls who are interested<\/em>.&#8221; \u00a0 <em>C&#8217;est la vie<\/em> as the Frenchies say.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not angry, nor is it being bitter. \u00a0It is what it exactly indicates: Indifferent. \u00a0Lacking emotion towards any issue makes you indifferent. \u00a0Hey, random Joe blow doesn&#8217;t like chicken sandwiches. \u00a0You&#8217;d say, &#8220;OK, so what?&#8221; \u00a0That&#8217;s being indifferent.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>What are the Requirements?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Indifference, in and of by itself, is not an end-all be-all solution.<\/p>\n<p>Case and Point: If you live in the U.S, you&#8217;ve probably walked into a 7-11 (or equivalent) convenience store at some point and have had a vagrant ask you for money. \u00a0Now, on some occasion, you probably even gave that homeless individual some change out of your pocket.<\/p>\n<p>Pop quiz: If you walked to that same 7-11 and saw that bum asking everyone for money, except when it came to YOU, would you suddenly feel self-conscious? \u00a0Would you think, &#8220;<em>Man, why didn&#8217;t that bum smelling like a mixture of alcohol and urine ask ME for money<\/em>?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Probably not. \u00a0If you would think that, seek help. \u00a0You&#8217;re far beyond the scope of what my blog can do for you.<\/p>\n<p>Lesson here: \u00a0You need some attraction for indifference to work. \u00a0Whether it&#8217;s sheer physical looks, charm, wit, charisma, or your 1957 Corvette, you need some appeal. \u00a0How do you achieve attraction? \u00a0Well, you can get my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenanywhere.com\/ebook.shtml\" target=\"_blank\">Attraction Ebook<\/a> for that. \u00a0Regardless, you need some attraction, meaning she must be somewhat interested in you. \u00a0You must appeal to her on some level.<\/p>\n<p>If you do not, indifference will not be very effective for you. \u00a0This is the part most men miss. \u00a0They&#8217;re falsely under the impression that if they somehow stood in a corner facing a wall, and ignored a girl, somehow she&#8217;d be turned on and her juices would start to flow.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll have a better chance to see the Chicago Cubs win a Baseball World Series before that actually works for you.<\/p>\n<p>So now you know how Indifference functions and what you need in order for it to be functional.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>How does it backfire? \u00a0What type of women are ideal for this?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Well, you&#8217;ll have to tune in for the next article to see that one. 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