{"id":234,"date":"2009-02-04T12:28:19","date_gmt":"2009-02-04T19:28:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=234"},"modified":"2011-01-03T20:02:22","modified_gmt":"2011-01-04T03:02:22","slug":"why-90-of-men-flunk-in-the-sedcution-community","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/02\/04\/why-90-of-men-flunk-in-the-sedcution-community\/","title":{"rendered":"Why 90% of Men Flunk in the Sedcution Community"},"content":{"rendered":"

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90% of men who seek dating advice do not improve much in this area!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


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Sad, isn\u2019t it? <\/span>That means\u00a0that potentially 9 out of 10 guys reading this blog right now are frustrated and upset about the fact that they don\u2019t meet and attract girls on a consistent basis. <\/span>They\u2019re not even looking to be players, but on the same token, they don\u2019t much enjoy their forced celibacy either.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


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I seem to get more than my fair share of emails from guys who are upset about studying someone\u2019s method or attending some workshop which didn\u2019t really help them at all. Why guys think I am some sort of community-police, I have no idea. <\/span>Perhaps it\u2019s from reading my blog or hearing me on the Barry Kirkey Radio Show. <\/span>I don\u2019t mind the emails. Man, <\/span>I can feel their frustration through the emails. <\/span>It sucks.<\/span><\/p>\n


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<\/span>It shouldn\u2019t be that that way, but it is. <\/span>I am going to blow the lid off why this is happening and why<\/strong>:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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So let\u2019s start with the success rate. <\/span>20% of guys reach some level of success and 80% remain frustrated. <\/span>In this process, a strange phenomenon occurs. <\/span>The former leave and the latter guys stick around. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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We probably ought to define \u201cImprovement.\u201d? <\/span>It\u2019s <\/span>normalcy in socialization, going out, meeting a few girls here and there, FLIRTING with them, date a few girls, get a girlfriend perhaps. <\/span>We are not talking aspiration of becoming some silly acronym. <\/span>(mpua, master-pick up artist) and so forth. <\/span>Some say my 20% estimate is generous but I am sticking to it. <\/span>So let\u2019s pick out some hypothetical numbers and apply the stats:<\/span><\/p>\n


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Random Year: <\/span>10,000 guys find the seduction community of whom 2000 found success. <\/span>8000 didn\u2019t really improve substantially. <\/span>This happens on a yearly basis. <\/span>In 10 Years, time, you have 80,000 guys who haven\u2019t improved, and are still lingering around. This number keeps compounding.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


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Those who graduate move on with their lives. <\/span>They reacclimate themselves into normal society and normal flow of things. <\/span>(Why normal? <\/span>Because talking about pickup incessantly and giving field reports to your buddies on a daily basis and talking new DHVs is NOT normal, especially when a guy is nearly 30 years old.) <\/span><\/p>\n


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Of the guys who do graduate, some stick around and become teachers who really know their craft. <\/span>They understand the process and are able to explain it to others. <\/span>It\u2019s sort of like the Top Gun academy<\/span> where if you graduated with honors, you were given the opportunity to come back and be a flight instructor. <\/span>Some of those guys would include , Sinn, Stephen Nash, Swinggcat, and Barry Kirkey who does a radio show on the community now. <\/span>I\u2019d throw myself in that category. <\/span> <\/span>It\u2019s important to note that none of these guys, including me, came in with commercial aspirations. <\/span>We came to the community for our own self-improvement. <\/span>We planned on leaving it and somehow it turned to a job. <\/span>Be that as it may, a few of us are still planning to leave it in a few years. <\/span><\/p>\n

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If you\u2019re reading this, there is a good chance you may be in the struggling part.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Why??<\/span><\/p>\n

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In order to IMPROVE IN THIS AREA OF LIFE, you have to address 2 distinct major areas. <\/span><\/p>\n

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