Fix up your pad.\u00a0 Your house does not have to look like you\u2019re a movie star.\u00a0 So forget about trying to get your jollies off by filming it to sell on a DVD to further expand your already over inflated ego.\u00a0\u00a0 For most guys, this means having a toilet that is not wearing a beard and a kitchen that does not have undiscovered organisms feeding off the built up mold on the dirty dishes on the sink.\u00a0 If you\u2019re going to clean your place, START with the your bedroom and the bathroom.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ol>\nWhy\u00a0these two?\u00a0 Bedroom is typically where the \u201cPhysical Seduction\u201d occurs and a filthy one is simply counterproductive.\u00a0 A filthy bathroom is simply repulsive to women, (actually to all people in general.)\u00a0 Next clean place of importance is the kitchen.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Last place is the living room if you live in a house with roommates.\u00a0 You could potentially get away with a less than idea living room, because you can blame your roommates.\u00a0 \u201cAhh, those filthy bastards!!\u201d\u00a0 Then she gets to your room, and sees that it\u2019s immaculate, she\u2019ll be convinced that it really is your roommates, and you\u2019re not the one responsible for the pigsty.\u00a0 (And sometimes this is really the case!\u00a0 I’ve used this excuse too!)<\/p>\n
Living room situation gets tricky if you live alone.\u00a0 You can\u2019t blame roommates, friends or your dog.\u00a0 It\u2019s You.\u00a0 Also consider that you if you\u2019re doing the nightclub thing and trying to invite girls back for an after-party, the living room has to be clean.\u00a0 In this latter scenario, the bedroom is actually of less importance.\u00a0 The Living room takes precedence.<\/p>\n
\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a03. Create a good social network.\u00a0 You can expand your social circle regardless of your location.\u00a0 Big city, small town, foreign country, foreign culture, it does not matter.\u00a0 You can start expanding.\u00a0<\/p>\n
\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 One quick way to do this is by starting to invite people to your place.\u00a0 (You\u2019ll definitely have to clean the living room for this one too.)\u00a0 If you have a small yard, a patio, backyard, or even a small balcony, invest in a BBQ.\u00a0 People LOVE BBQs, even fucking vegetarians!\u00a0<\/p>\n
Invite a bunch of people for a bbq, be a good host.\u00a0 In turn, they\u2019ll invite you to their events, parties and such, and ALSO, it\u2019s so much easier to meet women when they are COMING TO YOUR PARTY.\u00a0 When you are the host, it automatically makes you more attractive.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Like I said, this universally applicable, even if you live in a small Podunk town of 10,000 people.\u00a0 If you are the successful businessman and you know more affluent people, step up the ante.<\/p>\n
\u00a0Throw theme events:\u00a0 Potluck parties are always great.\u00a0 Have a cocktail party, or wine & cheese tasting get-togethers.\u00a0 Have an Asian or Pacific Rim theme night where everyone brings something of Asian flavor.\u00a0 There are numerous possibilities.\u00a0 Your get-togethers might start out with 8-10 people and that\u2019s fine.\u00a0 It\u2019s not the bash of the decade, just a small get-together to celebrate with friends.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s much more attractive to be the cool, relaxed, social guy with a huge social network than it\u2019s be someone pretending to be living the life of a celebrity hanging with other wannabes, posers, and garden variety of the great pretenders, all of whom are socially uncool to anyone who actually has a smidgen of authenticity to his\/her personality.<\/p>\n
Recap:<\/p>\n
1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Learn the principles of attraction, (Shameless plug for my own stuff: My product is a fantastic place to start),<\/p>\n
2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Clean up your apartment\/condo\/house,<\/p>\n
3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Expand your social circles so that you know a lot of people.\u00a0 You\u2019ll host parties and be invited to other events.\u00a0 You won\u2019t be close friends with all of these folk, but you\u2019ll have a lot of acquaintances and that\u2019s what a social circle is.\u00a0<\/p>\n
3 month experiment:<\/p>\n
Do this for 3 months and you\u2019ll notice what an amazing difference it will make.\u00a0 You don\u2019t have to pretend to be a rockstar, a wannabe celebrity, or some sort of a guru.\u00a0 You\u2019ll have a network of people which will expand automatically after a while.<\/p>\n
Yes, you can have a lifestyle that suits your personality, your values, (and your budget.)<\/strong>\u00a0 Imagine that!\u00a0 A lifestyle that is in accordance with your persona.\u00a0 You don\u2019t need a life coach or a lifestyle guru to tell you how to live your life.\u00a0 (And I am certainly no lifestyle guru myself.)\u00a0<\/p>\nI do know the basics.\u00a0 It\u2019s stuff you learn right around the 3rd<\/sup> grade.\u00a0<\/p>\nIf you\u2019re passionate about surfing then build around that.\u00a0 If your passion is fitness, and another guy\u2019s passion is cannibalism, you probably wouldn\u2019t take his advice.. Agreed?\u00a0 OK, I am being sarcastic & silly, but stay with me.\u00a0<\/p>\n
So if you work a full time job, are a genuine person, and have normal friends, how do you expect to take life advice from some pretentious dude who has never held a normal job in his life and doesn\u2019t have any normal friends?\u00a0 It\u2019s f*cking crazy.\u00a0<\/p>\n
There are tons of people out there trying to brag to you about how much their life is better than yours, and they usually do it by placing a \u201cProject\u201d in front of everything.\u00a0 Here is what I have learned: People who are really enjoying their life don\u2019t make it a point to announce it on the Internet under the guise of guru-ship.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
They just enjoy it. So, I say, do the same.\u00a0 I say, enjoy your passions with your friends and expand your social circles.\u00a0 If I see a person spouting off quotes from famous self-help gurus and their best selling books, I know immediately that\u2019s an imbalanced person.\u00a0 Anyone who is obsessed with quoting Tony Robbins, Wayne Dyer and Stephen Covey 25 times a day is still trying to find his\/her way.\u00a0<\/p>\n
So somewhere between the pretentious dude and his project-wannabe Rock star, and the walking self help guru quoting parrot, there are maybe a bunch of people who can get together on a Sunday afternoon, have a bbq, watch a ball game, play some softball and have a few laughs in the company of good friends.\u00a0<\/p>\n
They\u2019ve learned to enjoy their favorite hobbies with their favorite people. (Their friends.)<\/p>\n
\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Miraculously, somehow they\u2019ve figured out the elusive answer to the mysterious conundrum f discovering \u201cLife Style.\u201d\u00a0 Maybe it\u2019s because they told the people with the \u201cProject-Houses, cities, and states\u201d to \u201cProject f*ck themselves.\u201d\u00a0 That\u2019s just a hunch.\u00a0 What do I know.\u00a0<\/p>\n
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<\/a>Lots of guys come to the \u201cPick Up\u201d scene to learn to be better with girls.\u00a0 That\u2019s fair.\u00a0<\/p>\n