{"id":2542,"date":"2011-03-15T07:00:35","date_gmt":"2011-03-15T14:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=2542"},"modified":"2011-03-13T17:05:47","modified_gmt":"2011-03-14T00:05:47","slug":"letter-from-blog-reader","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2011\/03\/15\/letter-from-blog-reader\/","title":{"rendered":"Letter from Blog Reader"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Blog reader Inquires about Archetype, and Hates Cocky Funny<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Dear Cameron-<\/p>\n<p>To be honest, I found your blog by mistake when I was searching for  answers about why women flake.\u00a0 Google  brought me to your blog and  while I didn&#8217;t like (or rather didn&#8217;t wish  to believe) your response, I  kept reading and am very glad I did.\u00a0 The  reason I wasn&#8217;t responsive  at first was my own frustration and being  tired of being rejected, and  your content forced me to accept that it is  what it is and there isn&#8217;t a  grand conspiracy of women trying to make  me fail.<\/p>\n<p>Your blog has given me a huge number of answers, and restored a  lot  of my confidence.\u00a0 I fell specifically for David D&#8217;s materials, but  I  kept returning them once I kept hearing non-answers in his programs,   plus I HATED cocky funny.<\/p>\n<p>I haven&#8217;t bought your program yet, but I intend to sometime in the   future.\u00a0 I&#8217;m fascinated by the different personality types especially   with your post on the Myer-Briggs test.\u00a0 My result was &#8220;INTJ &#8211; The   Scientist&#8221; which I suspect many of your readers to be.\u00a0 My question for   you is that since I believe that many (if not most) of your readers are   &#8220;INTJ&#8221; would you write more blog posts on the personality   types\u00a0(or\u00a0archetypes)\u00a0that would relate well with &#8220;INTJ&#8221;?<\/p>\n<p>I was  fascinated with your\u00a0series on the party chick, but I think  you&#8217;re too  focused on this archetype.\u00a0 If that&#8217;s what your audience  wants, then  that&#8217;s your call, but I&#8217;m voicing my opinion here. \u00a0 I also  have a question for me personally.\u00a0 Reading through I  believe that the  personality I&#8217;d like best in a woman is &#8220;ENFJ &#8211; The  Giver&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>My second question to you is where can I find this\u00a0personality  (or  your equivalent archetype) of woman?\u00a0 My biggest problem is that I  feel  comfortable with women, I&#8217;m hardly afraid to ask them out, I just  need  to MEET more of them.\u00a0 I&#8217;m a home body, I hate going to bars and  clubs  to meet women, and I really don&#8217;t want to waste my time dating  women I  know I wouldn&#8217;t connect with.<\/p>\n<p>I admit, I&#8217;m looking for a  relationship because it&#8217;s been awhile for  me, and I&#8217;d like to get  involved with someone of quality.\u00a0 I read your  <strong>&#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/01\/13\/the-casino-of-dating\/\" target=\"_blank\">Casino of Dating<\/a>&#8220;<\/strong> post which was  brilliant and I&#8217;d love to throw some house  parties, but I&#8217;d like to find  where an ENFJ woman would hang around so I  can invite them.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve only  met one in recent memory, so it&#8217;s tricky for me to tell.\u00a0  Obviously  there wouldn&#8217;t be a  &#8220;meeting place&#8221; for women that are  givers (ENFJ), but I just wish to  know more on how to spot them.\u00a0 Even  if you wrote a piece about this  type of woman, I&#8217;d be incredibly  grateful.\u00a0I&#8217;d like more information on  this subject Cam, and I know you  won&#8217;t dissapoint.<\/p>\n<p>Your loyal fan, -Ben<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>Hey Ben,<\/p>\n<p>Thanks for the very honest and sincere letter. \u00a0\u00a0I am glad Google pointed you the right way. Lol<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re correct in your assessment of my articles.\u00a0 There are probably a number of articles on Party Chicks and how to get those type of chicks.\u00a0 That\u2019s the type most blog readers struggle with, and it\u2019s the type of woman most commonly found in nightclubs and bars.\u00a0 I\u2019ve gotten request\/emails from quite a few different guys to write about the type of girls who are actually WORTH dating and so the next article is going to cover one such particular type.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know that it\u2019ll specifically discuss the \u201cENFJ\u201d personality type but I\u2019ll discuss a type of woman I\u2019ll dub as \u201cNurturers and Givers.\u201d\u00a0 \u00a0You may not like going to bars and clubs, and the amazing thing is, neither does this archetype.<\/p>\n<p>After the next article, you\u2019ll have a good understanding of the type, and you\u2019ll know when you have met one. \u00a0There are behavioral and conversational clues that once you know are so obvious, you\u2019ll probably think, \u201cWow, why didn\u2019t I notice that before!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Thanks for reading the blog, and spread the word regarding it when you can.<\/p>\n<p>Cameron<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"aligncenter\" href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenanywhere.com\/ebook.shtml\" target=\"_blank\"> Building Attraction Secrets Ebook<\/a><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Blog reader Inquires about Archetype, and Hates Cocky Funny . 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