{"id":2555,"date":"2011-03-20T06:00:14","date_gmt":"2011-03-20T13:00:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=2555"},"modified":"2011-07-10T19:03:44","modified_gmt":"2011-07-11T02:03:44","slug":"female-archetype-nurturers-givers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2011\/03\/20\/female-archetype-nurturers-givers\/","title":{"rendered":"Female Archetype &#8211; Nurturers , Givers"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>How to identify Nurturing type of Women<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>A number of blog readers have written asking for more articles regarding girls who are suitable for relationships.\u00a0 Questions regarding, \u201c<em><strong>How to get a girlfriend<\/strong><\/em>,\u201d and \u201cWhere to meet girls who are girlfriend-types\u201d and knowing how to vibe with them.<\/p>\n<p>In the past, I\u2019ve written extensively on certain female archetypes.\u00a0 You may have read my article on \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/02\/24\/how-archetypes-affect-your-dating-success-part-1\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Female Archetypes &#8211; Alpha Females<\/strong><\/a>\u201d and \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/09\/11\/definitive-post-on-party-girls-part-2\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Female Archetypes &#8211; Party Chicks.<\/strong><\/a>\u201d\u00a0\u00a0 I\u2019ve probably written the most on \u201cParty chicks\u201d which is the archetype that is toughest to grasp for the average blog readers which consists of intellectual dudes.\u00a0 They\u2019re also the ones most often encountered in bars, pub, and nightclubs.<\/p>\n<p>This article is going to take a turn in the opposite direction as it pertains more towards nurturing\/giving type of women. So let\u2019s get to it.<\/p>\n<p>&gt;&gt;&gt;How do you distinguish if you\u2019ve met this type?<\/p>\n<p>This will come with a bit of experience. As you interact with a lot of women, you\u2019ll see common behavioral patterns and common values exhibited by similar types.\u00a0 The nurturing\/emotionally giving type usually exhibits a happier disposition.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Genuine Happiness:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You\u2019ll normally observe that they\u2019re genuinely happier people and they portray that glee.\u00a0 They\u2019re apt to react more emotionally to situations than other female archetypes.\u00a0 Often times, you may observe that they seem to have some sort of a creative and artistic outlet.\u00a0 They might not be musicians but they may play a guitar, or write, or recite poetry.<\/p>\n<p>Being more emotional people, they have that need for a creative outlet and you\u2019ll note that in your interactions.\u00a0 Again, be aware that just because a woman plays a guitar, it does not mean she is this particular type.\u00a0 It\u2019s more a combination of behavioral patterns that are common to this type.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Family Ties:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Family relationships.\u00a0 Another common trend is that they have very close family ties.\u00a0 They\u2019re close to their parents, aunts, uncles, and such.\u00a0 For instance, it\u2019s not uncommon to look through their facebook profiles and notice them proudly displaying photos of themselves with nieces and\/or nephews.<\/p>\n<p>During you conversations, you\u2019ll hear common trends,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cI was just talking to my aunt last weekend, she is so awesome, anyway she was telling me that\u2026\u2026\u2026.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Again, whether their nurturing personality is a predisposition or cause of a close family upbringing remains to be examined.\u00a0 I certainly believe it does make a difference.\u00a0 Human beings who feel they\u2019ve been loved are far more likely to return that love to others.\u00a0 ( My observations.)<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Social Conscientiousness :<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This archetype tends to exhibit a conscientious pattern regarding social issues.\u00a0 You\u2019ll also come to realize this in your interactions.\u00a0 Whether it\u2019s social, political, or environmental, they\u2019ll show concern for their surrounding world.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll give you an example.\u00a0 A few months ago, I was walking out of a supermarket where a girl approached me to ask if I wanted to donate money to her organization.\u00a0 I came to find out she was representing \u201c<em>Amnesty International<\/em>\u201d and was very passionate in discussing human rights violations in various parts of the world.\u00a0 She even talked me into giving her a $20 donation for the cause.\u00a0 (No, it wasn\u2019t because I was\u00a0 hitting on her, for the smart-asses out there.)<\/p>\n<p>Now, you have to realize the sort of dedication it takes to stand outside a supermarket and solicit money for a cause.\u00a0 You\u2019re essentially cold-approaching strangers for hours a day for very little pay. It takes a certain animal to do that\u2026. You have to be really motivated and passionate about the cause that you believe in to volunteer or work for low pay to solicit strangers for money for your organization.<\/p>\n<p>Chances are you may have come across people like this at some point.\u00a0 Whether it was in high school, college or a cocktail party, you have interacted with such persons in your life.\u00a0 Think about the tendencies of that individual.<\/p>\n<p>Are these the perfect people?\u00a0 No, not at all.\u00a0 While this type of woman makes for a good girlfriend, sometimes you may run into a few bumps in the road.\u00a0 For example, you may find that they react more emotionally to things that are not \u201cThat big of a deal\u201d to you.\u00a0 They may want you to care about their social\/political concerns and sometimes they may sport a bit of a \u201cHippy\u201d vibe in \u00a0that they don\u2019t get dolled up and dress to impress.<\/p>\n<p>OK, I\u2019m not insinuating that they\u2019re slobs but just that they may not be decked out in the latest fashion as they make a run to the grocery store to purchase a few items.\u00a0 It\u2019s important to understand both sides.<\/p>\n<p>So now, let\u2019s assume you were dating such a girl.\u00a0 What\u2019s the difference between this type and a less nurturing type?<\/p>\n<p>Well, let\u2019s also assume you just got the flu.\u00a0 Upon hearing that info, some types will say, \u201cSorry to hear that!\u00a0 I hope you feel better! I\u2019ll talk to you then.\u201d\u00a0 Other types will offer to come over and bring Chicken Soup.\u00a0 The nurturing\/giving type is the latter.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Where to meet such girls:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>It\u2019s probably tougher to meet this type that say, party girls.\u00a0 The nurturing\/giving types are not bar-flys.\u00a0 They\u2019re not ones to frequent nightclubs constantly, and when they do, they\u2019re going to be more guarded and defensive in that particular environment (and for good reason.)<\/p>\n<p>Your best bet is to find them at activities that they\u2019d have a vested interest in as well.\u00a0 This will inevitably vary based on the culture, country and even the size of the town you live in.\u00a0 Naturally, Some place are going to offer more in the way of activities than others.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Attracting this type:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Always remember that the fundamentals I explain in detail in my Ebook, <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenanywhere.com\/ebook.shtml\" target=\"_blank\">Building Attraction Secrets<\/a><\/em>, will apply. Being interesting, conveying your personality through stories, proper body language, leading, tonality, and having fun will always apply regardless of which archetype you meet.<\/p>\n<p>As an example, let\u2019s take the girl standing outside the supermarket asking for donations to the \u201cAmnesty International\u201d organizations. \u00a0In fact, let\u2019s take it to an absurd level.\u00a0 Let\u2019s assume she was raising funds for \u201cSave The Hamster Foundation.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0 You walk by and notice this and think to yourself, \u201cWow, I thought I was the only one!\u00a0 I LOVE to save hamsters too!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>You may believe in her cause wholeheartedly and be completely excited that you\u2019ve met someone who is a like-minded individual.\u00a0 You still have to be aware of conversational dynamics.\u00a0 This means you can\u2019t spend 15 minutes just talking about this one particular topic and think that now you are a lock to go on a spectacular date.<\/p>\n<p>This is the mistake most men make: they\u2019ll spend 20 minutes discussing how to save hamsters but outside of that one commonality, they don\u2019t establish any connection or personal\u00a0 information.<\/p>\n<p>Having read my ebook, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenanywhere.com\/ebook.shtml\" target=\"_blank\">Building Attraction Secrets<\/a>, \u00a0you know that you\u2019d be best served to share a couple of humorous anecdotes about yourself, find out more about her, have a little fun, and have her invest some information regarding herself besides discussing the organization she is volunteering for.<\/p>\n<p>You also would be aware of a multitude of key dynamics that are by now second nature to you, such as:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Flirting properly,<\/li>\n<li>Leading the interaction (In all 3 ways)<\/li>\n<li>Creating Sexual tension &amp; teasing<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>The goal of this article is to provide with a glimpse one particular archetype of girls you will inevitably come across in life.\u00a0 Depending on YOUR personality, this type may or may not be for you.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if you were the stereotypical dumb jock athlete from a teen movie, you probably will not connect with this type.\u00a0 I am not saying it\u2019s impossible, but it\u2019s just unlikely that these personalities will hit it off.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019d also know that this is a more sensitive type of person, so you had best be prepared to deal with sentimental type issues.\u00a0 If she gives you a Christmas card, and you throw it away a few weeks after Christmas, there are going to be hurt feelings involved.<\/p>\n<p>To you, it was a simple card, and once Christmas was over, there was no point in keeping it.\u00a0 To her, it represented emotional investment and sentimental value and she won\u2019t understand or grasp how you could discard it 3 weeks later.\u00a0 These are the type of potential \u00a0issues you may run into while dating this type. \u00a0\u00a0They\u2019re not deal-breakers, but rather, just things to be aware of.<\/p>\n<p>Other caveats:\u00a0 If you\u2019re not a family person, it\u2019s not going to be a good fit in the long run.\u00a0 If you\u2019re the type that doesn\u2019t like to play with kids, or doesn\u2019t want to go to a big family Thanksgiving dinner, it\u2019s going to cause issues.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Recap of Nurturing Women Archetypes<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>So let\u2019s do a recap of what I just went over:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Emotionally giving\/ Nurturer Archetype<\/li>\n<li>Very Likely Artistic in nature<\/li>\n<li>Usually have some sort of artistic\/creative outlet (music, drawing, etc\u2026)<\/li>\n<li>More sensitive than your average woman<\/li>\n<li>Come across as genuinely happy persons often<\/li>\n<li>Usually exhibit a warm pleasant demeanor when meeting them,<\/li>\n<li>They\u2019re close to family<\/li>\n<li>In routine conversations, They\u2019ll often bring up family, Aunts\/Uncles,\u00a0 nieces\/nephews, etc.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t respond well to over-the-top cocky macho approaches by men. (It doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t like masculine men.)<\/li>\n<li>When approaching this type, be masculine, just the cut the machismo and bravado down a bit.<\/li>\n<li>Often can be overly sensitive in dating\/relationship situations. (Reference Christmas card story above)<\/li>\n<li>This over sensitivity could result in some drama in the relationship at time<\/li>\n<li>Usually socially\/politically Conscientiousness on some level.<\/li>\n<li>If you asked them their dreams, there is always something in there to want to improve the world (even if it is saving hamsters\u2026.)<\/li>\n<li>Making a difference is important to them.<\/li>\n<li>More difficult to find in loud nightclubs\/bars.\u00a0 They don\u2019t frequent such places often.<\/li>\n<li>Usually have a good circle of friends around them, (in my experience.)<\/li>\n<li>Low drama factor usually (Barring the over sensitivity)<\/li>\n<li>More sentimental<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In conclusion, I&#8217;d like to (as I&#8217;ve often done) emphasize the key point of practicality.\u00a0 Memorizing a bunch of information is not going to be making the best use of your resources.\u00a0 Instead, you&#8217;ll be better off learning a few things you can actually apply in your interactions.\u00a0 For example, you&#8217;re at a casual social gathering and you meet a <em>warm and receptive girl <\/em>who within the first 15 minutes of conversation mentions<em> family, a creative outlet and some sort of a social\/political cause <\/em>she cares about.\u00a0 You also notice that she seems to have good friends whom she&#8217;s known for quite a few years.<\/p>\n<p>.<br \/>\nHaving read my article, you know that chances are pretty good she fits the mold of the archetype I just described.\u00a0 Having read my ebook, you also have a decent basic understanding of how to present your best self to attract her.\u00a0 You also know that if you don&#8217;t click well with overly emotional people, you&#8217;ll have issues later on.\u00a0 On that same note, you also know that if you&#8217;re at a point where you&#8217;re looking to get a girlfriend or a long-term mate, this particular person may be a pretty good candidate.<\/p>\n<p>I provide the information.\u00a0 You apply it.\u00a0 It&#8217;ll get you results.<\/p>\n<p>Cameron<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How to identify Nurturing type of Women . 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