{"id":2581,"date":"2011-10-23T15:19:47","date_gmt":"2011-10-23T22:19:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=2581"},"modified":"2011-10-23T15:27:42","modified_gmt":"2011-10-23T22:27:42","slug":"is-she-girlfriend-worthy-here-is-a-test","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2011\/10\/23\/is-she-girlfriend-worthy-here-is-a-test\/","title":{"rendered":"Is She Girlfriend Worthy? Here is a test."},"content":{"rendered":"

The Girl Friend \u2013 Worthy Test.\u00a0 Is She Worth Keeping?<\/span><\/h1>\n

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As you gain experience dating different types of girls, you\u2019ll come to quickly find that some are really worth keeping around and a whole lot of them will fall into the proverbial \u201cDime a Dozen\u201d category.<\/p>\n

Thus, naturally, as you interact with enough girls, you will undoubtedly observe that they fall into certain types archetypes who follow very similar patterns.\u00a0 You\u2019ll come to naturally understand what these patterns are, and will recognize them subconsciously.\u00a0 You\u2019ll also devise methods to help you recognize what\/whom you\u2019re dealing with.\u00a0 Many people do this subconsciously without ever being aware of it.\u00a0 I just happen to enjoy deconstructing these subconscious patterns of force.<\/p>\n

Remember the great film I recommended titled, \u201cA Bronx Tale?<\/em>\u201d\u00a0 In that film, Sonny had devised his \u201cDoor Test.<\/em>\u201d\u00a0 It was a test to seek an individual\u2019s propensity to want to contribute and give back.\u00a0\u00a0 From that, Sonny concluded if she was a keeper.<\/p>\n

I have the Vegas Test<\/em>.\u00a0 It\u2019s designed to figure out if a girl is worth having a relationship with.\u00a0 Would she make a good girlfriend for me?<\/p>\n

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Introducing the Vegas Test:<\/span><\/h2>\n

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At some point, during a lengthy conversation, the topic of Vegas will come up.\u00a0 It\u2019s not posed some sort of a quiz, but it\u2019s more of a casual mention.\u00a0 The reaction to this tells me what I want to know.\u00a0 And sometimes her reaction to going to Las Vegas is:<\/p>\n

\u201cOH MY GOSH!\u00a0\u00a0 Oh my gosh!\u00a0 You don\u2019t understand!\u00a0 I love Vegas!\u00a0 I really really love Vegas.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cue in the violin.\u00a0 It\u2019s all over.\u00a0 That\u2019s a girl that\u2019s not suited to be a girlfriend.\u00a0 Perhaps, better cue in the old catchy Roxette song.\u00a0 \u201cIt must have been love\u2026 but it\u2019s over now\u2026..\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

OK, silly sentimental pop songs aside, the Vegas test is a very serious matter.\u00a0 \u00a0OK, it\u2019s not so much a case of that one particular statement being the definitive answer, but it\u2019s more so a case of this being the final straw.\u00a0 It\u2019s the final clue in a series of tell-tale signs.\u00a0 It\u2019s the proverbial icing on the cake.\u00a0 I really don\u2019t like that clich\u00e9, but don\u2019t have a better one right this moment.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t claim the Vegas test to be infallible or a 100% accurate. \u00a0\u00a0However, I will add this:\u00a0 The Vegas test has never failed.<\/p>\n

Nope, not even once.\u00a0 If ever I\u2019ve come across a girl who has broken into a frenzy over Vegas, it\u2019s always proven to be that she is not worth pursuing.\u00a0 Just as importantly, any girl I\u2019ve ever come across worth keeping has never had that reaction. In fact, her reaction has been quite the opposite.<\/p>\n

What reaction are we talking about, and to what?<\/p>\n

This is not about a couple\u2019s getaway for a romantic interlude or a boyfriend girlfriend trip.\u00a0 We\u2019re talking about groups of girls who cannot wait to arrange a weekend to Vegas.\u00a0 This is the type that can\u2019t wait to go to \u201cclub rehab\u201d in the summer time at the Hard Rock and if they live in Southern California, they probably attempt to arrange several trips a year.<\/p>\n

Upon hearing the news that there may be a potential weekend trip to Vegas, they\u2019ll almost break into a full fledged seizure, and quite possibly an impromptu rendition of the Safety Dance<\/em>.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve never seen this, you\u2019re in a for a treat!\u00a0 Feast your eyes on this incredible video\u2026..<\/p>\n

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Spectacular visual feast:\u00a0 Creepy English guy dressed like a fruitcake trying to look tough while running in the field with a pirate shirt tossing dwarfs, while other villagers, hobbits, elves, gremlins and ghouls jump for joy.\u00a0 They\u2019re All doing the safety dance (and a song that will be stuck in your head for the rest of the day!)<\/p>\n

The concept of this video is amazing.\u00a0 You could round up a group of 100 stoners and potheads, provide them with the finest LSD and \u201cMagic shrooms\u201d, and yet not be able to come up with something so bizarre and random.<\/p>\n

Plus I never quite gathered or deduced whose safety this dance was for.\u00a0 Was it for his safety?\u00a0 Or was it for the safety of villagers?\u00a0 Maybe it was a cleverly coded method for identifying drunk carriage drivers in the olden days?\u00a0\u00a0 Not to mention that the entire Safety Dance is just ONE move, as depicted in the freeze frame at exactly 1:25 into the video.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t get over the serious look and game face determination of the lead singer as he marches for the Safety Dance.\u00a0 It\u2019s as though he is leading the Civil Rights movement in the 1960s.<\/p>\n

Yes, his resolve is that strong and at first glance, that glare of determination makes you think he really is marching for a cause until you zoom out to see he is being followed by elves, clowns and gremlins. \u00a0Perhaps it\u2019s the Safety Dance is to ensure the safe passage of these mutants?<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get back to the Vegas test.\u00a0 Needless to say, I could write an entire article on my fascination with this video, but I digress.<\/p>\n

Wait a minute, why isn\u2019t the Safety Dance video in the Smithsonian museum as the most amazing random compilation of shit ever assembled? \u00a0Why haven\u2019t cultural preservationists taken notice?<\/p>\n

OK, seriously, back to the article.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s safe to say (couldn\u2019t resist the Pun, sorry), that if the girl LOVES Vegas and breaks into the safety dance, or any other dance, you\u2019re looking at someone who is not a keeper.<\/p>\n

(OK, if a girl really actually broke into doing the Safety dance in Public, she may be a keeper just for the entertainment value.)<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not the only test, but it\u2019s usually a myriad of signals by the time you get to the Vegas question.. This last point just happens to be the big finale.\u00a0 This is the Fat-Man equivalent of \u201cNot good relationship material\u201d Signal.\u00a0 [Fat-man was atomic bombed dropped on Nagasaki]\u00a0 If that\u2019s too harsh, think of it as more a B-52 bomber carpet bombing an entire area.<\/p>\n

Why is it such a big deal to like Vegas so much, someone may ask?\u00a0\u00a0 After all, people have various hobbies, likes, and dislikes.\u00a0 This is true, and that behavior reflects back on an individual\u2019s personality.<\/p>\n

For example, if you knew a grown adult who enjoyed torturing and mutilating animals for no apparent reason, you\u2019d probably think he wasn\u2019t all together upstairs.\u00a0 If you had children, you probably wouldn\u2019t want to leave them alone with a guy like that, I\u2019d assume.<\/p>\n

The same representation of behavioral cues in reaction to various stimuli tell us a lot about a person\u2019s trigger points and modus operandi<\/span>. Vegas lovers of the aforementioned type are normally massive external stimulus junkies.\u00a0 They do anything to get attention, be it positive or negative.\u00a0\u00a0 You can read the full analysis of stimulus junkies here:<\/p>\n

Toxic Personalities in Dating: The Sole External Validation Seeker<\/a><\/p>\n

Going one step beyond that, we get to core values.\u00a0 Remember that this is the key component for being able to peg someone.\u00a0 CORE VALUES Trump everything else.\u00a0 How did Christopher Reeves\u2019 Superman get the best of Lex Luther in Superman II?\u00a0 He took a huge gamble, but he was banking on Lex Luther\u2019s core values being greed when it\u2019s all said and done.<\/p>\n

Similarly, you can count that a Vegas lover\u2019s core values are superficial external stimuli above all else<\/span> and that\u2019s a recipe for a disaster in a relationship.\u00a0 (As it relates to my core values.)<\/p>\n

Anyhow, if you needed to know the actual reason, there you have it.\u00a0 If the pseudo-intellectual mumbo jumbo bores you, please go back and watch the Safety Dance video a second (or 10th<\/sup>) time.\u00a0 Clear your head, come back and resume from this point.<\/p>\n

A Vegas loving dude and woman may coexist well in some bizarre way, but that\u2019s not my really my concern.\u00a0 Which brings me to another point: This is NOT gender specific.\u00a0 It applies to MEN as well.<\/p>\n

If my female friend or cousin is looking to have a meaningful relationship\/boyfriend and the guy can\u2019t wait to pack a trip to \u201cRehab\u201d at the Hardrock, I\u2019d tell her the same thing.\u00a0 Forget about it. He ain\u2019t a keeper. (By the way, I\u2019m talking someone more mature than 21 year-olds just figuring out what they want to do.)<\/p>\n

So devise your own tests.\u00a0 I shared one of mine.\u00a0 It\u2019s the Vegas test, and as I mentioned, it has never failed.\u00a0 Even when I thought that it may have failed in case of a friend who was dating someone, months later, it still proved to be accurate.<\/p>\n

The Vegas test works extremely well for me because it\u2019s close to Southern California.\u00a0 Everyone here is all too familiar with Vegas.<\/p>\n

While the Vegas test may not tell me if a girl is a \u201cKeeper,\u201d it will definitely and unequivocally tell me whether she is NOT one very quickly.\u00a0\u00a0 Let’s be clear:\u00a0 There are various reasons why someone may not be a suitable mate for you.\u00a0 I’ve found the Vegas test to be an effective filter for one of those many reasons.<\/p>\n

By the way, I\u2019m very proud of this article.\u00a0 Not so much because of the well thought out, well explained, accurate and practical advice regarding if someone is girlfriend material, but more so that I was able to work in two non-sequitur 80s songs, Superman II, and analysis of the Safety Dance video\u00a0 into the article.<\/p>\n

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Cameron<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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