{"id":338,"date":"2009-02-24T05:19:09","date_gmt":"2009-02-24T12:19:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=338"},"modified":"2011-03-13T17:47:46","modified_gmt":"2011-03-14T00:47:46","slug":"how-archetypes-affect-your-dating-success-part-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/02\/24\/how-archetypes-affect-your-dating-success-part-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Female Archetypes &#8211; Alpha Females"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">How Archetypes Affect Your Dating Success, Part 1 [<em><strong>Alpha Females<\/strong><\/em>]<br \/>\n<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>One of\u00a0my most important moments of realization in dating dawned on me\u00a0when I started to gain an understanding of archetypes of women.\u00a0\u00a0 It is seemingly so simplistic in nature that it ought to be common sense. Perhaps somewhere deep inside, we&#8217;ve always been somewhat aware but never gave it much thought.\u00a0 Either way, people giving dating-advice don&#8217;t seem to teach it\u00a0and they definitely do not\u00a0talk about the specifics of it.\u00a0 I had to learn it on my own and I am going to share some of that with you.<\/p>\n<p>You too will have a moment of epiphany as well as relief\u00a0the\u00a0second you not only realize, but come to terms with the fact that your personality type will complement certain other personality types, and similarly, you&#8217;re not going to mesh well with\u00a0certain other\u00a0men\/women.<\/p>\n<p>In my last blog post, I talked about the cocky\/funny concepts and how it just may be killing your chances with women.\u00a0 If you haven&#8217;t read it, then take a few minutes to do that, and come back to this article in about 10 minutes.\u00a0 (You might want to do that now&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>If you have read it, then let&#8217;s tie in some of the concepts I&#8217;ve been discussing together to sort of crystallize the information so that you have a working visual model that you can imagine applying to your life. One of my favorite concepts in this entire field is the issue of personality Archetypes.\u00a0 So, let&#8217;s talk about the issue of cocky\/funny and how it relates to the issue of personality types.<\/p>\n<p>There are roughly about 10 various archetypes of women that a man is going to come across on a consistent basis, in my estimation.\u00a0 What are these 10 archetypes and what are their tendencies? Well, that deserves an entire body of work on its own as.\u00a0 However, to illustrate the how this concept manifests itself in real life, I am going to discuss a couple of them.<\/p>\n<p>Out of these 10 various archetypes, there are 2 particular archetypes of women that respond well to the over-the-top cocky funny commentary.\u00a0 The onus is on you to be able to distinguish the specific type of woman you&#8217;re interacting with.\u00a0 This generally referred to as Calibration in the seduction community.\u00a0 In layman&#8217;s terms, it simply means being able to read and gauge people and circumstances.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s take judgment out of this equation and just talk about the behavior and values of the two archetypes that respond to this form of behavior.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> First Archetype to discuss:\u00a0\u00a0 <strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">The Alpha-Female<\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>What and who is the Alpha Female?\u00a0 You&#8217;ll rarely encounter this archetype because, well, there simply aren&#8217;t that many of them around.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t let the categorization fool ya.\u00a0 Alpha-female is not meant to designate a female Rambo.\u00a0 Also, while it&#8217;s a fact of life that there are some women who try to act &#8220;Bossy&#8221; and there are women who act like snobs, neither one falls under the category of\u00a0 the Alpha Female.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>So, let us examine the<strong> Characteristics of the Alpha Female:<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Though usually the leader of the pack in female groups, you don&#8217;t often find them in such environments.\u00a0 Interestingly enough, in my experience and observation, Alpha females are usually NOT hanging around large groups of women.\u00a0 You&#8217;d never catch an alpha-female walking out of a club holding hands with another female friend.\u00a0 It&#8217;s just stuff you don&#8217;t see.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re normally very independent and furthermore, they&#8217;re very proud of their independence.\u00a0 <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Personal accomplishment is important to them<\/span>.\u00a0 They tend to have a decent amount of male friends.\u00a0 (Note that there is also the perpetual lush\/drunk bar chick archetype that seems to have a plethora of male friends and has slept with probably half of them, but that&#8217;s an entirely different archetype of woman, NOT to be mistaken for the alpha female.\u00a0 Again, we&#8217;ll focus on deconstructing that archetype&#8217;s\u00a0values\/behavior on another day.)<\/p>\n<p>Back to Alpha Females: They&#8217;re usually physical, have good physiques and enjoy\u00a0 what&#8217;d normally be considered &#8220;Guy activities,&#8221; be it hitting the gym hard, riding motorcycles, hiking, \u00a0and etc&#8230;\u00a0 This does not however mean that they&#8217;re not feminine.\u00a0 Quite contrary, despite their rough exterior, they can be very feminine and enjoy &#8220;Girly Girl&#8221; things as well.\u00a0 Unfortunately, this is the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">mistake<\/span> most men make: They don&#8217;t understand that these are actually women who are also proud of being very feminine and still look to the man to lead.\u00a0 They&#8217;re not lesbians nor are they bull-dykes.\u00a0 (Is there a more politically correct way of explaining a bull-dyke?)<\/p>\n<p>Anyhow, to ensure no one misconstrues what I am describing here, Rosie O&#8217;Donnell is NOT an alpha female.\u00a0 On the other hand, Gina Carano very\u00a0likely is.\u00a0 (She is a female MMA Fighter who has gained some fame as of the past few years.\u00a0 Featured below are two photographs of her.)<br \/>\n.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-340\" src=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/02\/blogcaranobox.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"275\" height=\"204\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-341\" src=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/02\/blogcaranofem-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/02\/blogcaranofem-200x300.jpg 200w, http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/02\/blogcaranofem.jpg 217w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Notice the dichotomy between the photos!\u00a0 The polarity of the &#8220;Masculine&#8221; activity (and it doens&#8217;t get much more masculine than cage-fighting) versus the very classical\u00a0very sexy feminine look on the right.\u00a0 You will\u00a0observe that quite often with this type, as I described earlier.<\/p>\n<p>They do respond to guy-humor which means they get &#8220;Harsh&#8221; humor and making fun of your buddies with over the top sarcasm.\u00a0 This is not to advocate that you go up and blatantly insult them.\u00a0 It&#8217;s that they appreciate what is referred to as, &#8220;Guy Humor.&#8221;\u00a0 You can get away with jokes you wouldn&#8217;t otherwise pull off with other women.\u00a0 To give you a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">concrete <\/span>example:\u00a0 This is the type of woman who&#8217;d watch Adam Sandler&#8217;s &#8220;<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><em>I now pronounce you Chuck and Larry<\/em><\/span>&#8221; flick\u00a0 and laugh outloud with you.\u00a0 (A movie which a lot of women don&#8217;t seem to generally like very much.)<\/p>\n<p>The downside is that they can also be stubborn, a bit hardheaded and need a little bit of &#8220;their own space.&#8221;\u00a0 They ARE\u00a0affectionate, but they&#8217;re not clingy.\u00a0 If you&#8217;re easily intimidated, you&#8217;re probably not going to get along well with this type.\u00a0 Also, if you expect a woman to follow your every wish and command, you&#8217;re probably not going to get along well with this type.\u00a0 If you expect a woman who is going to look to you for every decision in her life, you and this type will NOT get along.\u00a0 Again, they do have that <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">pride<\/span> element and being independent is important to them.<\/p>\n<p>Another pattern I&#8217;ve noticed is that they usually have a very good and positive relationships with their fathers or bigger brothers.\u00a0 The issue of whether this happened because of a genetic predisposition or because of their upbringing deserves more attention.\u00a0 I am not really sure if it&#8217;s a matter of causation or correlation; Probably a bit of both.\u00a0 Obviously, being more athletic and participating in sports, they probably bonded better with their fathers and bigger brothers easier.<\/p>\n<p>Generally, they&#8217;re very attracted to men who have a masculine vibe and very turned off by a feminine vibe from a man.\u00a0 Of note, they&#8217;re usually fun to hang out with, and I can attest that they are normally REALLYYYY good in bed.<\/p>\n<p>Some of this may seem confusing at first, but if you read the above a second time, you&#8217;re going to grasp what I am talking about.\u00a0 If you&#8217;re the type of woman I just discussed, you&#8217;re probably reading this article\u00a0&amp; \u00a0thinking, <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">&#8220;<em>Wow, it&#8217;s like you&#8217;ve known me all my life.&#8221;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve gone out with a few such girls, and it seems like we usually hit it off pretty quickly.\u00a0\u00a0This is one of my favorite archetypes of girls to date, fun, proud\u00a0with low drama factor.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0And then there are also certain other\u00a0archetypes that I don&#8217;t really get along with very well.\u00a0 Our personalities just don&#8217;t match and you&#8217;ll find the same for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">So a quick recap of Alpha-Females:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul type=\"disc\">\n<li>Strong, Independent, Not seen in large female groups normally.<\/li>\n<li>Tend to be more physical, enjoy &#8220;Guy&#8221; activities and humor, good in bed.<\/li>\n<li>Also somewhat stubborn and very proud. Care about their own\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">accomplishment.<\/span><\/li>\n<li>Like masculine men, turned off by feminine men.<\/li>\n<li>Normally, they have had \u00a0fantastic relationships with their fathers growing up.<\/li>\n<li>Tend to appreciate a direct-approach, mixed in with a touch of humor.<\/li>\n<li>Low drama factor<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Biggest mistake men make with this type:<\/p>\n<ul type=\"disc\">\n<li>Thinking that she is a lesbian, or that she doesn&#8217;t have a &#8220;Girly-girl&#8221; feminine side.<\/li>\n<li>Trying to beat around the bush regarding their intentions for too long.<\/li>\n<li>Trying hard to impress\u00a0using money, drugs, and parties&#8230;.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>How do you APPLY this information?<\/p>\n<p>So let&#8217;s say you actually came across a woman whom you believed to be of the mentioned archetype.\u00a0 (Or at least, that&#8217;s what your intuition\/gut told ya.)\u00a0 Having read this article, you know that a DIRECT-Approach would work well with her.\u00a0 You&#8217;d also know that she&#8217;d enjoy sarcasm.\u00a0 Furthermore, you&#8217;d know that if you are a bit effiminate, you most likely won&#8217;t have great chemistry.\u00a0 On the same token, you also know that if you&#8217;re the type who wants a lapdog to be commanded and follow you around one step behind, this type is definitely <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">not<\/span> for you.<\/p>\n<p>Knowing this information saves you from wasting time trying to make things work with girls you&#8217;re not naturally compatible, personality wise. It also provides a roadmap as to how to use the most effective method in\u00a0approaching them.<\/p>\n<p>OK, we are just getting started.\u00a0 I have a lot more information to share.\u00a0 For the moment, let&#8217;s recall that there is another archetype of woman that responds to sarcastic humor (and this type actually responds to the insult type humor as well).\u00a0 She has completely different tendencies and values.\u00a0 We&#8217;ll cover that one tomorrow&#8230;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Cameron<\/p>\n<p>PS.\u00a0 The articles on this blog will have a profound impact on your dating life.\u00a0 Please realize that they are supplementary and supporting material to what I discuss in my expanded work.\u00a0 Get a copy of my Ebook here: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenanywhere.com\/ebook.shtml\" target=\"_blank\">Building Attraction with Women<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomenanywhere.com\/audiocourse.shtml\"><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How Archetypes Affect Your Dating Success, Part 1 [Alpha Females] . 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