{"id":698,"date":"2009-04-27T12:49:04","date_gmt":"2009-04-27T19:49:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=698"},"modified":"2011-01-03T19:12:43","modified_gmt":"2011-01-04T02:12:43","slug":"developinghoning-your-edge","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/27\/developinghoning-your-edge\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Ways to Developing\/Honing Your Edge (Part 2)"},"content":{"rendered":"

3 Ways to create an Edge to attract girls!<\/span><\/h2>\n

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In the last Blog entry, I talked about how men who experience CONSISTENT results have an edge, so now let’s talk about you!<\/p>\n

Before I answer that question, I have to yet again remind you that everything I am telling is based on me making 1 assumption:\u00a0 That assumption is that you’re cool guy who is able to socialize with people, and you have some social intelligence (calibration.)\u00a0 Remember, without being cool first, the edge is meaningless.<\/p>\n

The first order of business is for you to do an honest self-assessment.\u00a0 What are you good at?\u00a0 What are your strong points?\u00a0 It could be something as simple as that you’re a physically handsome man or that you’ve always had a good sense of humor, and naturally made people around you laugh.<\/p>\n

The key is to not go against the grain.\u00a0 Allow me to illustrate through real life examples from back when I was teaching a lot of weekend workshops.<\/p>\n

I remember one workshop client who had a good sense of humor, but it was all dry humor. He was a funny guy, but when he approached women, he started spouting off routine stacks in a hyperactive manner with a gay\/effeminate sounding voice.\u00a0 His clear edge was his quirky personality and his dry sense of wit, and yet he had abandoned that in the name of “Game.” \u00a0He was actually working against himself.<\/p>\n

Another workshop student of mine was a good-looking guy with a pleasant sounding Scottish accent (probably due to the fact the actually was from Scotland). He had interesting stories, and had lived in various places such as Japan.\u00a0\u00a0 Clearly, he was a normal fun guy to talk to.\u00a0 Yet, I observed him approach girl with “Jealous Girlfriend” openers and dancing around. \u00a0 “Man, what the fuck are you doing?”\u00a0 I asked him.\u00a0 Good-looking guy with a Scottish accent who has interesting stories of traveling to various parts of the planet!\u00a0 That’s his edge.\u00a0 That’s what he needed to work on cultivating as his strong foot forward.\u00a0 Instead of conveying that, he is asking opinions about jealous girlfriends and telling dumb stories that don’t even match his personality..<\/p>\n

Take sometime to think about what you can work on that’d provide you with an ability to distinguish yourself a little bit.\u00a0 Let’s be clear: When I say distinguish yourself, I don’t mean that you have to stand out like a sore thumb or dress in fuzzy hats and fishnet shirts.<\/p>\n

Just being able to distinguish yourself a little bit from the rest of the crowd goes a long way.\u00a0 Yet more clarification: Distinguishing yourself is in no way implying that you ought to conduct\u00a0a “DHV” or “VHS” by doing a “Best Friends Test.”\u00a0 It has to be something that is a part of you.\u00a0 Something you can develop even further.\u00a0 Embrace it.\u00a0 Much like the Scottish guy, don’t chuck it away in order to spit out “Game” you read by some dating guru.\u00a0 Hone your own abilities. Your edge should be built around your core persona.<\/p>\n

One’s edge could come from a variety of sources.\u00a0 These generally fall into 3 broad categories<\/p>\n

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  1. Physically driven<\/strong><\/li>\n
  2. Personality Driven<\/strong><\/li>\n
  3. Lifestyle Driven<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Let’s assess these one at a time.<\/p>\n

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