{"id":87,"date":"2008-10-28T01:41:34","date_gmt":"2008-10-28T08:41:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=87"},"modified":"2011-01-13T17:14:39","modified_gmt":"2011-01-14T00:14:39","slug":"do-you-know-your-demographic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2008\/10\/28\/do-you-know-your-demographic\/","title":{"rendered":"Do you know YOUR demographic?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Do YOU Know Your Dating Demographic? <\/span><\/h2>\n

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Continuing on my path of discussing what most other dating coaches will not share with you, I am going\u00a0 to introduce the topic of demographics today.\u00a0 This is one of the deep dark secret that a lot of dating coaches won\u2019t touch with a damn ten foot pole, and after reading this article, some of them may even become very upset with me. \u00a0 Oh well, so be it.\u00a0 I think you deserve to have the best information that\u2019s going to help you become more successful with women. Obviously, you have to build develop your attributes and build a foundation.\u00a0 That goes without saying.\u00a0 Anything you EVER read from me assumes that you\u2019re taking steps on building your attributes.\u00a0 So, let\u2019s get to demographics\u2026<\/p>\n

As you go through your journey of learning “game,” inevitably you\u2019re going to start noticing that you click with certain types of girls and others you just have a hard time connecting with.\u00a0 This is going beyond looks.\u00a0 Truth of the matter is that not all \u201cHot women\u201d are models and actresses.\u00a0 There are \u201cHot women\u201d in all archetypes: artists, intellectuals, models, actresses, spiritualists, socialites, fashion students and so forth. Heck, there is even a rather well known female Mixed Martial artist these days who is incredibly attractive physically.<\/p>\n

Physically attractive women come in various categories and it\u2019s not just limited to models, strippers, or club skanks.\u00a0 Unfortunately, the dating advice you read would have you believe that girls outside these professions all look like they just fell down the Grand Canyon and hit every rock on the way to the bottom. (Wait, is club skank a profession?)<\/p>\n

Here is the deal: You can be so much more successful when you know your demographic and furthermore have the inner-confidence to be able to let go of the ones that you do not click with.\u00a0 This advice goes beyond getting laid. A lot of what I write about is having a sustainable relationship on some level.\u00a0 Whether you\u2019re just casually dating or seeing someone, you can sustain it on some level and enjoy being with that person. \u00a0SImply put: If you cannot enjoy spending time with that person, you can’t possibly sustain or (want to) sustain that relationship in any form.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s put judgment aside. \u00a0Look, you want to pull some skank from the local bar for a one night stand, then you do that.\u00a0 Hey, If you wanna hire a prostitute for one night and pay her a couple of hundred bucks to get some sex out of it, then that’s your choice.\u00a0 It\u2019s none of my business what you want to do with your life, time, and money.\u00a0 However, maybe at some point you decide that you want to meet quality women and the advice I write is geared towards meeting women who are worth your time. \u00a0Also, if you\u2019re reading my blog, it\u2019s probably because you do have some depth to your character.<\/p>\n

So start realizing your demographic.\u00a0 Have you ever thought about what type of women you want?\u00a0 Maybe you\u2019re a complete newbie to all of this in which case this may be a bit advanced for you.\u00a0 You have to focus on just talking to various women to become acclimated with the process of socializing.<\/p>\n

As I always say though, talk to enough women and you\u2019ll find very quickly that the majority of\u00a0 the women fall into general archetypes. You also know that I am a big believer in archetypes<\/span> and that\u2019s an issue I\u2019ll be writing more about in the upcoming months.<\/p>\n

There are all sorts of teachers\/gurus in this game and the really successful ones know their demographic.\u00a0 Let\u2019s examine this through examples.\u00a0 My friend, Steve P, is a metaphysical teacher so he connects extremely well with women who are into that realm as well.\u00a0 In fact, he LIKES girls in that demographic, because it means they\u2019ll get along well in the long run. \u00a0(The metaphysical field consists of various platforms: discussing chakra cleansing, past lives, energy fields, reading auras, remote viewing, talking about alternate dimensions, and so forth.)<\/p>\n

This is not a gimmick, nor is it a schtick because Steve believes strongly in this matter and he is a very sought-after teacher of metaphysical stuff.\u00a0 Thus, naturally, it makes perfect sense that he connects with this type of women. \u00a0 The relationship wouldn\u2019t really workout otherwise because they\u2019d be too far apart on their values.<\/p>\n

You have to understand that this is part of who he is and he knows what he likes.\u00a0 It\u2019s not a false persona put forth to impress women.\u00a0 It\u2019s simply being true to one\u2019s values.<\/p>\n

I recall seeing a video of a so called \u201cPick Up Artist\u201d doing a Spiritual Routine of Steve\u2019s in his futile attempt to give the impression that he is deep and intriguing.<\/p>\n

What happened? Well, the guy came across as very creepy to the girl because he was not congruent with that persona.\u00a0 Like I told him back then, \u201cDude, You are about as spiritual as Ice Cube.\u201d \u00a0 That particular hack aside, there are a lot of dating-teachers and gurus who teach methods that are best suited for the type of women they want.<\/p>\n

Another teacher I know feasts on cougars.\u00a0 He likes women between the ages of 38-45 who are down to get laid and don\u2019t want to go through the normal dating process.\u00a0 He doesn\u2019t want to date much either.\u00a0 He is not interested in walks on the beach, holding hands, or candle light dinners.\u00a0 His mating call is \u201cCome here cougar, let me hear you roar.\u201d\u00a0 So guess what?\u00a0 His game is designed for that demographic.<\/p>\n

So then, if what you seek is a woman in her 20s whom you want to date and do the \u201cCouple things\u201d together, the method of the cougar-hunter is probably not best suited for ya.\u00a0 Keep in mind:\u00a0 This does not mean that you cannot learn a few things from the cougar-hunter.\u00a0 You can learn a few good points but realize that his method\/system is not going to produce the type of results you want.<\/p>\n

How about another very famous \u201cPick Up Artist\u201d, Mystery, who is now on his second season on VH-1?\u00a0 Well, he likes the scantily dressed club girls.\u00a0 I remember having many a conversations with Mystery back in the day. \u00a0“Man, I want Stripper and porn-hot chicks\u201d he used to tell me.\u00a0 (Although if you look closely, a lot of \u201cHot\u201d porn women are more a product of their make-up and salon than their actual facial features, but that’s a bit irrelevant at the moment.) \u00a0 He even encouraged one of his girlfriends to become a stripper at one point.\u00a0 \u00a0 Again, it\u2019s his choice and he knows what he wants. \u00a0 His entire persona is designed for that.\u00a0 Dressing up like Dennis Rodman or some early 2000s \u201cDeep, Dark, and wounded\u201d rock star is just part of that persona.\u00a0 That\u2019s what he likes and he has developed the type of persona and \u201cMethod\u201d for that demographic.\u00a0 (Though he swears to me that his method is a solution for all men and women.)<\/p>\n

You have to find the demographic of women you click with, and the demographic you actually LIKE spending time with.<\/strong> It\u2019s similar to the business world.\u00a0 If you\u2019re producing a show for television, you have a demographic in mind.\u00a0 Example, your show may appeal to males between the ages of 18 and 44,\u00a0 or to housewives,\u00a0 or just a show for the stupid.\u00a0 Hey, the stupid are consumers too and they spend money so you have to cater to them as well.<\/p>\n

If you want to have sustained relationships, advertise to your market.\u00a0 Well, first figure out what type of women you like.\u00a0 If you want to date a doctor or a lawyer, dressing up in fishnet stalkings and talking about the photo of Britney Spears\u2019 crooked pussy while stepping out of a cab is probably not the best way to go.\u00a0 If you\u2019re going for a stripper, it\u2019s perfect.<\/p>\n

\u201cOh my gosh!\u00a0 Did you see that picture of Britney stepping out of the cab?\u00a0 Like what was she thinking?\u00a0 Oh, my\u2026.gosh.\u00a0 Did she do it on purpose?\u00a0 That was like\u2026.so\u2026. out there\u2026.\u201d<\/p>\n

Yes, this type of conversation DOES Work in certain circumstances.\u00a0 (And I have done it in the past.\u00a0 I am not fucking proud of it! What the heck else was I gonna talk about with that particular chick?\u00a0 So I resorted to the lowest common denominator which happened to be the photo of Britney\u2019s vagina.\u00a0 High school math came in handy.)<\/p>\n

The question is, what type of demographic do you get along with best?\u00a0 This is not about\u00a0sheer physical beauty.\u00a0 There will be attractive girls in all demographics as I mentioned in the beginning \u00a0 You\u2019re going to find very physically-attractive women in all areas: From the hot nerd\/bookworm to the artist, to the spiritual-new age\u00a0 woman to the Paris Hilton wannabe club chick.<\/p>\n

Every single person I\u2019ve come across who is successful with women has a particular demographic. They didn\u2019t sit there and consciously plan this.\u00a0 It just works out that way because certain type of personalities gravitate towards each other. Personality, lifestyle, culture are catalysts in this mater.\u00a0 I\u2019ve known guys who like South American girls and I\u2019ve known guys who like Asian \u201cFOBs.\u201d\u00a0 (That denotes \u201cFresh off the boat\u201d\u00a0 which refers to Asian girls who\u2019ve moved to the U.S recently.\u00a0 Obviously due to their culture, they possess a vastly different demeanor)\u00a0 Some guys like ambitious go-getter type women and some guys hunt down the insecure low-self esteem having women.<\/p>\n

They all work their demographics well.<\/p>\n

The real question is what kind of woman do you actually ENJOY spending time with?<\/p>\n

(Stay tuned for part 2 of the demographic-series.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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