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Understanding Why Women Flake<\/span><\/h2>\n

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Where do flakey women go?\u00a0 Understanding Flaking.<\/p>\n

I’ve got another gem for you today!\u00a0 It’s holiday weekend here in America, and this is my holiday gift to you guys, even if you live overseas (which quite a few of you do.)<\/p>\n

In a previous Blog entry, I discussed the reason as to why certain girls flake after\u00a0 being so interested in see you during the initial cold-approach interaction.\u00a0 You can find that blog entry here:\u00a0Emotion, Logic, Why women Flake, mixed with Zen<\/a><\/p>\n

What’s noteworthy is that Blog entry was written for a particular Archetype of woman.\u00a0 By no means does it apply to all women.\u00a0 So today we are going to talk about Why Flaking happens.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 It is a complicated subject.\u00a0 I don’t know that there is any one tactic to eliminate flaking; despite what Dating-gurus want to sell you in workshops. “Never have women flake again!” to me reads like “We are full of shit and we know it!”\u00a0 You can’t completely eradicate it through normal channels because certain type of people are flaky individuals.\u00a0 You can take steps to minimize it and that’s what we’re discussing today.<\/p>\n

A lot of it has to do with the archetype of woman you’re chatting with.\u00a0 Some girls are pretty much going to be in line with what they say and I can tell that the interaction is solid. But then there is that flakey personality type and man, these days, I can almost smell them.\u00a0 Any combination of traits and behavioral characteristics reveal their flakiness, including even their TONALITY!<\/p>\n

You interact with human beings long enough and you start recognizing patterns of behavior and trends and that people, men as well as women, fall into some general archetypes. And a lot of times you can recognize a flakey girls’ propensity towards that type of behavior.\u00a0 Her conversational threads, her sense of humor, her stories and yes, even tonality can give away the fact that she is flakey.<\/p>\n

It’s going to happen, and you can’t really become angry because it’s what they do.\u00a0 This is further compounded by the fickle nature of cold-approaching.\u00a0 I know the temptation may be to yell at someone or call them on being unreliable but you have to realize that you’re dealing with different value-systems.<\/p>\n

For example, you might be the type of person who values dependability.\u00a0 You may be reading this right now, and you might think of yourself as the sort of person who says what he\/she means, and does what he\/she says.\u00a0 Giving “your word” may be something you take seriously.\u00a0 Heck, some people take it to extremes.\u00a0 Talk to a stereotypical hardened military type about meeting him at 08:00, and if you show up, at 08:01, he is going to want to know why you’re late and irresponsible.\u00a0 “It’s just a minute” is not going to be a good enough response<\/p>\n

When dealing with party chicks, you’ll have to go approach the situation with the understanding that they have a different value system.\u00a0 They value social stimuli and social position.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0[PS. There is a\u00a0lengthy\u00a0Blog entry to come on\u00a0understanding Party Chicks.]\u00a0Interestingly enough what these girls respond to, is how their social position is affected.\u00a0\u00a0 Their attitude is very much similar to the high school girls you see in the movie “Mean Girls.”\u00a0\u00a0 (In fact, you should rent and watch that film.)<\/p>\n

Their social status and placement in the social totem pole is the most important thing in the universe for them.\u00a0 This is why Bouncers and club promoters have so much power to these girls.<\/p>\n

They could BLOCK the girl from going in the club where the popular roam inside.\u00a0 This is the new place to be seen and not being allowed entrance to such a place would severely decrease her place on that social totem pole.\u00a0 Such a travesty could not be allowed to happen. Actually, sometimes even standing in line is tantamount to social disaster.\u00a0 It’s the equivalent of telling an average person to go eat out of a garbage can with bums in the nearby corner.<\/p>\n

Guys who experience the least amount of “flakiness” with this archetype of woman are not guys who have “Tight Game” or “Cool routines” but rather, they’re the ones who have some say in influencing the popularity of that girl within her social bubble.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

By the way, part of this can be cultural as well.\u00a0 Having talked to guys who’ve lived in the far East, I can tell you that certain cultures have their own cultural dynamics.<\/p>\n

Then again, people who have the sale value system behave similarly.\u00a0 From what I understand, the importance of “Brand names” and labels are so important in places like Tokyo these days that they’d put the most superficial Beverly Hills girl to shame.<\/p>\n

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Where Do Girls Go When They Flake?<\/span><\/h2>\n