{"id":916,"date":"2009-05-28T01:40:10","date_gmt":"2009-05-28T08:40:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/?p=916"},"modified":"2011-01-03T18:46:52","modified_gmt":"2011-01-04T01:46:52","slug":"secret-of-the-naturals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/attractwomenanywhere.com\/blog\/2009\/05\/28\/secret-of-the-naturals\/","title":{"rendered":"Secret of the Naturals…."},"content":{"rendered":"

Dating Secrets of the Naturals <\/span><\/h2>\n

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There seems to be a mystery wrapped people who are labeled “Naturals.” What secrets do they know that the rest of men do not?\u00a0 What forbidden knowledge was passed down to them from the trees of dating prowess?<\/p>\n

What is a natural, you make ask.\u00a0 It simply refers to a guy who is generally pretty good at attracting women.\u00a0 He hadn’t really ever had too many dating issues and for this reason, he is dubbed a “Natural.”<\/p>\n

What system do the naturals use?\u00a0 Well, it’s a system that can be learned in about 10 minutes and once you learn it, you will have success with the hottest women in the planet 8 out of 10 times you approach them.\u00a0 Send me $99 and I will share with you what it is that they know.<\/p>\n

OK, seriously, what makes a natural? \u00a0(By the way,iIf you want to be bullshitted, go somewhere else. \u00a0Come back to my Blog when you’re tired of people bullshitting you.) \u00a0Back to our question: \u00a0What system do Naturals use? Some naturals have a good cognitive understanding of what they’re doing but in my experience, that is rare.<\/p>\n

Many guys who are dubbed “Naturals” have become good at meeting & attracting women through Pavlovian conditioning.\u00a0 It’s no different than the way a pet dog behaves on a daily basis.\u00a0 It knows that a certain pattern of sequences lead to certain results.<\/p>\n

For example, when a dog wants to go for a walk, he paws at the door.\u00a0 It’s a simple cause and affect.\u00a0 He knows that pawing at the door will get his owner to walk him.\u00a0 If that dog wants dinner, he’ll scratch his dinner bowl.\u00a0 He doesn’t know why, or how. \u00a0\u00a0He doesn’t know where the food comes from, or how the can of Alpo was made.\u00a0 He doesn’t care which factory manufactured it or how the product was marketed.<\/p>\n

He just knows that a certain sequence of events lead to a certain result.\u00a0 Scratching doggie bowl gets you him\/her dinner.<\/p>\n

Many guys who are successful with women operate on the same principle.\u00a0 They don’t have a system or a grand explanation for what they do.\u00a0 What they know however is this:<\/p>\n

If they go to certain venues, talk a bunch of women of similar ilk, say certain things, and lure them back to their house, they’ll get laid.\u00a0 So on any given weekend, they’ll go out, say the same usual bullshit to the same type of women enough times, and those sequence of events lead to certain results.<\/p>\n

There is no system, no method, no complicated schemes.\u00a0 In fact, some of the guys who are good with women are not that intelligent.\u00a0 Heck, some of them are kind of dumb.\u00a0 In particular, I know a couple of guys just like that.\u00a0 As a goof, a couple of friends and I try to figure out their IQ levels.\u00a0 We estimate it generously at a 103 or so, on a good day.\u00a0 On a bad day, it’s around 95….\u00a0 (Average human is around a 100.)<\/p>\n

It’s just that this one particular guy, not the sharpest tool in the shed, knows that if he goes to a bar, says his usual bullshit, talks to enough girls, eventually he’ll get something out of it.<\/p>\n

On any given weekend, bars from L.A to N.Y, across the nation host guys just like the one I mentioned above.\u00a0 This is not to imply that they’re all of average intelligence, but to indicated that they are guys who have sort of figured out what works for them in a very general format.<\/p>\n

So then what can you learn from such guys directly? Well, not much, because a lot of them don’t have any details as to what they’re doing.\u00a0 If you asked them to give you pointers, they’d tell you, “Well, I just go to the bar, have a few cocktails, and talk to some chicks. ”\u00a0 If there is one common belief amongst them it’s that they don’t give a shit about the process.\u00a0 There are nights they’ll go out, get wasted on alcohol and pass out. It’s not that big of a deal.<\/p>\n

So then, what makes these subset of dudes more successful than others?<\/p>\n

First and foremost, these guys possess a certain combination of Attributes <\/span>& Characteristics that make them attractive to women.\u00a0 It is for this reason that so much of what I teach is geared towards these “Attributes.”\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 If you have possess the right attributes, you can do OK for yourself.<\/p>\n

One of these Attributes is confidence but it goes beyond that.\u00a0 It’s how the confidence manifests itself, and the demeanor a person with confidence possesses.\u00a0 These attributes also include certain social skills, and a sense of social intelligence that sometimes certain guys lack.\u00a0 They can be learned, however.<\/p>\n

You also see guys who are not “Players” by any stretch of the imagination, and yet, have a really cute girlfriend.\u00a0 How does that happen?\u00a0 They have some appeal to them and while they may not have the intuitive social intelligence of a guy who is a “Player,” they are able to get what they want and be content with it.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, you can have all the methods in the world and without the attributes, they mean nothing.\u00a0 You can be like a robot pushing buttons but not getting results.\u00a0 Unfortunately, this is the paradigm many seduction-community guys get stuck in.<\/p>\n

It sounds like this:<\/p>\n

“Let’s see.\u00a0 I am going to approach her, and then I’ll have 3 distinct DHVs lined up.\u00a0 I will use two of these DHVs, save one for later, I’ll then neg her, and then for good measure, throw some cocky funny in there.\u00a0 If that doesn’t work, I will resort to the clown micro loop.”<\/p>\n

Is learning openers and such a bad idea?\u00a0 Not at all!\u00a0 Anything that can enable you to talk to women is a good idea.\u00a0 It’s getting sucked into complicated schemes and becoming married to concepts that are counterproductive.<\/p>\n

So what could you learn from Naturals? If you looked at their behavior, what could you deconstruct from it?<\/p>\n