How Do Women Gauge Your Confidence?? . One of the issues I enjoy discussing, one which sets this blog apart from its rivals, is the transition between the internal and the external.  I’ve dubbed it the Innergame-Outergame bridge.   It’s understanding how you feel about yourself internally exudes and manifests itself externally This is key to [...]

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Developing Presence, Determination,  & Grit through Focus . Question from Steve: Hi Cameron I really enjoy your articles and posts on your website- unlike most everyone else is the “industry” you write very well, without a lot of hype, hooks buzzwords and catchwords, you are the most common sense straightforward “normal behavior” guy I have [...]

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Developing Strength & Power as a Man .  Like you, I’ve read my fair share of self-help advice.  I’ve listened to enough people, and have taken from it what I can.  It can be a slippery slope however.  Too often, self-help becomes sort of a religion where people become void of independent thought, and depended [...]

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The Enemy or Friend within.  Your Subconscious Mind .  The importance of self-image is often neglected in the dating-advice arena and too often even those who preach confidence do so with the false bravado of the blissfully ignorant.  To understand yourself and your own psyche is the first step in enabling yourself to start moving [...]

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  The Cemented Vagina  .   A couple of weeks ago, a friend was in town.  He is preparing to move to Los Angeles, and someone I met through my late friend Seth.  This guy knows about the type of work that I do in the dating-field and so he asked me questions regarding a couple [...]

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Swingers Movie Review – Dating Lessons . Swingers, A Film Written by Jon Favreau Movie time!  If you read the Blog on a regular basis, you probably have figured out by now that I am somewhat of a movie buff.  Aside from their entertainment value, sometimes they’re reflections of our times, circumstances and emotions.   They can [...]

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Instinctive Mastery in Dating & Attracting Women . The last Blog entry evoked certain emotions from people regarding “Being Fine the way you are.”  Certainly, many people need to improve social skills, but then there are those whose greater problem is a poor self-image. I am going to get back to that shortly. It’s a common [...]

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Strengthening Your Innergame, Part 3 . Gaining Confidence is a gradual process that takes time.  Similar to building muscles, it’s a process of constantly making gains.  On one hand, it may seem frustrating that it’s a seemingly lengthy process, but on the other, its effects are much more longer lasting. Again, if you’ve spent the [...]

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Strengthening Your Innergame, Part 2 . A couple of weeks ago, I wrote part 1 of this segment, where I talked about the concept of Keep Moving Forward.  (If you haven’t read it, you ought to read that part first, here: http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/02/28/strengthening-your-inner-game In that post, I mentioned hypnosis as one possible (and very effective) way [...]

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Innergame, Confidence, Self Esteem, . Let’s talk Innergame. Firstly, the word “Innergame”, what the f*ck does that mean? What if you stumbled upon my blog from some walk of life and saw the phrase “Inner-game?” Would you know what it is?  Maybe you don’t and so let’s spend a minute defining what it is. Inner-game [...]

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