Strength Comes from Within
Like you, I’ve read my fair share of self-help advice.  I’ve listened to enough people, and have taken from it what I can.  It can be a slippery slope however.  Too often, self-help becomes sort of a religion where people become void of independent thought, and depended upon their guru of choice.  [...]

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The Enemy or Friend within.  Looking from the Inside Out….
 The importance of self-image is often neglected in the dating-advice arena and too often even those who preach confidence do so with the false bravado of the blissfully ignorant.
 To understand yourself and your own psyche is the first step in enabling yourself to start moving forward [...]

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The Cemented Vagina
  A couple of weeks ago, a friend was in town.  He is preparing to move to Los Angeles, and someone I met through my late friend Seth.  This guy knows about the type of work that I do in the dating-field and so he asked me questions regarding a couple of girls [...]

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 Movie time!  If you read the Blog on a regular basis, you probably have figured out by now that I am somewhat of a movie buff.  Aside from their entertainment value, sometimes they’re reflections of our times, circumstances and emotions.   They can be thought provoking and emotionally riveting.  They also can serve as visual references [...]

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The last Blog entry evoked certain emotions from people regarding “Being Fine the way you are.”  Certainly, many people need to improve social skills, but then there are those whose greater problem is a poor self-image. I am going to get back to that shortly.
It’s a common experience that the more you study a subject [...]

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 Gaining Confidence is a gradual process that takes time.  Similar to building muscles, it’s a process of constantly making gains.  On one hand, it may seem frustrating that it’s a seemingly lengthy process, but on the other, its effects are much more longer lasting. 
 Again, if you’ve spent the last 10 years weightlifting, those muscles are [...]

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A couple of weeks ago, I wrote part 1 of this segment, where I talked about the concept of Keep Moving Forward.  (If you haven’t read it, you ought to read that part first, here: http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/02/28/strengthening-your-inner-game
 In that post, I mentioned hypnosis as one possible (and very effective) way of handling “emotional baggage.”  I received a [...]

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Let’s talk Innergame. 
Firstly, the word “Innergame”, what the f*ck does that mean? 
What if you stumbled upon my blog from some walk of life and saw the phrase “Inner-game?” Would you know what it is?  Maybe you don’t and so let’s spend a minute defining what it is. 
Inner-game refers to self-confidence. What is having confidence mean [...]

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The other day, some guy asked me about contradictions that he runs into.  NLP people tell you to “Mirror” body language and then somebody else tells you to stand sideways, backwards, or to lean back.  Someone tells you to push your comfort zone, and another tells you be relaxed.   Well, one issue at a time:
 There [...]

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Sideways: A classic study in Dating and Beliefs
 
I am big a fan of using movies as a teaching tool.  A motion picture can really capture the non-verbal aspects of human interaction & communication so much better than any amount of written text could ever hope of doing.
There are a long list of movies/scenes relevant to [...]

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